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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #125 on: March 22, 2019, 02:05:40 PM »
Tom  don't care having a blast thanks and she looks and dresses better than Megan fox.  I don't think I've seen such a hot looking brunet in London ever.


Well, as long as you realise what you're in is a mutually beneficial arrangement and not a relationship...


Be braced for some here to confirm your status as a sex tourist. There are hot sugar babies in London, as much as you an Trench protest to the contrary.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #126 on: March 22, 2019, 02:11:22 PM »
Probably a psychologist dream.  I'm dating back the age of woman and child the same as the start of my divorce.  A 20 year relationship that once the kids came along was virtually sexless.   So I've been able to live a moment in time.  Maybe Megan fox and I work out maybe we don't.   Life from conception to death is  a gamble

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« Reply #127 on: March 22, 2019, 02:12:43 PM »
Tom  don't care having a blast thanks and she looks and dresses better than Megan fox.  I don't think I've seen such a hot looking brunet in London ever.

James,

I hope everything works out for you but I highly recommend having
a back up plan.


FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #128 on: March 22, 2019, 02:13:25 PM »
I don't think I've seen such a hot looking brunet in London ever.

I am sure of that....Brunettes, perhaps?

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #129 on: March 22, 2019, 02:41:19 PM »
Sure there are thick sugar babes in London but one with an engineering degree and not totally  in love with themselves is not easy to find

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #130 on: March 22, 2019, 03:44:08 PM »
Bill there is a back up plan.  See where this road leads.  If necessary end relationship and Start again.  Definetly with a Ukrainian as the 2 I have dated have been exactly what I like in a woman except their network of lovers and ex husbands

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #131 on: March 22, 2019, 04:00:29 PM »
Bill there is a back up plan.  See where this road leads.  If necessary end relationship and Start again.  Definetly with a Ukrainian as the 2 I have dated have been exactly what I like in a woman except their network of lovers and ex husbands
Life for young FSU women is accelerated by five to ten years.
As i suppose you are in the fourties the ladies you are dating are at least 35, probably in the beginning of 40.
So you cannot expect them to be blank from their birth. Marriage, divorce, lovers that's common for this age.
And network is encapsulated in women soul, it is exactly a great composant of their status in the society.
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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #132 on: March 22, 2019, 04:03:39 PM »
Bill there is a back up plan.  See where this road leads.  If necessary end relationship and Start again.  Definetly with a Ukrainian as the 2 I have dated have been exactly what I like in a woman except their network of lovers and ex husbands

Why? You are proudly being one of them, you are not seeking a relationship or a wife, you want to "have a blast" aka you want sex with beautiful ladies and are getting just that - mission accomplished I would say.

Multitasking means screwing up several things at once.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #133 on: March 22, 2019, 07:35:32 PM »
Why? You are proudly being one of them, you are not seeking a relationship or a wife, you want to "have a blast" aka you want sex with beautiful ladies and are getting just that - mission accomplished I would say.


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #134 on: March 22, 2019, 08:54:15 PM »
 :rolleyes:
Sure there are thick sugar babes in London but one with an engineering degree and not totally  in love with themselves is not easy to find


You are just like Trench

Plenty of local lasses to be found..

Some of us choose to look overseas..some make excuses



« Last Edit: March 23, 2019, 01:13:10 AM by msmob »

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #135 on: March 23, 2019, 12:45:36 AM »
James - you are a sex tourist in denial.

No woman fit for a long-term relationship would invite a man from a foreign country to stay with her without first meeting him (and developing a relationship).

You are cheap, and you are getting milked. Enjoy the phone sex because there is an inevitable pothole you'll eventually realise you have stepped in. Admit it for what it is - a FWB online hook-up. Nothing immoral about that, but you seem to be lying to yourself and immigration officials.

Keep calm and carry on in the knowledge you are a common garden-variety sex tourist.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #136 on: March 23, 2019, 01:19:37 AM »
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No woman fit for a long-term relationship would invite a man from a foreign country to stay with her without first meeting him (and developing a relationship).

