yet another FNG

[opticalc]

thats me. (34/M/Atlanta)

Hey Everyone.  I live in Georgia, but am currently working on contract in Iraq for a defense contractor.  I've been lurking for a few weeks.

Divorced twice, with 2 kids who live in TX with their mother.  Which sucks.  At this point in my life Im not sure I want any more kids, so I'm not sure how that will affect things with FSU women.  As long as I'm up front with them about it, I guess we'll see.

[Gator]

Welcome opticalc!

Let me add this up:

-  34 and divorced twice. 

-  Not spending time with your kids. 

-  Not wanting children.

-  Working in Iraq.

No disrespect intended, but most RW will not consider you as serious family material. 

I do not know how you should approach the RW venture other than being sure to define your situation by the 3rd or 4th letter (after you know that she is seriously interested in you).  There are many, many RW in the game, and among them you may find someone whose goals are aligned with your life.

[Simoni]

No disrespect intended, but most RW will not consider you as serious family material. 

Welcome opticalc.   I'm with Gator on this one.  Just be sure you are over your two failed marriages before you get involved again.  And believe me, it is much more difficult to adjust to an FSU woman that an American one.

[opticalc]

I hear what you guys are saying.  With the few letters I have written, I'm upfront about everything.  As an attempt to not waste anyone's time, I'm doing it with the first letter, not waiting even until the 3rd one.

From what you're saying I guess its a good thing this isnt a last ditch effort though. hahaha.  I guess I'll see what happens.