RW TAKING ON A LOVER

[BillyB]

You have many options to choose from so you are going to take your time,

Yes, I'm going to take my time. If a guy or woman had one or no options, they are more likely to make a hasty, desperate, and most likely a bad decision.

you prefer that those "options" abstain from sex, because they can only love you? And no other sexually attractive males are worth of their love?

If I had a choice between a woman that would wait for me and a woman who needs satisfaction now, I would prefer the woman who would wait for me. The woman I spoke said I'm her favorite man. She is abstaining from sex until she finds her MAN. Although I'm her favorite man, I'm not her MAN so she is not abstaining from sex for just me. I would not ask her to abstain from sex just for me. I told her at this time we are friends and will communicate with each other with that in mind. If she is having sex with other men now, it doesn't bother me and I won't lose any sleep over it. If she is lying, it would bother me because she's dishonest and I would not want to associate with her.

[I/O]

Billy: I'm sure your intentions were otherwise, but frankly, this thread comes across as immature. At the end of the day, prior to serious commitment (And only you can figure out when that is), who, how and where she sleeps with is, as one of our lady posters wrote so eloquently some time ago, "none of your f****g business". Once you have serious commitment, why would you wonder? If there were still a question in your mind, you should be taking steps, big long steps.

How many 40 year old men really demand, or even want a virgin?

There IS an idiot born every minute.

some men with erectile dysfunction also keep saying "i just have not met the right woman yet. when i meet the right woman i would like to have sex every day and sometimes multiple times a day"

Erectile dysfunction or general dysfunction?

[BillyB]

why would you wonder?

I already said it doesn't bother me so one could pretty much understand how I voted. I posted some of what I would consider valid personal and religious reasons why men would want a RW to abstain from sex before a relationship/marriage but it doesn't mean it reflects my view. Because nobody defended their position, I did. One reason I started this poll is because a few people seem to have a problem with me, a guy who has no commitment to anyone, casually dating women and communicating with other women and insinuating I must be deceiving them. More polls to follow.

Some Western men hold back on sex not because they have erectile dysfunction but because of strong religious beliefs or they want to stay healthy for their woman. Some RW hold back for their own personal and religious reasons too and it's not always because they hate sex. Their way of thinking may seem outrageous to the majority but it's not outrageous that they would want a person with the same style of thinking and values that they hold. It's already apparent on what the majority thinks on this issue but it doesn't mean there is a problem with the minority unless they are wanting uncommitted RW abstaining from sex for purely selfish reasons.

[I/O]

One reason I started this poll is because a few people seem to have a problem with me, a guy who has no commitment to anyone, casually dating women and communicating with other women and insinuating I must be deceiving them.

Tell them you are an abstainer and they'll call you a "Prude". You're not going to win either way.

As for whatever physco religious mindset will direct a person one way or another, here's cutting to the chase. Generally speaking, FSU women are more open and active in this area than those (caucasion women) in Western Europe who are in turn more open than non European (caucasion) women. What's the bottom line? She'll be "Doin' it" unless she's under 11 and even then I wouldn't place bets.

[IAmZon]

As for whatever physco religious mindset will direct a person one way or another, here's cutting to the chase. Generally speaking, FSU women are more open and active in this area than those (caucasion women) in Western Europe who are in turn more open than non European (caucasion) women. What's the bottom line? She'll be "Doin' it" unless she's under 11 and even then I wouldn't place bets. /quote]

I agree entirely.

And, what about the hapless man the poll's question?   Do you see the stereotypes that are at the base of this endeavor alive and well?

[AnastassiaAsh]

I voted no sex before marriage, had to swing the poll this direction a little. 

[sunandsail]

frankly, this thread comes across as immature.

Well said, and probably too kind.   

I usually am at least entertained by dumb threads on here, but this is just silly.  Anyone fixated by this question needs to move back in with Mom.

[mies]

nevermind

[JR]

I voted no sex before marriage, had to swing the poll this direction a little. 

Ok, I'm gonna keep my mouth shut

[boaterguy]

Everyone should understand that a woman or man who can do without sex before marriage; can easily do without sex during the marriage also.

 :evil: LOL! That's why a man has a left hand and a woman has an index finger!  :evil:
















I hope Ya'll all realize this is a tasteless joke! 

[brave girl]

Unpleasant topic!!   brave girl

[SANDRO43]

A small antiquarian investment will save worries and doubts .

[BillyB]

Unpleasant topic!!   brave girl

Sorry I understand talking about money and gifts are more pleasant to some people but I had to change the subject.

If the ladies in this poll practice what they preach and reflect the entire population in the FSU, then it's safe to say 33% of FSU women are virgins before marriage. We need more lady voters for accuracy!!! If you participate on a ladies forum, post a link to this thread and get some ladies to vote. If anyone is qualified to answer, could I post a link to this thread on anti-date? If I remember right, there was some hard feelings between some men here and FSU ladies there since they posted a few members here on their blacklist insinuating they may be sex tourists.

[groovlstk]

If you participate on a ladies forum, post a link to this thread and get some ladies to vote. If anyone is qualified to answer, could I post a link to this thread on anti-date? If I remember right, there was some hard feelings between some men here and FSU ladies there since they posted a few members here on their blacklist insinuating they may be sex tourists.

Great, this thread will serve as Exhibit A whenever a RW wants to make a point about how ridiculous and ignorant American men are. As if they need more ammo... 

[I/O]

Ok, I'm gonna keep my mouth shut

Mrs Ash was speaking of keeping more than just the mouth "shut".

[Blues Fairy]

I voted no sex before marriage, had to swing the poll this direction a little. 

Then I have to vote as well to swing it back to normal. 
Silly poll though.  Why "RW"?  Shouldn't it be just "woman" or, more appropriately, "person"?

[BillyB]

Why "RW"?  Shouldn't it be just "woman" or, more appropriately, "person"?

Why? Because in this forum we are dealing with RW thousands of miles away and because with men, the poll needs to be worded differently. If I used the same words and it applied only to men, I guarantee we would see more bias than I would expect and some people will assume the men are sex tourists and the votes would not end up similar to the ladies poll. I want to eliminate the sex tourist factor and bias. We normally are more forgiving, give the benefit of the doubt, allow women to do what they want and get away with more than men. There is also a reason I didn't want to run both polls at the same time.

[mies]

ah... i see now - you basically wanted to prove that RWs are also sex-tourists  

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[Mars]

A small antiquarian investment will save worries and doubts .

Sandro, have you heard the old joke?

Crusader going off to the Holy Land.
Leaves key to his woman's chastity belt with trusted man friend . . . to use in case of emergency.
As crusader reaches outskirts of city his friend comes riding up hurriedly on his horse.
You have given me the wrong key!!!

[SANDRO43]

Sandro, have you heard the old joke?

Matter of fact I have, Mars - it's as old as the Second Crusade (1147–1149) when they resorted to HW after seeing the demographic explosion in the households of absentee lords engaged in the First Crusade (1095-1099) . 

[BillyB]

Started a poll for the opposite sex so if you participated in this one, participate in the other too.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=10804.0

[JR]

Sandro, have you heard the old joke?

Crusader going off to the Holy Land.
Leaves key to his woman's chastity belt with trusted man friend . . . to use in case of emergency.
As crusader reaches outskirts of city his friend comes riding up hurriedly on his horse.
You have given me the wrong key!!!

Or a little different "spin" on that old joke:
He trying the key says "It won't open the lock!"
To which she replies "Who cares, just keep turning it!!!"