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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2000 on: August 07, 2018, 12:18:42 PM »
Krimster, not a wise idea to post your children's photos here . . . or anywhere on Internet.

Haven't you read about some of the tragic consequences and events?
Winston Churchill.  “The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.”

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2001 on: August 07, 2018, 12:30:35 PM »
yes, I agree, risky, but more from idiocy then anything else (at least on this board)
I promised Bo
and a promise made
is a promise kept

they already get LOADS of attention, my oldest has received many modeling offers, I told her she'll have to wait until she is 18
so in a year or two if she still pursues this her image might be used to sell cereal or something.... up to her if it's what she wants
sadly they are both quite used to sexual harassment but they can fend it off pretty easily, two tough girls
my oldest is a "protector" she watches over the handicapped kids in school who get bullied, humans....

вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

вот как я могу создать американскую личность
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2002 on: August 07, 2018, 02:10:47 PM »
really, you find it amusing...

Yup.

..failure can sometimes be a better teacher than success, think about it who do you think would know first that their relationship would have a serious "life threatening issue" you or msmob

Good. I have my belief and so do you.

i've had one marriage with one woman, I am super fortunate that my marriage has worked out for going on 19 yr
but my depth in this subject is not as deep as someone like msmob
I understand that he has way more experience than me
and I understand that you have none
so go ahead and be amused by the tragedy in other people's lives if it makes you feel superior

Not that your blessing was ever needed...but I shall remain 'amused' .
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2003 on: August 07, 2018, 02:42:23 PM »
Your daughters are pretty, krimster.
To love someone means to see him as God intended him. - Fyodor Dostoevksy

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2004 on: August 07, 2018, 03:04:44 PM »
spossiba!  fortunately, they look more like their mother than me!!
вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2005 on: August 07, 2018, 03:57:34 PM »
Krimster, not a wise idea to post your children's photos here . . . or anywhere on Internet.

Haven't you read about some of the tragic consequences and events?


Because teens never share their images on a multitude of incredibky more trafficked internet sites.
?


At his children's ages,
This concern seems akin fretting the water quality in the Pepsi your child drinks.

I'm not making light of remote possible consequences,  just pointing out the reality of most teenagers social lives.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2006 on: August 07, 2018, 04:27:41 PM »
There is a thread titled "Children" on this board where many posted pictures of their kids.


krimster you might want to move the photos of your daughters there
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« Reply #2007 on: August 07, 2018, 05:40:52 PM »
you're right jumper, both my daughters were on national TV a few years back in regards to them raising money to buy school supplies for needy kids in their school (maybe 1 out 4)
my oldest daughter entered and won a local beauty contest this year, and was captain of the girl's basketball team, the local paper would run a picture of her at least once a month (we live in a small town)  and social media, my oldest LIVES on social media...
way, way more exposure from this, than the 20-30 potential viewers here
a "calculated risk" on my part

вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2008 on: August 07, 2018, 06:12:12 PM »
GQ, let me leave you with a thought...

some people have a view that their success is SOLELY the result of their own effort and ability
while that’s certainly a major contributing factor, I think it leaves out an important detail, and that is just pure and simple luck.

it reminds me of the old proverb “for want of a nail” reminding us that seemingly unimportant details can have grave and unforeseen consequences.

I can totally forsee the possibility that if just one little tiny detail had been changed in my 19 yr marriage, and that little detail was for “want of a nail”, that I might be divorced right now!  and that SOME of those details working in our favor were just a matter of luck

so if someone else is just LESS fortunate than me, I’m not going to kick them for it
what would be the point of that, unless doing so made you feel better about your own abilities
and I’m not made that way...

I’ve had PLENTY of “break-ups” with past girlfriends (I know not the same at all as marriage)
but the knowledge I’ve gained from these break-ups has been very helpful in maintaining future relationships

moy dva kopec
вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2009 on: August 07, 2018, 08:43:44 PM »
beefarmer

you shouldn't dump that label of abuse on me or my family
to me that's a serious charge
and is "triggering"

If you don't like it, then don't use anger and intimidation towards your family members. 

You have only yourself to blame.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2010 on: August 07, 2018, 09:01:42 PM »
if you think expressing anger, even mildly is abuse - go right ahead and think that....
but again to me, a GUY WHO HAS ACTUALLY RAISED CHILDREN
your perception is, as our British cousins say "absolute bullocks"
good luck in YOUR search BeeFarmer, I really think you're going to need it
and all your meetings with women whether in Ukraine or in Mongolia
will end exactly like your one and only meeting in Ukraine...



вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2011 on: August 07, 2018, 09:08:05 PM »
PitBull,

is there something about my children's pictures that bothers you, I wonder WHAT that could be?  :)

I've already explained the reason why I posted here and apologized for it
I have MAJOR jet lag right now and just don't have the energy to sort out the photo issue i'm having on this site, again sorry...
вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

вот как я могу создать американскую личность
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2012 on: August 08, 2018, 04:31:38 AM »
PitBull,

is there something about my children's pictures that bothers you, I wonder WHAT that could be?  :)

I've already explained the reason why I posted here and apologized for it
I have MAJOR jet lag right now and just don't have the energy to sort out the photo issue i'm having on this site, again sorry...
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Jumpy much?

