POLL: When should you talk about sex, red days, and etc with a FSUW?

[2tallbill]

Frankly, I wouldn't dare ask  - beforehand -

If I spend 3 months getting to know a girl before visiting then I would know.
If I lived in Blighty and it cost me $240 and a couple of hours to fly round trip
then I would probably go twice a month until I met the girl of my dreams.   
 
Living half way around the world tends to change your strategy and tactics.

[msmobyone]

 

[Miquel Westano]

She has lived in the FSU and been around Russian men her entire life. Unless
she looks like Janet Reno, she has been hit on and seduced by Russian men.
Just my two kopecks

Bill

That was funny.  And like all good humor, has a ring of truth to it.

[2tallbill]

Then there is the story about a husband keeping track of how often his wife acceded to his overtures for sex over a seven week period. He put the information into a spreadsheet:

A screenshot of the spreadsheet is available at the link below, but here are a few of the reasons/excuses she gave for saying no to his overtures:

I'm watching the show (re-run of "Friends")
I'm watching my show. I don't want to miss anything.

There were also six non-verbal rebuffs to his overtures.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/21/man-wife-spreadsheet-sex_n_5605670.html

I remember that article from a while back. She would give an excuse of being too
smelly/gross to have sex because she went to the gym, then go to bed without a
shower, and occasionally offer up morning sex instead.

Both people have serious issues. I've never dated a woman who would go to the gym
workout, come home, and then go to bed without a shower. I am sure there are men
in this world who would turn down morning sex although I can't imagine myself doing
it unless I was super sick or something. The guy in the article didn't think that morning
sex was a good solution. I think both of those people have some serious issues and
probably should have never gotten married. 

Just my two kopecks

[Anthony71]

First time i was naive we didn't really talk about it, but we both got tested and showed each other the results and when i went over there to meet her well 

Second time i started talking to her on skype and i told her once joking i will handcuff you if you stick your tongue out at me again and her eye's lit up and she asked me do i have handcuffs and well i never looked back, i just hope she not reading this as then i be divorced