Hello from a new guy

[rambler]

Hello all, 
I'm new here and hope to learn a lot.
So far I have been to Moscow once , Odessa and France to meet 3 younger ladies Mostly this year...+once to Moscow several years ago. 

I can say I learned a lot on how not to go about it!
Humbled, lighter in the wallet area and quite a bit less happy than when I started out ... planning a first meeting in with a 5th beauty (who has been mentioned here in the past) ... need help on how not to make the same or new mistakes! Unfortunately I only just found this site when I entered a young ladies name ....

This year I only used EM .. more on that later

Rambler

[Faux Pas]

Welcome rambler!

Knowing what not to do is a good start too. If you were a little more forthcoming on your Moscow and Odessa trips members might have something more to go on in helping you avoid some of those pitfalls you seemed to have experienced in the past.

Good Luck

[BillyB]

So far I have been to Moscow once , Odessa and France to meet 3 younger ladies Mostly this year...+once to Moscow several years ago. 

Welcome Rambler, I hope you ramble on more about your experience in France. Was it her idea or yours? Did the romantic city help any to bring out the romantic side of the lady you met and did the city help you understand if she's marriage material? I understand things didn't work out for you but too many guys are open to the idea meeting in a romantic place will win a woman over. All it takes is one short meeting in a cafe anywhere in the World and a RW could tell you "it's over".

[rambler]

Hello again,
Yes I will share and try to get some advice on the specifics, but not sure if I should move over to another section when I do that. 

Billy you are so right - how did you know she did that in a Cafe!? But then changed her mind and then again and then again !  No kidding .... 5 times ...  dizzy  - her?  No me still not sure ... 

 I'm glad you responded because I was looking for how to contact you by PM or Email about a friend of yours.  Haven't found a PM button yet and your Email is hidden (don't want to post my here either)  Is that OK? 

Rambler

[JR]

Welcome Rambler,

If you want advice (and there's a lot of it here:)) you're going to have to post more details of what happed, what you think went wrong and more importantly what you're hoping to avoid.

[rambler]

  Oh that PM button ...Found it, was looking on your profile before I found it on my mail... 

[rambler]

Hi JR,
 Did you get what you needed about Elena's Models? I have been on there but only for 6 months.  Have you been using their website?  There seem to be a lot of girls coming to Europe in August. Is it the traditional holiday month for Russia? (like France which basically closes in August)
I will recount my mistakes but it's late here (UK)  I live here and sometimes in France and its 23:35 so maybe tomorrow. Here's the first mistake  ... going shopping together - don't!

Thanks for the welcomes! 

Rambler

[BillyB]

 I'm glad you responded because I was looking for how to contact you by PM or Email about a friend of yours.  Haven't found a PM button yet and your Email is hidden (don't want to post my here either)  Is that OK? 

Yes, it's okay to PM me.

[JR]

Hi JR,
 Did you get what you needed about Elena's Models? I have been on there but only for 6 months.  Have you been using their website?  There seem to be a lot of girls coming to Europe in August. Is it the traditional holiday month for Russia? (like France which basically closes in August)
I will recount my mistakes but it's late here (UK)  I live here and sometimes in France and its 23:35 so maybe tomorrow. Here's the first mistake  ... going shopping together - don't!

Thanks for the welcomes! 

Rambler

LOL, in my opinion shopping is always a mistake, especially on a first date!!!!

Yes the issue of EM is resolved. She is a scammer. I sent her a goodbye letter and she responded with:
Hello my Dear Joey, my lovely Joey

I am very glad to get your letter. Every time I am so exciting, when I
open my mailbox. I want to tell you, that I am happy so much, that we
found each other in internet and that we dicided to write each other.
I am so thankful to my fate, which connected us! My female intuition
didn’t let me down, because I am sure, that you are the person, whom I
wanted to meet always. I searched the person, with whom I would want
to spend happy and long life together…

! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

Makes me want to