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Offline zooble

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Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« on: September 02, 2016, 04:25:23 AM »
Did you visit while she was working and hence doing a whole lot of nothing while she was at work?
Or the other way around, she visited you while you were at work?

How did it work out?

The premise is that both of you work but can't get your holidays to match up.

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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2016, 05:29:54 AM »
If a WOVO trip, never.

If a WMVM trip, almost always if meeting in her city; never if meeting outside her city.  Downtime is good for analyzing what has happened and making plans, plus just walking around in a FSU city. 

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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2016, 08:01:49 AM »
Did you visit while she was working and hence doing a whole lot of nothing while she was at work?
Or the other way around, she visited you while you were at work?

How did it work out?

The premise is that both of you work but can't get your holidays to match up.

Why do you want to spend vacations with someone you don't know, have never kissed and never have sex with? (i don't speak about internet relationship, i speak about real relationships).
And especially why do you want her to come in your country if you have never seen her?
Why do you want to book a ticket and send money to a stranger, in the best case she is not a scammer but she can anytime dump you and cancel the travel at your expense (and time)?
Why do you want to take this risk? 

I don't understand the question, but i hope to give an answer.
So you put your ass in a plane and go to visit her. You see one, two or twelve, as you like, but you date her or you date them in their cities.
 Lets exotic vacations for the honey moon.

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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #3 on: September 02, 2016, 09:22:31 AM »
Did you visit while she was working and hence doing a whole lot of nothing while she was at work?


Some ladies can't take a vacation anytime they want without the risk of losing their job. If a lady has to work during your visit to her, you can walk around the city and explore parts of it yourself. Just make sure you get an apartment or hotel near the action.
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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #4 on: September 02, 2016, 10:47:37 AM »
Did you visit while she was working and hence doing a whole lot of nothing while she was at work?
Or the other way around, she visited you while you were at work?

How did it work out?

The premise is that both of you work but can't get your holidays to match up.

Why do you ask? From your profile description Zooble it appears you are in a committed relationship. Whats the situation here that you need ask this if you have already found someone?

In any case to answer the question I would rather avoid girl coming here, the cost would likely land on myself so giving a free holiday to someone I don't know well is not a good move. Plus hotel costs will be far cheaper in FSU countries than here as girl would no doubt want a hotel if coming here. If she was at work while visiting I would see what attractions are out and about, hotel rooms get boring for me after a while, I start to feel a little claustrophobic if in them a long time, but other guys have been known to stay in their hotel rooms the whole time they are not with the girl, lol. I don't mind a little while in hotel room though. Part of my case for choosing airport cities in my search is to visit cities where there is plenty to do. Nikolaev for example, I don't think staying there more than a few days without seeing a girl would have been good for me as not much there and I get through stuff quick.

I would play it carefully on girl travelling to a city to see me, keep costs as low as possible so I am not being taken for a ride, I could easily afford it but apparently if a girl think a guy is a push over it can mess up chances of a relationship. One of my mistakes first time.
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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2016, 10:35:24 PM »
My wife was working at an international foreign language institute for over 10 years. Although she had most of the two weeks off that I would be visiting.....she did have to work for four of those days. Her boss solved the problem (very nice guy) by allowing me to "observe" while she taught. If my wife approved......he suggested that I might teach a few classes......as a guest instructor. Most of their study materials were published by Cambridge University press. My first class was chapter 13 of the textbook entitled "Eccentricity". On the first page was a photo of a guy who grew over 50 varieties of potatoes. He was in one of the furrows of his potatoes.....buried up to his his......neck! Teaching the classes ......was a hoot. I really enjoyed it. These were adult level classes with students aged 16 and up. There was even a doctor (early 30's).....who dreamed of moving to the US.


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Re: Did you visit while she was working or vice versa?
« Reply #6 on: September 07, 2016, 09:14:17 PM »
The other reason why visiting her place of work (if she invites you).....is you get to see how she interacts with the people she woks with. My wife was almost everybody's person. Some of her coworkers became friends of mine. One of her friends at the Institute...Igor.....collected metal 1950's cars. In two subsequent visits I brought him one that was not in his collection.


I always advise (my opinion) to forget about "vacations" on the first visit to meet your FSU/W. If you want to visit another place.....for a few days......no harm. But you don't want to proved a full-blown holiday vacation.....for someone you really don't know. Make your first trip about getting to know each other. Visit with her friends, relatives, coworkers etc. When you stay in a controlled one-on-one situation with her.....you will be missing out on one important tool in learning about her.............how her people.....regard............................."HER". You are not going going to get that.........on "vacation"........you'll just be putting that off. If she has to work a few days......no problem......see the sites, have lunch........meet some new friends. Or maybe......she will like you enough to take you to work.........which is a very good thing.


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