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Offline Albert

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« on: June 10, 2005, 06:57:42 AM »

Perhaps Dan could/should institute some simple intelligence tests before people are allowed to post here.

It is often stated on these boards that the FSU women are 'highly intelligent.' However, I believe that intelligence is fairly well distributed around the world., so FSU women are not more so than others. But, let's assume it is true. In that case, it would seem they would be looking for intelligent men. Such men would not be reading things that they do not want to read and making comments that fly in the face of my stated facts. They would not read a warning and then proceed to read something they do not want to hear about. They would certainly not return again and again to a topic or post that offends them and then continue to complain about having to read something they don't want to read about. They would not say they would not post about something, and then proceed to post about it, and then again state that they would not talk about it outside their bedroom.

Below I have First copied parts of earlier items that I have posted many times before and posted at the beginnings of my Odesa reports. Second, I have copied comments posted by men who are pursuing or married to these 'highly intelligent' women.

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WARNING: Not to be read by virgins, closet homosexuals, put the FSU women on a pedestal types, and others who are revolted by normal sexual conduct.

I repeat here what I have said before. Yes, boring to some, but I do so in a (probably futile) attempt to forestall some of the stupid comments by those who know nothing of my background.

First, I date many women in many countries of the world. I believe in the standard practice (outside these discussion boards) of dating first, and thinking of marriage second. I am not adverse to marriage, but I am not desperate in looking for a wife similarly to looking for a TV, car, etc., as something that must be obtained within X time period.

Second, I travel for business first and, as I am heterosexual, always look for women also. I have been to FSU over twenty times, had first dates with over 150 FSU women (to be increased after this trip) and been intimate with 37 (to be increased after this trip).

I am not 'looking for a wife' in the same respect as looking for a television or a car or whatever, in the sense that one must me obtained within X time period? I am not adverse to marriage. If and when I want to marry someone, I will ask her and go from there, just as normal guys are doing in USA and elsewhere every day of the year.

I am never insincere with these ladies or lead them on falsely. I do not use marriage agencies whether in person or on line. I use only dating sites such as matchdoctor where the ladies check many blocks as to their goals and these always include: short term relationships, long time relationships, romantic encounters, etc. I never, ever mention the word marriage to them or even the word love.

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Son of Clyde: I haven't much interest in your sexual experiences.


Chuckinwdc: Yeah, I'm right there with Son of Clyde. If you're going to get into graphic sexual detail, then please post a warning

Turboguy: Perhaps there should be a whole new section called something like "sexual Drivel"

Bruno: Seriously, do you think that a normal man go spend all his holiday and a lot of money for meet a RW only for sex... since you can find it at home city for a more low price

jb: Americans also like sex, we just don't think it's cool to brag about a conquest on the town square.

Chuckinwdc: But posting detailed descriptions of sexual adventures in a public forum is seamy and crass, in my opinion.

jb: I'm not censoring Albert; I'm just saying I don't like him. Any time a man visits a MOB agency and selects women for dates under false pretenses, he gives every honest man looking for a mate a black eye.

Turboguy: Actually I am more bored by it than anything.

Son of Clyde: I did not read much past the warning to get the gist of Albert's post. I thought Albert's post and anono's "squirting" post were inappropriate for a public forum.

Bruno: unfortunaly, he have a lot of sex relation but no one woman good enough to be his wife

jb: Any other member who chooses to tell us about his sexual exploits and conquests will also shoot themselves in the foot in my opinion, I will not hold them in high regard either. Maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't do that. I've never had a woman who didn't squirt after proper stimuli, some of you guys must be terrible lovers. Grown up people have sex all the time,,, no big deal. We just do not discuss the fact outside our own bedroom.

Frank: As far as the Albert types go.......I don't like their attitudes or disrespect toward well meaning women.

Photoguy: Albert, You aren't sure if you want to get married. I see that as a problem for you and your women.

Son of Clyde: It's a hell of a long distance to travel for 150+ dates. And how do you remember all the names?

 

 

 







 

 




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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2005, 07:39:30 AM »
Yep, these warning was in one of your post...

Do you think that i remember all the post ? Specialy when you don't place the follow of your story in same topic but make again and again new topic...

And several reply of guys was about post make by other... they are only meaning in relation over the story...

Really, i don't see what intelligence test make in this... of maybe you speak for yourself ??? 

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« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2005, 08:18:13 AM »
Well Albert,

I was just about the only guy who was defending your right to post here.

I even had one "person" accuse me of personally insulting him when I asked him to give us a break from his moralising....

However these people will inevitably try to impose their morality on everyone else.  It is the essence of being "small minded"....

The rules of tolerance apply equally to everyone, from dumb newcomer to serial dater!!

Dan sets the rules on what can be posted here and while he has some faults, "small mindedness" is not amongst them!

 

 

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« Reply #3 on: June 10, 2005, 08:26:55 AM »
i also support alberts right to post here and have in fact enjoyed his posts. i only chimed in about squirters because he brought it up. i related my experience because for many years i did not know anything about it. i thought this was a place we could learn from one another.

albert also is meeting women from the internet much like i was in the usa. not from marriage agencies. i think the women he meets are in general, more "real" because they are not meeting a man under the pretense of possible marriage. i think some women will act much different with a man who they think is looking for a wife than a man who is simply dating.

albert can go into as much detail as he wants. must be the british in me ;-)
« Last Edit: June 10, 2005, 08:27:00 AM by anono »

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« Reply #4 on: June 10, 2005, 10:49:45 AM »
I may have said this before. I don't dislike anyone on this forum but I dont think all the posts are appropriate.

