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Looking for a good man ... I MEAN it !
« on: August 08, 2017, 03:00:35 AM »
From time to time FSU women I know ask SC if I could introduce them to western men and I tell them to create a profile and sift through the responses.

However, these two ladies are persistent in asking so here goes :

Lady No.1 is in her early forties and is from Ukraine - central southern - I know her and we didn't get past go as she sought a man who wanted kids and I already had kids and defo can't make more :)  However we stayed in touch.




Lady no.2 is from Sochi and a friend. She is originally from Tashkent and in her later forties. She owns her own home and rents out another for income. She speaks good English and has been married to a VERY wealthy Brit - but she is no gold-digger ( Trench)

She is very level headed and gets plenty of offers, locally - so doesn't need 'rescuing' from poverty or pen friends.




So gents - if you want contact details - AND are serious - contact me....  If you make a prat of yourself - it will be between you and the lady concerned and I will not post about it on here....

IF it works out - please invite us to the wedding ;)








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Re: Looking for a good man ... I MEAN it !
« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2017, 08:59:31 AM »
I like #1 the best.  Whoo Hoo!
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« Reply #2 on: August 08, 2017, 09:01:20 AM »
I like #1 the best.  Whoo Hoo!

You are married ( ? ) ;)

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« Reply #3 on: August 08, 2017, 09:06:53 AM »
You are married ( ? ) ;)


Yep, 18 yrs and I wouldn't trade Honeybunch for the world but I still enjoy looking!
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« Reply #4 on: August 08, 2017, 09:31:16 AM »
You are married ( ? ) ;)

I'm married too and the ladies know married guys are the best! That's why they want one.
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« Reply #5 on: August 08, 2017, 11:10:12 AM »
Number one has fingers that are too short.  Probably related to Trump.
But I love that dress . . . will she sell it ?

Number two has too much sun tan on her upper chest.

I, on the other hand, am perfect.
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« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2017, 01:24:57 PM »
I hope number 1 did not use that picture in a profile on sites attracting US men.  Every man looking at that picture for any length of time would spot that she has a wedding ring on.   Of course that is in the US.  Because most Americans do not know that Eastern Europeans wear wedding rings on the right hand.
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« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2017, 04:40:24 PM »
MARRIED GUYS ...  :D
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« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2017, 04:49:20 PM »
MARRIED GUYS ...  :D


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« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2017, 06:53:51 PM »
I'm single!  I'm sure that the second one would be able to keep me in the style to which I would like to become accustomed, while I visit the first one every other week!  8)

Just kidding - they both look very nice, Moby, and I wish them success in their search.

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« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2017, 07:47:24 PM »
I wish them success in their search.


What do you mean you wish them success? You don't want to be a part of their lives? You can make a difference by curing the loneliness those ladies are suffering from. Can we count on your support?
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« Reply #11 on: August 09, 2017, 01:30:36 AM »
Actually the way you are describing these women is causing a bias. #1 has a nice dress, cute butt what's not to like? #2 divorced from a wealthy Brit, has a typical mean soviet face, who the hell wants that?

Steamer, kindly keep your highly subjective bollox to yourself .. 
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« Reply #12 on: August 09, 2017, 06:11:34 AM »
Steamer, kindly keep your highly subjective bollox to yourself ..


Apologies. I should get a keyboard lock when I drink.
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« Reply #13 on: August 09, 2017, 06:48:07 AM »

Apologies. I should get a keyboard lock when I drink.

Thank  you
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« Reply #14 on: August 09, 2017, 07:14:04 PM »
What do you mean you wish them success? You don't want to be a part of their lives? You can make a difference by curing the loneliness those ladies are suffering from. Can we count on your support?

Sure, I would love to help out, but it's just not possible at present.  Maybe when I retire I can head back to the world of FSU dating - if I haven't already found someone in the meantime!  8)

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« Reply #15 on: August 09, 2017, 08:35:20 PM »
Maybe when I retire I can head back to the world of FSU dating


Retire soon. You're missing out on the fun.  ;)
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« Reply #16 on: August 11, 2017, 04:32:01 PM »
Moby you of course told them what a fine upstanding young man I am  :thumbsup:

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« Reply #17 on: August 11, 2017, 11:25:01 PM »
Moby you of course told them what a fine upstanding young man I am  :thumbsup:

You are at the top of their list

The list marked AVOID 
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« Reply #18 on: August 11, 2017, 11:38:48 PM »
You are at the top of their list


No you are at the top of their list Moby. I got it all figured out. They seen the success your wife had with you and they want the same. Maybe not exactly the same but the same. They want a guy with your good looks, chiseled chin and movie star quality hair. They want a  toned and tanned rock hard body. They want a man with good manners, charming, and has a world class sense of humor. They want a man that is as kind as Mother Teresa yet as strong and protective as Superman. I don't know if I'm missing anything when describing you but to simplify it, they want the complete and exceptional package that you offer. Is there a man in this house that feels he can measure up to Moby? Because that is what it takes to top the list.
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« Reply #19 on: August 12, 2017, 12:07:02 AM »
BillyB, thanks for allowing to us see your vivid imagination at play.

