Author Topic: How fast do they fall in love? (Read 6087 times)

greysuit · « **on:** February 10, 2009, 10:52:12 AM »

I've been communicating with this lady from Nizhni Novgorod about two weeks and have exchanged, maybe, 6 emails with her. She already has "fallen in love" with me and wants to start arranging travel to my city (this was in her last email, I've been too amazed to reply).

I mean really, it's probably a scam but I'm wondering how long I should play along. She claims to be "new" to looking for a man "on the Internet" yet has plenty of swimsuit pose pics replete with the sexy smile.

What does RWD think? Should I cut off all contact immediately or see what she does. I'm expecting her to ask for travel money in her next email.

Daveman · « **Reply #1 on:** February 10, 2009, 10:55:28 AM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 10, 2009, 10:52:12 AM

I've been communicating with this lady from Nizhni Novgorod about two weeks and have exchanged, maybe, 6 emails with her. She already has "fallen in love" with me and wants to start arranging travel to my city (this was in her last email, I've been too amazed to reply).

I mean really, it's probably a scam but I'm wondering how long I should play along. She claims to be "new" to looking for a man "on the Internet" yet has plenty of swimsuit pose pics replete with the sexy smile.

What does RWD think? Should I cut off all contact immediately or see what she does. I'm expecting her to ask for travel money in her next email.

I'd mess with her/him a bit. The real ladies fall in love at the same rate as any other woman. Yep, expect that this is probably a money scam. BUt have fun and play with it if you want. Write some off the wall crap un the next letter "I love you too. I'm sure my pet warthog will also love for you to tend to him while I am at work.. our many children can work the farm together." Whatever.. just goofy stuff.

GoodOlBoy · « **Reply #2 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:03:04 AM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 10, 2009, 10:52:12 AM

.....wants to start arranging travel to my city (this was in her last email, I've been too amazed to reply).

I mean really, it's probably a scam but I'm wondering how long I should play along. She claims to be "new" to looking for a man "on the Internet" yet has plenty of swimsuit pose pics replete with the sexy smile.

And how does she plan on travelling to your city (USA) Greysuit?

Send money to her/him for "Special Visa"? :evil:

IMO, "Fat Yuri" at work again.....SCAM

GOB

greysuit · « **Reply #3 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:11:59 AM »

Dave, yeah, I'm think about saying, "Well I could never ask you to come here without meeting your mother first!" and see what happens.

GOB. In "her" third email she misstated her name twice. Good thing I lurked here for a while before contacting any of these women.

GoodOlBoy · « **Reply #4 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:24:17 AM »

Greysuit, I am probably going to catch some heat for saying this.

Just my humble (personal) opinion, BUT..... if any FSU woman tells you she loves you before you have ever met face to face, there may be a problem (red flag).

And for God's sake, don't ever say those words (I Love You.....Ya tebyA lyublyU) to her, before you meet, she won't think you are serious.

GOB

Simoni · « **Reply #5 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:26:12 AM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 10, 2009, 10:52:12 AM

I've been communicating with this lady from Nizhni Novgorod about two weeks and have exchanged, maybe, 6 emails with her. She already has "fallen in love" with me and wants to start arranging travel to my city (this was in her last email, I've been too amazed to reply).

I mean really, it's probably a scam but I'm wondering how long I should play along. She claims to be "new" to looking for a man "on the Internet" yet has plenty of swimsuit pose pics replete with the sexy smile.

What does RWD think? Should I cut off all contact immediately or see what she does. I'm expecting her to ask for travel money in her next email.

It's not "probably a scam;" it is a scam.

Don't mess with a scammer. Move on and communicate with honest girls. Why waste time on this one?

greysuit · « **Reply #6 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:47:14 AM »

Quote from: GoodOlBoy on February 10, 2009, 11:24:17 AM

Greysuit, I am probably going to catch some heat for saying this.

Just my humble (personal) opinion, BUT..... if any FSU woman tells you she loves you before you have ever met face to face, there may be a problem (red flag).

And for God's sake, don't ever say those words (I Love You.....Ya tebyA lyublyU) to her, before you meet, she won't think you are serious.

