Fiancee Rating Chart For Men and Women

[William3rd]

FIANCEE RATING CHART

Try this little scoring system on the next page that I set up over the years of watching couples develop overseas. I am not a psychologist but this is as good a system as any if you are into systems or need to narrow your field of search. This works well for men or women.

I have seen systems as complex as an individual using psychiatric consultants who preparing a series of letters sent to over two hundred women with the replies analyzed and rated to narrow the field to five candidates to meet in person to one as simple and moronic as walking up to a table of women at a cocktail party with a translator and asking for a volunteer to get married and get a green card. The man with the psychiatric system ended up with his number one choice anyway so who is to say what works. Good luck!!!!

FIANCEE RATING CHART
(NOT in order of importance)
CATEGORY                     1-10   RATING
PHYSICAL –   
How well does she fit in to your personal idea of beauty?
(Some factors are height, weight, age, sexual compatibility, etc.) 
English Ability-
Can she communicate well enough to understand you?
Communication –
Does she have the desire to talk to you regardless of her English level?
Education-
This includes life experience. Is she well-rounded and informed?
Sense of Humor-
Can you two joke together and laugh together?
Children-
Are your goals for children compatible?
Common interests-
What common things do you already enjoy?
Common Goals-
What are your mutual dreams of a future?
Emotional Balance-
Is she overly emotional or easily angered or depressed?
Personal Compatibility-
How well do you two just “hang out” together?
Other Categories that you may want to add-
Smoking, Drinking
Integrity- I recommend a zero rating in all categories if no integrity.
I am referring to a lack of integrity of any kind after you have met.

[Admin]

FIANCEE RATING CHART

Try this little scoring system on the next page that I set up over the years of watching couples develop overseas. I am not a psychologist but this is as good a system as any if you are into systems or need to narrow your field of search. This works well for men or women.

I have seen systems as complex as an individual using psychiatric consultants who preparing a series of letters sent to over two hundred women with the replies analyzed and rated to narrow the field to five candidates to meet in person to one as simple and moronic as walking up to a table of women at a cocktail party with a translator and asking for a volunteer to get married and get a green card. The man with the psychiatric system ended up with his number one choice anyway so who is to say what works. Good luck!!!!

FIANCEE RATING CHART
(NOT in order of importance)
CATEGORY                     1-10   RATING
PHYSICAL –   
How well does she fit in to your personal idea of beauty?
(Some factors are height, weight, age, sexual compatibility, etc.) 
English Ability-
Can she communicate well enough to understand you?
Communication –
Does she have the desire to talk to you regardless of her English level?
Education-
This includes life experience. Is she well-rounded and informed?
Sense of Humor-
Can you two joke together and laugh together?
Children-
Are your goals for children compatible?
Common interests-
What common things do you already enjoy?
Common Goals-
What are your mutual dreams of a future?
Emotional Balance-
Is she overly emotional or easily angered or depressed?
Personal Compatibility-
How well do you two just “hang out” together?
Other Categories that you may want to add-
Smoking, Drinking
Integrity- I recommend a zero rating in all categories if no integrity.
I am referring to a lack of integrity of any kind after you have met.

Bill,

That's a nice little test.

Have you take a look at the Scammer Scorecard we set up? You can find it in the menu at the left, or here -- http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?pid=1

While results can be a little on the harsh side - the idea is to insure people are thinking about the factors that indicate scamming behaviors.

Just another little tool to help guys circumnavigate some of the potholes they may face.

- Dan

[William3rd]

Hi Dan- I like your scammer score card. I would upgrade #12 to red if the name is anything different than a nickname. I mean- if one site shows Juliya and the other site shows Olga, how can that be reconciled?

I think the woman would have a lot of explaining to do

[groovlstk]

Integrity- I recommend a zero rating in all categories if no integrity.
I am referring to a lack of integrity of any kind after you have met.

Thanks Bill, can you elaborate on integrity? In the work arena, for instance, there are huge differences between what's considered ethical in the West as opposed to Russia/Ukraine.

As an example, according to their ledgers, my fiancee's firm pays their workers an extremely low salary, from which taxes are collected by the Russian government. In reality, the workers are paid the great majority of their earnings in cash, tax-free. This practice is pretty much universal in Russia and Ukraine. So technically she's a tax evader, but the stark differences in landscapes between here and there make such an accusation seem silly.

I've also known shop girls who will charge their customers higher prices if they look wealthier than the average joe or if they're a foreigner. Is it unethical? Here it would be, but in Russia...?

[William3rd]

I am referring specifically to matters involving you and your fiancee. Example- she claims to work somewhere and later you find out that she doesnt work at all and that there was no change in her conditions since the email. Or- claims to live alone and suddenly has a room mate. Or claims to have never left her country and then you find out about a few trips to Egypt.

The kind of stuff that shows her willingness to fabricate.

Stealing is another example. Unkindness to children or the elderly. etc etc etc

[ConnerVT]

Integrity.  It doesn't matter who's definition you are using.  What does matter is that you are sharing the SAME definition.

[Warren]

William3rd:  Good test !  If you are really interested, get the book "Personality Profile" by some Ph.D. psychologist. It is the best.
It has a 100 question test that results in 12 categories of ratings.  I have taken the test and have found out some qualities I did not fully realize. Get your fiancee to take the test and then there is a section for compatibility of profiles. It works.
       just my 2 cents.
             Warren