I meant that materialism is not the b'all and end all for FSU women - many seek a wise, kind, intelligent partner.
Its kind of a strange one, a guy can make little effort and a girl can get turned on by him just through natural chemistry by his presence. Yet we know that is just the initial sign of interest, the guy and girl need to get to know each other and all sorts of stuff then comes into play. Initially if a guy comes across as wealthy or intelligent or athletic and a girl is into one of those attributes then that may heighten her interest.
So its quite possible no doubt to go to the FSU and find a girl that is not so concerned with materialism. However, for practicality its usually easier if the guy has a bit of money behind him, you yourself Mobe have said FSU dating is not a poor man's game. Its also a bit awkward going in and saying 'hey I'm looking for a FSW but I'm not really any wealthier than prospective girl' who is near the poverty line to her, her friends and family, etc. Its usually assumed that the guy has a reasonable level of finance behind him. It well be that this girl's focus is not so much on materialism, its difficult for Kyn to determine this without at least Skyping with her (preferably visiting her). Now while he shouldn't lie its probably best for him to not bring up wealth in the discussions he has with her. Personally I think she is just viewing communication with Kyn to date out of interest, intrigue, adventure, etc i.e the excitement of communicating with an actual foreign guy to brighten up dull days.
Thing is for Kyn is to realise that any talk of not having much money with girls when just messaging could scare them of early and not just the materialistic girl. If the girl thinks he doesn't have the means and is just wasting her time there will be little point in her eyes in taking things further. So in that respects he may be best of going over there for a couple of weeks or so & calling them up there & then so they get to know him & see if there is any chemistry there than get shot down with the finance question before it can be established if this is present.
I think a useful exercise to do is to self assess yourself on the five main criteria, points out of five on each one for simplicity:
Appearance
Finance
Fitness
Intelligence
Personality
Now I say appearance instead of looks as often a girl is focused on how a guys appearance is not just his looks so decent haircut, clothes, etc. So in Kyn's case for Finance * at present as he is not earning any income worthy of note, is a poor student, etc. Its really quite an eye opener doing this I have found erring on the more critical side as it can show what you can be falling down on where day to day you don't really even think of it let alone feel you're being hampered at all. Then you can forecast what is likely to improve in the future/could be improved and come across better to women I think.