GOB

Well, you'll get no heat from me. I think it really depends on the situation but if you tell her you love her online or on the phone and finally see her and she has stinky armpits, then what??

greysuit · « **Reply #7 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:48:51 AM »

Quote from: Simoni on February 10, 2009, 11:26:12 AM

It's not "probably a scam;" it is a scam.

Don't mess with a scammer. Move on and communicate with honest girls. Why waste time on this one?

Yes, you are right of course but they're going to wasting time, too..ha.

SANDRO43 · « **Reply #8 on:** February 10, 2009, 11:57:45 AM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 10, 2009, 11:48:51 AM

Yes, you are right of course but they're going to wasting time, too..ha.

Not much really, all in a scammer's day work, as they say. She'd just pick up Standard Reply #5 from her pile, fill in the blank after My darling ...!, and send it off

.

greysuit · « **Reply #9 on:** February 10, 2009, 12:04:12 PM »

Quote from: SANDRO43 on February 10, 2009, 11:57:45 AM

Not much really, all in a scammer's day work, as they say. She'd just pick up Standard Reply #5 from her pile, fill in the blank after My darling ...!, and send it off .

That sounds about right!

OlgaH · « **Reply #10 on:** February 10, 2009, 12:09:46 PM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 10, 2009, 11:47:14 AM

I think it really depends on the situation but if you tell her you love her online or on the phone and finally see her and she has stinky armpits, then what??

Arranging next meeting in sauna

greysuit · « **Reply #11 on:** February 10, 2009, 12:22:00 PM »

Quote from: OlgaH on February 10, 2009, 12:09:46 PM

Arranging next meeting in sauna

I'm taking notes!

Kuna · « **Reply #12 on:** February 10, 2009, 01:27:27 PM »

greysuit,

There's really no point in continuing the conversations with the gang of thieves on the other end. It's not a woman, and even if it is you have to remember it's simply not the women "it" is pretending to be.

I found you're just much better off putting all of your energy into finding someone genuine and then going to meet her.

Best of luck!

SANDRO43 · « **Reply #13 on:** February 10, 2009, 07:03:54 PM »

Quote from: OlgaH on February 10, 2009, 12:09:46 PM

Arranging next meeting in sauna

Nah, too softy-pansy

. They're using flame-throwers to de-ice aircraft wings over there, oxy-acetylene blow-torch depilation would be culturally more appropriate

.

greysuit · « **Reply #14 on:** February 11, 2009, 08:56:10 AM »

Quote from: Kuna on February 10, 2009, 01:27:27 PM

greysuit,

There's really no point in continuing the conversations with the gang of thieves on the other end. It's not a woman, and even if it is you have to remember it's simply not the women "it" is pretending to be.

I found you're just much better off putting all of your energy into finding someone genuine and then going to meet her.

Best of luck!

Thanks Kuna. I've decided not to play along. It's a very typical scam. Fall in love by 5th email and wants to come to your country. I suspected a scam by the second email anyway. Sometimes age has it's advantages

Mila · « **Reply #15 on:** February 12, 2009, 03:22:52 AM »

Hi Greysuit! You have made the right decision, as life is too short to waste the time for scam. Continue your search and always be careful.Good luck!

Tamara · « **Reply #16 on:** February 12, 2009, 02:08:34 PM »

Quote from: greysuit on February 11, 2009, 08:56:10 AM

Thanks Kuna. I've decided not to play along. It's a very typical scam. Fall in love by 5th email and wants to come to your country. I suspected a scam by the second email anyway. Sometimes age has it's advantages

Greysuit,

It's a wise decision. Spend your time on finding the one and best of luck! No point to try to teach anybody a lesson or waste their time. This is what they chose to do. Build your family and find real relationship. :angel:

Vinnvinny · « **Reply #17 on:** February 12, 2009, 02:12:42 PM »

... although it's probably best to find the relationship before you do the building bit.

greysuit · « **Reply #18 on:** February 12, 2009, 02:50:30 PM »

Thanks Mila and Tamara.

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