This was SCs idea ...

Ah, 'GOT IT' should I be 'worried' ? ;)

The blond lady will soon wake up and prepare coffee and I'll jump start her car - which she bought from SC - several years ago .....   I think BillyB might be taking the idea of 'helping a friend' to extremes !

It is a rather sad reflection of the times that the 'action' on this thread is married guys or sociopaths

Anyway, SC is aiding me in a project to use renewable sources for antennae reception - to aid our mutual understanding - of course



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« Reply #20 on: August 12, 2017, 07:17:38 AM »
I'll jump start her car

Is that the latest euphemism that is being used these days ??
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« Reply #21 on: August 12, 2017, 07:54:27 AM »
You are at the top of their list

The list marked AVOID 

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« Reply #22 on: August 12, 2017, 11:43:30 AM »
.

This was SCs idea ...

Ah, 'GOT IT' should I be 'worried' ? ;)

The blond lady will soon wake up and prepare coffee and I'll jump start her car - which she bought from SC - several years ago .....   I think BillyB might be taking the idea of 'helping a friend' to extremes !

It is a rather sad reflection of the times that the 'action' on this thread is married guys or sociopaths

Anyway, SC is aiding me in a project to use renewable sources for antennae reception - to aid our mutual understanding - of course


Your experience mirrors others on RWD  who have raised the issue of having a friend who was interested for an introduction  --little response.
I would have thought if a guy was serious -he would pm -- not post in a thread ( unless the attention seeker some clearly are -- I am making a serious response so not aiming at diatribe on that point!) Maybe some have shown discretion?

      That said -- if a guy had ANY brains he would jump at the chance to get a walk up start into like this .Realistically -- the first and hardest part is to establish a reality .I have always been prepared to meet as many as possible -- forget the smart arse presumptions on that --it was always to meet,talk,learn,interact etc etc If nothing else--it is excellent practice!!
   
       Contrary to some of the dills here --the odds of meeting one and that being "THE" one have to be nearly as long as the search  odds in itself . I am no proponent of the idea that a lengthy pre visit interaction means much at all. ( as an example -jone recently made a contact and within a short time ( weeks?) he made a short visit -- and that is after previously  having a lot of time in the FSU previously and numerous short and long real interactions with FSUW -- all that building knowledge and HOPEFULLY learning a lot in the process )   
     That all goes to the point I was thinking of here --for me --it was never about finding "A" girl -- but a very special one ! MrsB often makes a point about the "LOVE" word --and I often wonder where that concept fits with guys making a shopping list of physical features !!
      A major point I would make is this -- I have made quite a lot of Ukrainian( & Russian !) friends & acquaintances  -men & women -- so I have been able to  socialise in what I consider a "normal"way eg invitation to go  xxxxxxxxxx etc . Often to find they have bought someone along to meet -- or to a place where there is a possibility to meet etc I have always thought it is easiest to meet girls when you are already in the company of  girl/s. eg just recently a very attractive lady ,nearly as tall as me,blonde, slim,immaculately presented  etc started  overtly flirting with me in the presence of my lady ( who is also tallish  and incredibly beautiful !) and it was hard work keeping a straight face and showing disinterest !  In a different circumstance and I was "free" --she would have had 110% of my attention -- but I wonder if she would have been as she was if I was not already with a beautiful girl !
 
     Now in Moby's case --here is an opportunity to practice and hone meeting skills ! Maybe one of these girls is not "THE" one for you -- but she may have another friend -- you never know what it can lead to !  What you can learn from the real life experience can save you a lot of time and money !

     Guys come here asking about this or that website ,how do I meet etc-- well --here is a walk up start !
I know Moby will be doing some editing of guys ( I certainly would before attempting ANY intro to any girls I know ) and that is an opportunity to get more info -- so come on guys -- give it a fly !

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Re: Looking for a good man ... I MEAN it !
« Reply #23 on: August 12, 2017, 12:35:31 PM »
     Guys come here asking about this or that website ,how do I meet etc-- well --here is a walk up start !
I know Moby will be doing some editing of guys ( I certainly would before attempting ANY intro to any girls I know ) and that is an opportunity to get more info -- so come on guys -- give it a fly !


I think it's in most people's, men and women, nature to want to choose their life partner themselves instead of having someone help them. Also, maybe the single guys here are too shy to speak up? Married guys aren't shy, that's why we got the girl.
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« Reply #24 on: August 12, 2017, 02:09:58 PM »
      That said -- if a guy had ANY brains he would jump at the chance to get a walk up start into like this .Realistically -- the first and hardest part is to establish a reality .I have always been prepared to meet as many as possible -- forget the smart arse presumptions on that --it was always to meet,talk,learn,interact etc etc If nothing else--it is excellent practice!!   

Stop the presses! alert the media and those with pace makers should stop
reading NOW! Jay and I agree! I think that any smart and level headed
member would love to meet a woman who is known to be sincere.

I am very, very, very happily married but that first lady has a
smile that that could make waking up every morning a dream.

The second lady might have those smokey eyes that causing men
to throw caution to the wind and end up writing poems that don't
rhyme and reciting them outside her window  ;D

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