Albert, you started this mess with your warning. It was an open invitation for most of us to read it anyway.

Think about prohibition and all of the speakeasies.

 Where are they now?

Anono, I had heard of "squirters" before. I'm not a complete prude.

 

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« Reply #5 on: June 10, 2005, 12:14:41 PM »
Albert, you seem to lead a attack against some of us... but copy simple word, part of a post for justify yourself show me now your low level of spirit...

Bruno: Seriously, do you think that a normal man go spend all his holiday and a lot of money for meet a RW only for sex... since you can find it at home city for a more low price

When you read again the post where i have write this, it was for defend you, because some people have call you sex tourist...

Bruno: unfortunaly, he have a lot of sex relation but no one woman good enough to be his wife


In these case, i copy the full chapter :

" JB, i have good understand your post... i have only try to defend a little Albert... i don't think that he is a sex tourist... i think that he is only try to find a wife... unfortunaly, he have a lot of sex relation but no one woman good enough to be his wife... in some way, i have some compassion for so people... they are like the russian writer and poet Puskin Alexander... he have know a lot of woman during his life ( muse ) but he is dead alone... "

Really, if you need some victim for justify yourself, you are not very intelligent to choice to attack one who have try to help you and defend you... i was not against your post... and i stay appreciate your TR... but you have loose all my respect by so low attack...

These topic show only what is not needed on these forum... someone who copy single sentance for attack and discredit people... but i don't worry, from the view of intelligent people who verify what write someone, you discredit yourself... i was never offended by your post but now, i am offended by yourself...

Maybe it is your revenge because i was the first to ask for move your post in the right section ??? These of the TR...

 

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« Reply #6 on: June 10, 2005, 02:01:48 PM »
Clyde, I always wondered who those people were that stuck their hands on spots that said 'wet paint.'   Now I know.  But  I see know that you cannot help it.  It was the fault of the person who posted the warning.  And then I bet you complained about the paint on your hand . . . . right?

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« Reply #7 on: June 10, 2005, 02:06:21 PM »
Bruno, I could not tell in the first instance that you quoted, that you were defending me.

In the second instance you talk about the wife issue when I have stated many times I am not 'looking for a wife' in that sense.

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« Reply #8 on: June 10, 2005, 02:19:32 PM »
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In the second instance you talk about the wife issue when I have stated many times I am not 'looking for a wife' in that sense.


Albert, I say again, WTF are you here?  Your posts are, IMHO, very inappropriate for a board where the stated goal is finding and understanding a mate.  You border on trolldom, you speak loudly, often, and with a great many words, yet say nothing of value to the board membership.

It's just my opinion, maybe the rest of the guys enjoy reading the tripe you've littered the board with so far, but I wouldn't miss you if you fell off the planet tonight..

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« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2005, 03:00:59 PM »
Here is number nine of Dan's posted Ten Commandments.  It appears he understands that dating  comes first and maybe marriage thoughts come afterwords if the two parties wish. 


9) Treat international dating the same as dating someone from your home country. The biggest difference is the cost (travel, phone. etc). This is an expensive process. Don't believe anyone that tells you otherwise.


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« Reply #10 on: June 10, 2005, 03:04:31 PM »
Perhaps someone could 'explain away' or tell us why these statements from one person are not 'tripe.' 

Any other member who chooses to tell us about his sexual exploits and conquests will also shoot themselves in the foot in my opinion, I will not hold them in high regard either. Maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't do that. I've never had a woman who didn't squirt after proper stimuli, some of you guys must be terrible lovers. Grown up people have sex all the time,,, no big deal. We just do not discuss the fact outside our own bedroom.


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« Reply #11 on: June 10, 2005, 03:09:37 PM »
Hey~! Moron,

That was pure tongue-in-cheek.  Don't you recognize a sarcastic reply when you see one?

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« Reply #12 on: June 10, 2005, 03:42:55 PM »
Hey moron, which words of your post that I quote were tongue in cheek?

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« Reply #13 on: June 10, 2005, 04:00:11 PM »
Guys, please keep your tempers (and comments) in check.

Thanks,

- Dan

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« Reply #14 on: June 10, 2005, 04:10:22 PM »
OK, I understand Dan.  But you stated in another section that no one steps forward when bullies appear.  We all know very well who is the bully on this board, and I have just caught him in some inconsistencies.  I suspected the weasel approach would be used by him, as it has been.

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« Reply #15 on: June 11, 2005, 12:48:00 AM »
Quote from: albert
From your warning : I am not 'looking for a wife' in the same respect as looking for a television or a car or whatever, in the sense that one must me obtained within X time period? I am not adverse to marriage. If and when I want to marry someone, I will ask her and go from there, just as normal guys are doing in USA and elsewhere every day of the year.


 

So, for me, you meet several women and if one day, you find one who is good enough, you go ask to marry her... speak about marriage before know someone, it is not possible... you are at the first state of the proces, searching the ideal life partner... a little like Anomo... but it seem that now, he have catch the fish... but nobody know the future...

 

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