Ah Man This Sucks!! Shes A Scammer!!

[rockford75]

I really truly cant believe it!! But facts are facts!! The lady I met online is a scammer.! I went to send her flowers to the address she gave me and there is no one there by that name.Geez I feel like a chump. But at least I never sent any money to her. I just dont understand the point of her and I writing back and forth for over 6 months and she never asked for money. But shes a scammer either that or she forgot her address lol.. Anyone have any similar experiences? What do I do now?

[Gylden]

Sorry to hear Rockford,
Did you ever talk to her on the phone?
Did you question her about it?

[remiel6]

6 months seems an awful long time to go without asking for money for a scammer. I am not an expert on scammers though. Just seems odd to me that's all.

[rockford75]

No never talked on phone. Iam in the process of questioning her about it. I hope its a honest  mistake but I doubt it. Ah well Iam having fun!! On to the next RW!!

[rockford75]

6 months seems an awful long time to go without asking for money for a scammer. I am not an expert on scammers though. Just seems odd to me that's all.

Its very strange to me to. So all I can say as Ill keep you guys posted on what happens. I have one of 2 things: A new scam. Or the lady is for real.

[Rina_G]

You was writing 6 monthes and never  called her?
She didn't ask money from you during 6 monthes?
You wanted to send flower and got it back?
So you say - she is scummer and TO NEXT woman?
I know one scammer - look at the mirror -  it's YOU
and your best way - go ahead - TO NEXT WOMAN!
I don't want to comment how easy to change adress in Russia if people live in rent house - one day need for this.

[I/O]

The lady I met online is a scammer.!

OK, I get that.

Iam in the process of questioning her about it.

I'm starting not to get that.

I have one of 2 things: A new scam. Or the lady is for real.

Based on the above I shouldn't get that.....................................

But I do. One minute you have a scammer and the next you are blowing smoke up your own bum about the potential.

[rockford75]

You was writing 6 monthes and never  called her?
She didn't ask money from you during 6 monthes?
You wanted to send flower and got it back?
So you say - she is scummer and TO NEXT woman?
I know one scammer - look at the mirror -  it's YOU
and your best way - go ahead - TO NEXT WOMAN!
I don't want to comment how easy to change adress in Russia if people live in rent house - one day need for this.

Well now you state a good point. I never said oh ill never talk to her again! LOL.. There may be a reasonable explaination.. Honestly I hope there is. I wanted to call her many times but she told me she had no phone.

[rockford75]

OK, I get that.
I'm starting not to get that.
Based on the above I shouldn't get that.....................................

But I do. One minute you have a scammer and the next you are blowing smoke up your own bum about the potential.

LOL.. Thanks for the input. You may be right. I guess iam still in denial.

[Rina_G]

I wanted to call her many times but she told me she had no phone.

This is very interesting point
It mightn't be in real
It's russia and isn't Moon
she can have some reasons for this
1/ she don't know english very well and worry about understanding
2/ she have real man with her or her friends or family. They can laugh for her
3/ she don't want real relation - study or good work - I don't know what maybe also
Do you know - there are so many people in internet who don't search real relations
but it isn't scammers cause they don't want your money
they want you TIME and FEELINGS
pity

[Gator]

Rockford75,

Why did you start a new thread?  This is just a continuation of you earlier thread where the evidence showed that this is a travel money scam yet you continued to pursue her while in denial of the  facts:

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=10731.0

Please remind everyone how this RW expresses her deep love for you even though the two of you have never talked on the phone much less met.  Starting a new thread does not make the suspicious facts about your correspondent go away. 

In your first thread, you wrote:

I was till she said she wants to come here first. So whatever thats fine. Iam a pretty good judge of character.

Do you still feel that way?  Maybe you don’t know everything?
 
I pushed you in your earlier thread about taking a trip not to see her but to meet some genuine RW.  And you said:

Yes iam gonna check out Russia I think it would be a blast. There are a couple other gals I talk too from there. So there a couple different ladies Iam going to meet. Well see.

How are your new plans progressing?  When you grow weary of paddling your boat up the river De Nile, why not start a new thread about your future trip to meet genuine women?

[mies]

You was writing 6 monthes and never  called her?
She didn't ask money from you during 6 monthes?
You wanted to send flower and got it back?
So you say - she is scummer and TO NEXT woman?
I know one scammer - look at the mirror -  it's YOU
and your best way - go ahead - TO NEXT WOMAN!
I don't want to comment how easy to change adress in Russia if people live in rent house - one day need for this.

Rockford's story has more than just that. I think he is a good guy. Probably naive to the point that he didn't get her "hints" when she was gently asking him for money.
He talked to her via e-mails for 6 months, and during this time - she refused any possibility to talk to him on phone. However, she felt comfortable enough asking him when he can take her on fiance visa to Canada, and when he was discussing a meeting - she suggested that she will come to meet him, and it will cost ****. At that time Rockford agreed to pay for her tickets (if I am not mistaken). So the money topic did come up in her letters, only Rockford did not notice it.
As you see - it's not only about the address. The whole story smells fishy.
In her phone story - i'd say
желающий ищет возможности, а нежелающий - оправдания.

[BillyB]

I went to send her flowers to the address she gave me and there is no one there by that name.Geez I feel like a chump.

I mentioned in the other thread to get on a phone and flowers and a photo are a waste of money. Phone calls are cheaper and a better way to get to know a woman and when you call often, if a scammer gives you a number, she can't maintain a high level of enthusiasm for very long unless money starts flowing her way. Being a WOVO guy has risks. Risks in that you will limit yourself to one woman and then you will begin devote yourself to her before any face to face time. 6 months of your life wasted chasing a dream.

What do I do now?

Propose to her marriage!  Do lots of reading here and use the big head.

[Rina_G]

Propose to her marriage!  Do lots of reading here and use the big head.

bravo BillyB - the best advice!

[JR]

I have one of 2 things: A new scam. Or the lady is for real.

You forgot number three: You're a dork

[GQBlues]

Ill go with option 2) Ronnie that she is sincere and wants to meet me and see what iam all about. She said that all along. Instead of listening to her I think scam. That doesnt mean iam gonna let my guard down just means. I gotta see how the hand plays out. You dont write some one for 6 months just for kicks! If she wanted money or whatever she woulda asked a long time ago. That was never the case!I really think she is sincere.

Did you at least tip the florist?