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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2725 on: May 06, 2019, 09:06:05 AM »
I was introduced to a friend of a close female friend. I bought her a drink. 15 minutes later she had her hands down my pants in the pub car park, trying to entice me back to her house.

Reminds me of my very first day in Japan as a 17 year old boy.

Went into a bar and wondered how to go about picking up a gal.

The first gal that walked up to me grabbed my crotch and said: "You want to buy me a drink?"

I thought I had died and gone to heaven !!
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2726 on: May 06, 2019, 10:04:43 AM »


You can't say Boe that dating in the FSU isn't different. How many girls in western society would repay a guy buying them a meal by spreading their legs right after?


I am struggling to comprehend Trench..

Is he suggesting FSW have opened their legs for him, because he bought them a meal?....I seriously think not...

Trench is just too daft to realise that people indulge in games for two ( normally) because of a connection and trust..

That happens whether in the west or the FSU..

Honestly, Trench...do you read before posting such bollox?

« Last Edit: May 06, 2019, 08:34:32 PM by msmob »

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2727 on: May 06, 2019, 04:46:50 PM »
If Ukraine's economy was not in such a state they would be doing the same as Russia and paying women to stay at home until the child is 2. Economic pressure can push women to do more in curtain situations which call for it. Yet the best state of affairs for society and both genders is for the woman to stay at home and keep home and not think selfishly in going out for more.

No, Ukraine's issue is not the economy.  It is that politicians are in office to enrich themselves, and don't care about the well being of the population, or the country. 

If you think the best thing for women is to stay home to take care of a home, then presumably, you also think they should receive 60% or more of marital assets, plus the matrimonial home if children are still living there, in the event of a dissolution of the marriage, and, as primary caregivers, full custody of any children of the marriage.

Personally, I reject the idea that it is "better for society" for women to stay home.  Children do need a parent home  before they start school, but that period is rather short.  The only way that can be done in today's world is for government to provide significant tax benefits, so that the majority of families can afford such a set up.

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It's not great in the workplace for a load of people to end up working part time, better to have people their full time rather than trying to further their careers on a part time basis, essentially they are not whole heartedly committed to either task.

Untrue.  Happy workers living balanced lives are the most productive.

However, if you wish to take this tack, then physician, heal thyself. 

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I don't think the Russian part was significant enough that anything not translated woyld significantly change what was said. In any case I will use Google Voice translate when I get time and see if that comes up with anything significant.

Since you don't know what was said, and I do, I disagree.

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You can't say Boe that dating in the FSU isn't different. How many girls in western society would repay a guy buying them a meal by spreading their legs right after?

Proof yet again of your misogyny.

First, as Davo and ML pointed out, you can find women who will, as you so vulgarly put it, "spread their legs" right after a guy buys them a meal or a drink.   It's why I laughed at another poster coming here to crow about a 20 something UW coming to his bed the night they met.  Wow!  What an accomplishment!  A foreigner with money bedding a girl looking for nothing more than a good time. 

I remember a poster here who visited Ukraine for a week.  A few weeks later, he posted about how he'd just been out on a date with an AW, she paid for dinner, and he got laid.  He compared it to his Ukrainian foray, where he shelled out for 3 dinners, and didn't get laid once.  He wasn't complaining, he posted in a humorous way, which is why I remember that post.  He also wasn't someone with no or limited experience with women. 

The fact is, not every FSUW is going to "spread her legs" after a dinner, just as not every WW does.  In fact, the vast majority of FSUW will not.  But if this is your thinking, why are you looking for a wife in a country where the women are, in your mind, sluts with no morals?  After all, even with a child, such a woman will find another man for whom she can "spread (her) legs".

This post was composed without the aid of google.
« Last Edit: May 10, 2019, 03:36:34 PM by Boethius »
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2728 on: May 06, 2019, 08:28:45 PM »
I would remind everyone of this link:
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?action=ezportal;sa=page;p=24

In particular this section:
Be a gentleman in all respects. Being a gentleman comes with many obligations. It's not just opening doors or taking a lady's hand as she alights from a car. It includes taking responsibility for all of the masculine duties and showing a lady the ultimate in respect and care.

Gentlemanly behavior isn't an option with most FSUW. There is an expectation that you will be decisive, attentive and well-mannered at all times.

A gentleman should accept financial responsibility for dates, and expect nothing in return for dates or gifts given. If you invite a lady to dinner be prepared to happily pay for the bill without question or expectation of any returned favors by the lady. A FSU man would almost always pay the costs of a date and western men dating in FSU should do no less.

Paying for a date doesn't mean you should expect any privileges or favors, but often a lady will make her own contributions later on through special things she will do for her man. Some of these things might appear to have a low financial cost to you but may be of significant personal value to her.

If you are taking responsibility for arranging dating activities, you will be the one to set the pace of the expenditure. A man should never outspend his capacity but he should understand there is an expectation that he will not rely on a lady to pay half the costs.

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2729 on: May 06, 2019, 11:06:30 PM »
A good FSU woman will attenuate her requests to something that is comfortable for her man to provide.   One who doesn't should not be indulged past the revealing encounter.  For those FSU women reading this, take notice. 
Kissing girls is a goodness.  It beats the hell out of card games.  - Robert Heinlein

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2730 on: May 07, 2019, 09:45:24 PM »
Reminds me of my very first day in Japan as a 17 year old boy.

Went into a bar and wondered how to go about picking up a gal.

The first gal that walked up to me grabbed my crotch and said: "You want to buy me a drink?"

I thought I had died and gone to heaven !!

I think you got the better deal. The next morning I realised it wasn’t the smartest decision I’d made in my life.... she had already decided I was her new boyfriend. It took a 2 days to convince her it wasn’t happening!! 😣
« Last Edit: May 07, 2019, 09:47:36 PM by Davo »

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2731 on: May 09, 2019, 10:04:25 AM »
Quote from: ML on May 06, 2019, 11:06:05 AM
Reminds me of my very first day in Japan as a 17 year old boy.

Went into a bar and wondered how to go about picking up a gal.

The first gal that walked up to me grabbed my crotch and said: "You want to buy me a drink?"

I thought I had died and gone to heaven !!

- - - - - - - - - -

I think you got the better deal. The next morning I realised it wasn’t the smartest decision I’d made in my life.... she had already decided I was her new boyfriend. It took a 2 days to convince her it wasn’t happening!! 😣

I just remembered more about that time.

On board Navy ship we had been given talk that most all of the gals there had some sort of STD.

So with this first gal I was somewhat worried.  Then, I looked at her completely bare back (still in the bar) and didn't see any sores or scabs.  Thus I was pretty sure she had no STDs.

Pretty wise analysis I would say.
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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2732 on: May 10, 2019, 04:24:01 AM »
Quote from: ML on May 06, 2019, 11:06:05 AM
 

On board Navy ship we had been given talk that most all of the gals there had some sort of STD.

So with this first gal I was somewhat worried.  Then, I looked at her completely bare back (still in the bar) and didn't see any sores or scabs.  Thus I was pretty sure she had no STDs.

Pretty wise analysis I would say.

I trust you posted this 'medical assessment 'tongue  in cheek, so to speak..? 

Seeing a 'clean' bareback is not the wisest citeria to go bareback...

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Re: Trench's Questions and Philosophies
« Reply #2733 on: May 30, 2019, 07:24:32 PM »
Isn't it pretty cynical to assume that the prettier the girl the more materialistic she is?

Of course, I guess that I tend to be the more optimistic in my outlook.
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