How will Russian ladies react to someone who is divorced from a Russian lady

[JayB]

My wife (from Volgograd) are divorcing after 8 1/2 years.  I don't want to divorce, but she has made up her mind.  We are trying to stay on friendly terms during and after the divorce, although the divorce isn't final yet.  Although things didn't work for us, I have great respect for her and for other Russian women I have met, and I will begin again to search for a Russian or FSU wife when our divorce is final. 
My question to the Russian women on the forum is, which is likely to be a stronger factor for other Russian women I'm trying to communicate with and possibly establish a relationship with. 
The fact that after 8 1/2 years my Russian wife decided I was not worth keeping, or the fact that since I've done this before they can feel confident that I'm serious and will follow thru with my commitments.
FYI this will be my 2nd divorce. First was an AW.

[Jazzyclassy]

I think all divorces are a unpleasent factor and if a man did it once he will do it twice and so many times after, no matter which woman you divorced. Means you had problems in family life, either they were caused by you or by her, usually both sides are to blame in such things.

I do not know there are so many women who marry  guys who divorced and they do not look on it as something bad or something, for me divorced guy means  this person's got problems and the women who think like me , will stay away from you. Your luck not all women think like me so  never worry

Though of course divorced does not mean cursed or something, you can always change yourself and become better and those mistakes can make you stronger and your personality complete ,though  you should be an angel and with such will power to be able to change yourself, I doubt a lot of divorced people blame themselves in the cause of the divorce.

It is very strange to hear 8 years of living together, then you are divorcing and right now Already you are keen on dating with russian girls and start searching for a russian wife again, do not you think it is a bit fast and plus , can not you analyse your mistakes with your current wife, do not you think with the new russian wife you will have the same problems until you actually resolve them?

[mark2353]

 I should not speak since I am new to the board but looking at the russia dating services I do not think most women will place much value on that since most of them went through one divorce themselves. I think they would be open to being mrs number two. At least I hope so since I am sort of email one.
good luck mark   

[Lily]

My question to the Russian women on the forum is, which is likely to be a stronger factor for other Russian women I'm trying to communicate with and possibly establish a relationship with. 
The fact that after 8 1/2 years my Russian wife decided I was not worth keeping, or the fact that since I've done this before they can feel confident that I'm serious and will follow thru with my commitments.
FYI this will be my 2nd divorce. First was an AW.

Jay, this may vary considerable from person to person.

IMHO, a divorce is not necessarily a bad thing, especially if it was an escape from an unbearable life situation.

As for repeated divorces, well..it depends. People are not created for the sake of making and maintaining relationships. On the opposite, relationships should be created for the sake of making people's lives better. If relationships make one's life miserable, people ought to consider a divorce.

At the same time, repeated divorces do not necessarily mean that the person does not understand people and makes mistakes when selecting a partner. People can change, circumstances can change.

In short, it depends.

[AnastassiaAsh]

Write personal message to our member Supranatural. He went through a divorce and now is dating another wonderful young Russian woman. That's what i heard last time.

[Gator]

Everyone is answering the question of  whether being divorced is an issue.

That is not JayB's question.  His question:  How will RW react to the fact that his ex-wife is a RW?

JayB,

Very few RW have a problem with a man who has been divorced.  In fact, they have a guideline: there is something wrong with a man over 40 who has never married.

How will a RW react to the fact that your ex-wife is a RW?  I don't know.  So, write some RW, disclose the fact briefly without explanation, and add that your marriage with a RW has convinced you that RW are the best.  Enough said.  If a RW is interested, you will have time to explain your reasoning.

One word of advice.  You are not ready for a serious relationship if you are still bitter about your divorce, so bitter that you can not say anything nice about your ex-wife.  And women abhor a man who says bad things about his ex-wife.

BTW, just starting the correspondence will help you rebound from your divorce.

[Shadow]

The biggest setback for any new women (RW or other) is going to be the 'friendly terms' you are on with your ex-wife-to-be.
If there are children, you are expected to care for them. However maintaining friendly relations with an ex-wife you did not want to divorce brings associations of a doormat that is called for every issue to help out the ex. That is what any new woman in your life will hate, and what you should there for get rid of.
If she wanted a divorce, so be it. It means you should not be part of her life in any way and she should not be part of yours. Stick to that and you will not have a problem.

[Blues Fairy]

Well you needn't tell your new acquaintances that you were not "worth keeping".  Find other ways to describe the situation.  But be prepared for lots of inquisitive questions.

[SANDRO43]

FYI this will be my 2nd divorce. First was an AW.

I'd steer clear of any FSUW who know some Latin :

Errare humanum est, perseverare diabolicum
(To err is human, to persevere is diabolical)

[Enot]

I was married and divorced to a Russian woman.  I have a FSU fiancee who I will marry in the USA in April.  Women had a lot of questions when I began looking again but generaly accepted it with no problems.  I wouldn't worry about it unless you were some sort of monster or was abusive.

[Jazzyclassy]

Well if you want a woman who was also divorced then you should have no problem, however a woman who has never been married and considers marriage to be really something fairy and beautiful and ideal , do not count on her running after you.....