May be you have a point..

My now ex Russian wife ca.e to stay at my apartment in Cyprus the first time we met. Not the same bedroom .. I was a gentleman...for as long as possible..

When I first visited SC, I stayed at her apartment.  We had v chatted for five months and decided it was plain silly for me to stay at another place...




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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #137 on: March 23, 2019, 06:23:26 AM »
I think due to most of FSU culture being working class they are less bothered about stay overs. It will be dependent on the individual, some will still be quite modest, etc but many will be easy going and want to just get on with whatever sort of relationship is ongoing.

I think with the FSU Dating on the internet it is so easy to go for the hottest girls and when they respond get carried away. Recently I have been viewing girls and come across a few really hot girls in the 9 or 10 looks category. The thing is now having met at least one 8-10 girl I know what I'm in for, it's enticing but I really want a serious relationship and I know particularly in my position these girls are unlikely to be able to deliver it. Like James has said they can be a blast to be with but it takes a bit of discipline in search to avoid these type of hotties if a serious relationship is what is wanted. After all many of these sites are full of film star look a like girls and it's easy to want to try one after another. It is true though what James says in the UK the equivalent girl or less would come with a major attitude issue.

I personally think James strays quite easily, I think he's initial outset is for a relationship but hasn't developed the discipline yet to stick with that and avoid the hotties. He already has had a LTR with kids with an English woman so does he really want another LTR so soon or spend a bit of time having a blast with various hot FSW before going for a more serious relationship again, if he decides he wants that at all?
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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #138 on: March 23, 2019, 06:56:34 AM »
James - you are a sex tourist in denial.

No woman fit for a long-term relationship would invite a man from a foreign country to stay with her without first meeting him (and developing a relationship).

You are cheap, and you are getting milked. Enjoy the phone sex because there is an inevitable pothole you'll eventually realise you have stepped in. Admit it for what it is - a FWB online hook-up. Nothing immoral about that, but you seem to be lying to yourself and immigration officials.

Keep calm and carry on in the knowledge you are a common garden-variety sex tourist.

I completely understand your statement rwd, and you might very well be correct. But lets not be too hasty. I think James is looking for affection, not sex. These are two different chemicals in the brain, the former requires an amount of bonding to take place, the later is released during sex. The later is dominant in most men, but not all. Since James might be looking for the former, I think that is why he is willing to live a 3rd world conditions 24/7 in order to form that bond. If I am correct, I would only advise James to slow down and take his time. I too would suggest his first visit be from his own apartment

imo- The garden variety sex tourist pays when he WANTS the girl to leave. Or as Charlie Sheen unashamedly said, I pay them to leave.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #139 on: March 23, 2019, 07:02:24 AM »
Trench...did you ever vosit the USSR?

Thought not..

Do not think...  it rarely works out well for you.


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #140 on: March 23, 2019, 08:50:41 AM »
I think due to most of FSU culture being working class they are less bothered about stay overs. It will be dependent on the individual, some will still be quite modest, etc but many will be easy going and want to just get on with whatever sort of relationship is ongoing.

I think with the FSU Dating on the internet it is so easy to go for the hottest girls and when they respond get carried away. Recently I have been viewing girls and come across a few really hot girls in the 9 or 10 looks category. The thing is now having met at least one 8-10 girl I know what I'm in for, it's enticing but I really want a serious relationship and I know particularly in my position these girls are unlikely to be able to deliver it. Like James has said they can be a blast to be with but it takes a bit of discipline in search to avoid these type of hotties if a serious relationship is what is wanted. After all many of these sites are full of film star look a like girls and it's easy to want to try one after another. It is true though what James says in the UK the equivalent girl or less would come with a major attitude issue.

