hello

[Photo Guy]

I agree with Ken. The age gap can be bridged if the couple is 'right' for each other
and deeply committed. And let's say for argument's sake that the marriage only lasts
for 15 years- those 15 years may certainly be worth the time spent together, in contrast
to a couple who are both the same age and divorce after 5 tumultuous years together.

[Turboguy]

Antonio,  We have a pretty helpful bunch of people here.  Best thing to do is to start a new thread in the beginners section asking for help and advice and to give as much info as possible.

PhotoGuy,  Thanks we have had some long talks on the subject and think just like you.   We have a really terrific relationship and we are going to do our best to enjoy it for as long as we can.  Hopefully it will be for a long time. 

[Mir]

Hello I am new here but have met a few FSU women. I am 36 years old.
I have yet to have a relationship with anyone more then 12 years younger then me (and even that is pushing it). However I am very impressed by you and other people on this forum who have succeeded in vowing women 25- 40 years younger. Some might have grandchildren older then their wives!
Can I ask what Internet sites you use to find them, as most sites are full of scams?
I just get the impression that the guys with young wives/GFs are all people who are highly successful entrepreneurs who have been educated in the university of life rather then receive formal education at a university, is that right?
And all are Americans?

[Turboguy]

The majority of couples here do not have that much age difference but 10-20 years is fairly common.   I have seen couples with large age differences that have been very happy but most will say it is not for everyone.   In your case hopefully you won't look for someone 30 years younger. 

If you scan the posts you will find lots of recommendations for good web sites and good agencies.  I happened to have met VWRW through Elena's Models. 

There is a world of information at RWD that can help you a lot.  Good luck in your search.

[Mir]

Hmmm I might look for someone 30 years younger 15 years from now 

[Turboguy]

That was a joke Mir,   As far as sites that are good for Addresses, Elena's Models is good.  www.freepersonals.ru is good.  Merry dating is supposed to be good.   Some seem to have luck with a pretty woman and bride.ru  I never fooled with any except Elenas and Free personals.

[jb]

I'm trying to figure out who is 57???

[Turboguy]

I am sure someone must be 57 but it was what she said in her first post when she was a mystery women.

[jb]

I am sure someone must be 57 but it was what she said in her first post when she was a mystery women.

Just as long as she isn't thinking you, T/G, are 57.  Last time you mentioned your age here, you were 65.  Kinda makes a big difference, doncha think?

[Turboguy]

You are getting ahead of yourself jb.  I am not 65, at least not yet.

[jb]

I am not 65, at least not yet.

Then i misread your earlier post, would you kindly tell us exactly how old you are?  What is your date of birth?  I have heard from a friend of a friend that you are well past 60, i.e., 65ish.  I think it's pertinent to the discussion to know exactly what we are talking about here.  You are the one who constantly argues that age makes no difference, I believe it does.  I'm not trying to pick on you here, but I'm pretty sure you aren't 57 any more.

Tell us please, the truth.

[Turboguy]

Why do you feel you need to discuss me jb?   I don't feel a compelling urge to discuss you.   And what is the date of your birth? your mothers maiden name?   Ah, yes your childhood illnesses.

[Gator]

Is it relevant?  Neither 57 nor 65 is young.  Both are having to lower their expectations that they had in their youth.  In Russia, 57-yo and 65-yo men are dead, "near dead", or "living dead."  For sure T/G is not dead.    VWRW is experiencing a miracle.

VWRW has admitted no experience with 50s men so she can not know the difference.  And T/G looks 57 based on the little photo, meaning he looks great for 65, if 65.  He sure does act young and he is full of energy from his new romance with VWRW.  He was a "live wire" before her.  Can you imagine how he is around his hometown these days.  He is a happy man, so I say T/G - enjoy it.

And VWRW is an adult.  If they take their time, all will be revealed.  And meanwhile they are enjoying the journey.

Wonder what i would say if I were in my 40s?

And does my statement about 57 vs 65 conflict with my previous statement that there is a large difference between a 31-yo and a 41-yo woman?

[jb]

*sigh* deleted

[Turboguy]

Thank you Gator.  You are a very wise person with a lot of insight into human nature.

[jb]

Not to mention,,, way to kind....

[BC]

27+38=65

[jb]

27+38=65

Very direct, BC.

But certainly that's what everyone is thinking.

[jb]

In Russia, 57-yo and 65-yo men are dead, "near dead", or "living dead."

 

Interesting,,, I hadn't thought of it quite that way, maybe vwrw wanted someone older, closer to real dead than T/G. 

[Admin]

I think that's enough of the speculation and innuendo.

TG and vwrw are adults and can make their own decisions. They do not need the board members to stand in judgment on them any more than they already have.

- Dan

[Turboguy]

Thank you Dan

[vwrw]

 Interesting,,,....., maybe vwrw wanted someone older, closer to real dead than T/G. 

JB, that sounds like your description … you can even not hope if you want to offer yourself.

[vwrw]

Can I ask what Internet sites you use to find them, as most sites are full of scams?

Mir, welcome on RWD!
When I only begun my search for beloved I visited a site where scams letters were published. I was curious to know what scams are writing to men so especial that men very like them and even send money despite on most of them know about scams. I read more than 100 scam’s letters and have noticed their letters are very general. I mean there are not any reactions about the information a man said about himself apart from such a kind flattery which might be said any man in their letters. Also all letters were written by using the same way. In beginning scams tell stories about “their life” and “themselves” but they will do it not like as usually in beginning a real woman does. Real woman will tell you the same type information you talk with her about. For example if you talk with her about your work she will answer you by letter where she will talk with you about her work and will add some other information. After scams will add flattery to their stories and before they ask for money they will promise men an unforgettable sex and eternal love. I think a woman who really is interested to find husband will not promise a lot to man because she understands if she does not want  man to disappoint in her she will need all of her promises to make coming true.
So, Mir I could advise you to visit the site where scams letters are published to analyze their letters’ scheme and after it will be easy for you to avoid scams when you use any of sites.     
PS. Each time you should truncate previous messages from e-mail. What for man helps scams to remember which letter they already sent him.

[acappelli]

Hi Guys I have a question that haved bother me for some time since you guys told to ask here I go ? I notice that there is a lot of russian lady in The U.S.A. but there marriage did not go well for X reason how can you contact them even so some of hem got married with abusive husband but did not want to go back home you guys think there is a possibility to meet them here or No ?
Thank for the input
Tony