Letter writing questions

[yoshiii]

Hello

I have been reading the forum looking for various answers to questions I have.

One which I cannot seem to find is one that talks about letter writing.

I have about 20 ladies that I am interested in that responded to my interest notes( I am using acouple of different sites).

How many is it good to start  writing to and how did you guys narrow it down?

[ML]

See FSUW 101 in the Starting Out section.

[Shadow]

Write them all. After a few letters most will stop responding.

[CDW]

It is not always good to write to many women.  What happened if you forget her birthday?

I had a birthday last week (7th August).  A lady whom I had correspondence with had forgotten my birthday!!  I confronted her about it.   She denied and told me that Elena's Model website doesn't show the date of birth.   I told her that she is correct in that part, but also told her that I had written to her the letter 10 days before and she even replied to me telling me her birthday date.  I told her that if she doesn't believe it, scroll down that letter because we kept replying on the same letter.

She was speechless about it. 

I told her that it happened when she write to many men! You are bounded to forgot about their activities.

If she is truly interests in me, she wouldn't have forgotten my birthday.

Now, I don't have to go there to meet her.  I had planned to make the bookings AFTER my birthday lol

 

[I/O]

how did you guys narrow it down?

Just ask 'em all their bra size - that'll thin the crowd out pretty quickly.

[Shadow]

It is not always good to write to many women.  What happened if you forget her birthday?

I had a birthday last week (7th August).  A lady whom I had correspondence with had forgotten my birthday!!  I confronted her about it.   She denied and told me that Elena's Model website doesn't show the date of birth.   I told her that she is correct in that part, but also told her that I had written to her the letter 10 days before and she even replied to me telling me her birthday date.  I told her that if she doesn't believe it, scroll down that letter because we kept replying on the same letter.

She was speechless about it. 

I told her that it happened when she write to many men! You are bounded to forgot about their activities.

If she is truly interests in me, she wouldn't have forgotten my birthday.

Now, I don't have to go there to meet her.  I had planned to make the bookings AFTER my birthday lol

In some countries or religions a birthday is not as important as it may be for you. For instance in Orthodox the name day is often celebrated more as a birthday.

[Aussie]

In some countries or religions a birthday is not as important as it may be for you. For instance in Orthodox the name day is often celebrated more as a birthday.

My thoughts exactly... !! Great point Shadow.

[CDW]

In some countries or religions a birthday is not as important as it may be for you. For instance in Orthodox the name day is often celebrated more as a birthday.

It is NOT the point.  The point that she had forgotten!  It shows she wasn't truly interested in me. 

[CDW]

My thoughts exactly... !! Great point Shadow.

If you think that way, then why don't you skip birthday greetings to your lady / future lady, and see what happened.  I am 100% sure she will be upset.   Good luck with it

[Olly]

In some countries or religions a birthday is not as important as it may be for you. For instance in Orthodox the name day is often celebrated more as a birthday.

It is not right! In Russia the BD is very important day. The name day is just the reason to send text message with congrats.

[Eduard]

It is not right! In Russia the BD is very important day. The name day is just the reason to send text message with congrats.

+1, sorry Shadow!

[Eduard]

Write them all. After a few letters most will stop responding.

That really depends on what sites he is using, doesn't it? In the real world it would certainly work as you suggest, Shadow. In the MOB agency world they will continue writing for years as long as he keeps paying...

[Faux Pas]

It is NOT the point.  The point that she had forgotten!  It shows she wasn't truly interested in me.

Yeah you are probably right. She just isn't interested in you 

[Shadow]

It is not right! In Russia the BD is very important day. The name day is just the reason to send text message with congrats.

Who said I was talking about Russia. 

[Shadow]

It is NOT the point.  The point that she had forgotten!  It shows she wasn't truly interested in me.

That she had not enough interest while you were planning to visit her shows more about you than about her.
If you write many women, there is nothing that prevents you giving attention to all that you feel interested in. Of course having a rather good memory did help me there.

[CDW]

It is not right! In Russia the BD is very important day. The name day is just the reason to send text message with congrats.

Thank you, Olly

[CDW]

+1, sorry Shadow!

Thank you, Eduard

[CDW]

My ex-girlfriend (also Russian) remembered my birthday and in fact she was the 1st to greet me!  Shows BD is a very important day too!

[sund]

Hey Yoshiii,

Steer yourself away from letter writing.  You are going to spend a lot of money, investing your heart emotionally with pictures and words, raising your expectations, developing fantasies, and what is the chance that the lady you are writing isn't just a translator or Boris?   When or if you meet any of your letter writing girlfriends, you could be hugely disappointed because words on paper are just that.  You have to see their expressions, reactions and feel her affections alive and in real time.

You need to check in with Eduard or go to Dreamconnections.com and watch the video of Anna and Aloyna.  Aloyna talks about how she was hired to sit in an agency and just look pretty in front of a webcam, while the translator typed away.

Save your money and use that money wisely by meeting these wonderful ladies through an honest guide such as Eduard or Mark Davis.  Just trying to save you money and potential disappointment.  That's a long trip that is filled with high expectations, if she even shows up!  Good luck.

[ML]

Hey Yoshiii,

Steer yourself away from letter writing.  You are going to spend a lot of money, . . .

Not true.  Just need to stay away from the pay per letter sites.

Read FSUW 101 in Starting Out section.

[Aussie]

If you think that way, then why don't you skip birthday greetings to your lady / future lady, and see what happened.  I am 100% sure she will be upset.   Good luck with it

I have no doubt she would be upset "IF" I did forget her birthday, without a doubt. A birthday is just as important to me as I know it would be for her. I was merely agreeing with the fact that some countries name day is just as important as a birthday if not more significant too some. So in answer to your assumption about what I think, think again.