Can't say I'm completely comfortable with this notion of being in "second place" behind Nastya with Evia. So far, I sure have not felt that way... Yes, there are two of us seeking Evia's attention, but there are two of them seeking my attention as well. Seems to me what I lose to Nastya from Evia I gain back directly from Nastya - generally with interest! Of course Evia is beyond wonderful to me in the ways only an adult Woman can be, but even there, Nastya tends to tell me to kiss her mother almost as often as I want to!
Feels to me to be a net gain, not a loss.
Kevin