You seemed frazzled about this whole picture issue so I pointed you towards a thread where most people post post pictures of their kids. Many more posters have kids ya know ;)
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2013 on: August 08, 2018, 08:12:54 AM »
i'm " frazzled " by pretty much everything at the moment, will take me a few days to recover from being in Russia
in a world full of starving children, i don't think which section I post 2 small pictures in on rwd will have some material effect on the well being of the universe
in another day everyone will forget about it (my intention), so hopefully it will be of diminishing concern for you Pitbull

BO, my dacha is is about 300 meters away from the Alma river, I have a very nice inflatable raft I brought there years ago, very expensive, made of Kevlar and nearly indestructible
I'm sure it will outlast me!
I was hoping the kids and I would take a little rafting trip down the Alma.
I went down to the Alma to have a look...
Gozpedy!  THERE IS NO ALMA!!!
the river is gone, barely a trickle and a few wet spots is all that remains of the Alma, my wife was in tears

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2014 on: August 08, 2018, 11:43:15 AM »
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2015 on: August 08, 2018, 12:09:32 PM »
GQ, let me leave you with a thought...


Yup. It's what you do.


Me. I shall remain amused.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2016 on: August 08, 2018, 01:44:55 PM »
i'm " frazzled " by pretty much everything at the moment, will take me a few days to recover from being in Russia
in a world full of starving children, i don't think which section I post 2 small pictures in on rwd will have some material effect on the well being of the universe
in another day everyone will forget about it (my intention), so hopefully it will be of diminishing concern for you Pitbull




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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2017 on: August 08, 2018, 04:18:52 PM »
if that's true, then maybe you stop complaining about it, if it's not asking too much from you
вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2018 on: August 08, 2018, 04:28:05 PM »
if that's true, then maybe you stop complaining about it, if it's not asking too much from you

Nobody complained- it was a friendly gesture. Geez you might be on a spectrum indeed
Are you upset that hardly anyone noticed or paid attention? ;)
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2019 on: August 08, 2018, 04:32:55 PM »
Well, quick update, I'm not having much luck in Belarus. Getting that Match.com feeling :( messages going out but few replies. They look at my profile but then no reply.

So not really sure what is happening there. In Ukraine & Russia I tend to get more response so will try Ukraine again next.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2020 on: August 08, 2018, 04:37:01 PM »
not upset about anything on this board BO
but upset? yes, very, very much so...
my wife and I are both feeling a lot of distress about Krim
it was BAD

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2021 on: August 08, 2018, 05:04:00 PM »
trench,

maybe it's just math, Ukraine has maybe 4 or 5 times as many people as Belarus
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2022 on: August 08, 2018, 05:22:14 PM »
Well, quick update, I'm not having much luck in Belarus. Getting that Match.com feeling :( messages going out but few replies. They look at my profile but then no reply.

So not really sure what is happening there. In Ukraine & Russia I tend to get more response so will try Ukraine again next.

What's in your profile as far as describing who you are, and who you are looking for?

Here copy paste this.
I almost(almost) guarantee it will get some responces.

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I'm an English gentleman, looking for a cat.
No cats have written me, so I thought my luck might be better with a woman.
 I'm looking for a women with a sense of humor, because she will need it.

I'm serious.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2023 on: August 08, 2018, 05:47:10 PM »
trench,

maybe it's just math, Ukraine has maybe 4 or 5 times as many people as Belarus

Think that's probably it Krimster if that's the case. Looking on Fdating there seems to be a lot more pages with a lot more girls logged in within a day for Ukraine than for Belarus.

I'm guessing perhaps word has spread that it's now 30 day visa free so more guys looking there or girls knowing the guys are more likely to visit.

I'll give the Ukrainian girls a try tomorrow and see if I get more luck there :)
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2024 on: August 08, 2018, 05:53:36 PM »
What's in your profile as far as describing who you are, and who you are looking for?

Here copy paste this.
I almost(almost) guarantee it will get some responces.

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I'm an English gentleman, looking for a cat.
No cats have written me, so I thought my luck might be better with a woman.
 I'm looking for a women with a sense of humor, because she will need it.

I'm serious.

////

I try to keep my profile informative. All good stuff though I think, some stuff suggested on here from Krimster etc that also fits in with me, serious stuff.

Maybe I'll give what you suggest a try if I get no more luck with Ukrainian girls. I try to avoid funny stuff unless it's something I would naturally come out with as when the girl gets to know me she'll see that I don't usually come out with that sort if stuff. It's kind of what appeals to me about FSW that they are apparently not into clowning around stuff.
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