I personally think James strays quite easily, I think he's initial outset is for a relationship but hasn't developed the discipline yet to stick with that and avoid the hotties. He already has had a LTR with kids with an English woman so does he really want another LTR so soon or spend a bit of time having a blast with various hot FSW before going for a more serious relationship again, if he decides he wants that at all?


Proving yet again you understand ZERO about FSU societies.  It has nothing to do with coming from the proletariat, which has zero cross section with the British working class. 


I will repeat - A woman with a child asking a man she has never met in person to stay in her apartment has her own agenda.


I also agree James is a sex tourist.  As long as he discloses that upfront to women, no foul.  But if he is lying to women, then he it's another story.


Oh, and James, my husband is right here beside me, reading the Russian news and texting with his sister in Kyiv.


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #141 on: March 23, 2019, 11:58:08 AM »
James - you are a sex tourist in denial.

No woman fit for a long-term relationship would invite a man from a foreign country to stay with her without first meeting him (and developing a relationship).

You are cheap, and you are getting milked. Enjoy the phone sex because there is an inevitable pothole you'll eventually realise you have stepped in. Admit it for what it is - a FWB online hook-up. Nothing immoral about that, but you seem to be lying to yourself and immigration officials.

Keep calm and carry on in the knowledge you are a common garden-variety sex tourist.


Hryhorii Skovoroda wrote about being caught, like a bird in a net, by our physical desires, ultimately affecting our soul/spiritual development.   James is caught in this net, whether he knows it or not.  Perhaps between sex trips, he should read some Skovoroda.


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #142 on: March 23, 2019, 11:59:14 AM »
May be you have a point..

My now ex Russian wife ca.e to stay at my apartment in Cyprus the first time we met. Not the same bedroom .. I was a gentleman...for as long as possible..

When I first visited SC, I stayed at her apartment.  We had v chatted for five months and decided it was plain silly for me to stay at another place...


Did either of them have young children in tow?


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #143 on: March 24, 2019, 02:26:44 PM »
Well on London bus home not sure where to go with this.  I have never visited the f s u where I have not stayed in her apartment that's 5 out of 5.  I'm seriously trying to find a wife but also realise the perils of choosing unwisely.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #144 on: March 24, 2019, 02:31:33 PM »
It's not easy both the women and I  met our partners in our early 20s raised families and our partners traded us in for new models.  So now instead of growing together we are trying to put 2 busted families together it's not easy and unless you have tried it you have no idea what it's like to try.

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #145 on: March 24, 2019, 02:35:57 PM »
I don't think I'm a sex tourist as sex is not my objective.  Obviously it's part of a relationship  .  I could just go to my local music bar and allow myself to get  picked up

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« Reply #146 on: March 24, 2019, 04:24:32 PM »
Well on London bus home not sure where to go with this.  I have never visited the f s u where I have not stayed in her apartment that's 5 out of 5.  I'm seriously trying to find a wife but also realise the perils of choosing unwisely.

You're home and back already! Well how did it end with Megan Fox? Did you get your leg over? Did she get her mobile? Did you find out how she manages to keep herself in a city centre apartment? And do you she a relationship going anywhere with her?
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« Reply #147 on: March 24, 2019, 09:13:56 PM »

Did either of them have young children in tow?


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No..

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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #148 on: March 25, 2019, 07:53:01 AM »
I don't think I'm a sex tourist as sex is not my objective.  Obviously it's part of a relationship  .  I could just go to my local music bar and allow myself to get  picked up


Yes, but you wouldn't be picked up by a Megan Fox lookalike at that bar, would you?


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Re: Dnipro january travel advice
« Reply #149 on: March 25, 2019, 07:55:27 AM »
It's not easy both the women and I  met our partners in our early 20s raised families and our partners traded us in for new models.  So now instead of growing together we are trying to put 2 busted families together it's not easy and unless you have tried it you have no idea what it's like to try.


So why not wait until your children are grown?  Why subject them to the strain of a new relationship, new step siblings that will have your attention, etc.?


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