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Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« on: December 15, 2018, 01:30:40 PM »
I would like to know what in general of course do Russian Women think about being called beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, etc. I often say when addressing emails to my girlfriend, "hello my beautiful ______" I have read that it can be offensive because they view the compliment that they are model.

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #1 on: December 16, 2018, 12:47:45 AM »
Every woman likes to hear her man thinks she’s beautiful.

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #2 on: December 16, 2018, 01:06:08 AM »
Cannot comment  about addressing in that manner -- my first thought is that it needs to be sincere.
As for telling your lady she is beautiful-- cannot be done often enough!!
Of course --it is preferable that the beauty is more than skin deep ! ;D
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 translated as: Glory to Ukraine! Glory to the heroes!!!  is a Ukrainian greeting slogan being used now all over Ukraine to signify support for a free independent Ukraine

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Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #3 on: December 16, 2018, 11:07:24 AM »
Every woman likes to hear her man thinks she’s beautiful.

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Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #4 on: December 16, 2018, 11:10:27 AM »
I would like to know what in general of course do Russian Women think about being called beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, etc. I often say when addressing emails to my girlfriend, "hello my beautiful ______" I have read that it can be offensive because they view the compliment that they are model.


Go here and learn a couple dozen compliments or so.
http://www.meighan.net/alexander/Chapter3.htm


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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #5 on: December 16, 2018, 12:02:20 PM »

Complimenting a woman too much can be a turn off. If you tell your woman you love her or she's beautiful too much, you can cheapen the meaning. Most women want to know they are beautiful but you aren't in awe of them. When going out on dates, I give a woman one compliment. It could be her clothes, shoes, hair, etc.. is looking good but I don't go on and on.
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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #6 on: January 06, 2019, 06:18:58 AM »
My take would be that Russian women understand that words are cheap. It does not cost anything to shovel her with compliments. 

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #7 on: January 09, 2019, 06:52:14 PM »
Cannot comment  about addressing in that manner -- my first thought is that it needs to be sincere.
As for telling your lady she is beautiful-- cannot be done often enough!!
Of course --it is preferable that the beauty is more than skin deep ! ;D
Good answer!:)

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #8 on: January 10, 2019, 01:00:54 AM »
Good answer!:)

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Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #9 on: January 10, 2019, 09:17:40 AM »
Good answer!:)

Welcome to the forum!

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #10 on: March 11, 2019, 03:13:02 AM »
It's important to tell your wife, at least on weekly basis, the lady with whom you have a long term relationship that she is beautiful (is she is) or everything you deeply like in her and which really belong to her and make her unique.

Otherwise, and that's a real cancer, MEN shut up. Stop to unload this s.... to unknow women or first dates. Stop to tell them that they are beautiful, that's really destroying relationships as they get a continual overboost in ego and start to act as contemptuous and arrogant people, expecting unbelievable treatment.

I was surprised at Boryspol airport to deal with a 42 years old woman (7+) of Kiev on Badoo who acted like a spoiled girl few months ago. It was something totally inusual for me in the FSU dating i have know till now.She was bitchy, agressive. I only met one girl through all my life like this and she was less upfront.

But you need to understand that if she opens a live chat on Badoo there will be 30/50/100/140 guys lurking her with their jaws dropped to the floor sending a "you are amazing, you are beautiful, i want to f... and some other comments i don't want to display" EVERY MINUTE OR THIRTY SECONDS. That's really shocking. You need to open a live chat one day to understand.

Men have to really stop this, they lower themselves every second and make every next meeting harder and raise the risk to be dropped like a hot patato anytime.
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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2019, 10:45:45 AM »
A beautiful woman knows she is beautiful, whether you tell her this or not.  Moreover, with make up now, any woman can be beautiful.  Don't believe me?  Check this make up artist's instagram -

http://www.instagram.com/arber_bytyqi_mua/?hl=en

The point is, I don't think telling a woman she is beautiful "ruins" her.  She was "ruined" before she ever heard those words.

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Re: Russian women and being told they are beautiful
« Reply #12 on: March 11, 2019, 12:18:03 PM »

She was bitchy, agressive. I only met one girl through all my life like this and she was less upfront.


To her credit, she was genuine, hiding nothing from you.   :ROFL:

 

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