A long slow brush off?

[ScottinCrimea]

Mac, I think the question was a bit out of line and not relevant to the issue.  How would you feel if someone asked you a similar question? As for what I am observing, Serebro has been very appropriate in her responses so far.  She responded to his specific accusations with details of her own, which I wouldn't exactly call slinging mud.  She brings up some valid points about her parents and family and why she can't discuss the issue with them which gives some insight into Russian thinking.  This beats our Western interpretation of Russian thinking anytime.

[macman]

Okay, why the long and very harsh dialog with him in a public venue?  IMO, you guys fought with the vigor of lovers gone south.  I don't wish to delve further, however, my personal opinion, for what it's worth; there were physical connections.  I accept you still and I desire your input on this forum. BUT, a man only gets weird/sick like that when he's been in that special place. . . unless he's phsycotic in some manner.  Jeff/George or whoever, PM me if you got some nads.

Love ya.

mm

[macman]

I agree Scott and I shouldn't work/share with her in this venue, but, I asked first.  Sex, forget that question in particular.  Why did Serebro and dude (whoever he is) have a public presentation of emotion.  If Serebro had no physical/emotional connection, she would have ignored it completely (AH AH)  IMO. 

ALTHOUGH Serebro - You were very polite and expressive before dude. . .

You are welcome!

mm

[I/O]

Such a wholesome and enlightening discussion which I am sure will be of unending benifit to the freshmen in this pursuit.........NOT...!!!  Hmmmmm now where is that ignore button for threads.

I/O

[macman]

Hello I/O, yes - there were two confilicting stories here.  I'm trying to impart some wisdom - if she's willing to accept it.  And what do you have to offer?  Besides - ho hum?

hummph - mate.

MacMan!

[Admin]

Such a wholesome and enlightening discussion which I am sure will be of unending benifit to the freshmen in this pursuit.........NOT...!!!  Hmmmmm now where is that ignore button for threads.

I/O

It's only a matter of finding the pony.

Know what I mean ??

- Dan

[philb]

Maybe it is just me but sometimes there appears to be a herd of ponies.

[macman]

HERD of PIKES?

[Simoni]

I saw the long string of posts....

so i read the thread

only to conclude

that this thread is

like the Seinfeld Show

it's about

NOTHING...

[macman]

Conclude Si:

Say - I'm no longer in

To threads that are thin

but don't give up

to wondering wahssup

giving again

to what we all are in

or saying to hell

maybe wish us well

and if this don't work

maybe someone's a jerk

that's okay - love ya anyway

No matter the day - or country you stay!

[Gator]

Simoni,

At least the Seinfeld Show made us laugh.

[Gator]

Serebro,

It seems that you feel a little humiliated in explaining to your parents that you got  involved with the wrong man.  Don't sweat it.  Of course they will express some disappointment and concerns, maybe even admonish you.  BUT THEY WILL STILL LOVE YOU TRULY AND COMPLETELY.   And they will explain how happy they are because you broke away from Mr. Ex- before marrying him.

I have two sons, one younger and one older than you.  Both have done far worse than getting involved with the wrong person.  They did that plus much more, one spending a night in jail.  Each time I expressed my disappointment, lectured them, and then put my arms around them to tell them that I loved them and always will.  Home is a haven for them.  Young people need to know that because they will make mistakes and will need a comfortable shelter for recovery.  I do not think your parents are any different.

Besides, you have something much more important to tell them.  And they should hear it.

[macman]

Home is a haven for them.  Young people need to know that because they will make mistakes and will need a comfortable shelter for recovery.  I do not think your parents are any different.

Nor are the older/mature people on this board that truly care about other people - especially those that are our children's age.

[coreqq]

However foolish it all may be, I am not completely wrong and I am truly sorry that it had to come down to this. Even so, there is also a charming, wonderful side to Serebro that I will deeply miss. My apologies to fellow list members.