Nice American Man wondering about his relationship with Ukraine woman

[Faux Pas]

Ken, I need a new wardrobe also.  

But seriously; men like you do tremendous harm to the rest of we men in terms of the expectations that you enable.

No he doesn't. He only raises the expectations of the scammers he pursues. Inna's actions in no way reflect on the millions of decent sincere woman any more than kens's actions reflect on "we men". There are stupid people everywhere. That doesn't mean all people are stupid.  


kens1958, A fool and his money soon part. Initially in this thread I had hoped you were sincere in your quest but apparently you were not. You seem to be completely happy paying for company. There are much easier ways of doing that. Yet you continue to chase a fantasy. When/if the money runs out, what will you do then?

[dogspot]

kens1958 are you real? I need to renew my wardrobe. Do you want a friendship? 

Perhaps you could give him a serious shot at a relationship, RW. Send him some bikini photos.  What do you have to lose?

[apple47]

and the beat goes on  ,or ,as KenC said , WTF!!

[GlobalEuphoria]

   While this may be my first reply within this on going series of posts, I've followed this seriously twisted train wreck from the beggining.  I think I could wax on about this subject like the many others but at the end of the day I see this guy as one of two things of which both should have all of us walking away from this thread.

   1 -  If these tales are true (which I think only 50% is) then this guy is biggest "mark" in all of FSU dating. The complete lack of self confidence, street smarts and backbone is rather sad if not many other things.

   2 -  This man as stated above is lacking in many personal departments, of which the main item is backbone/self confidence. Every post has to include something not just about himself but about his so called wealth. He seems to be void of any ability to twist a tale without including a dollar figure or making sure that the tale revolves around himself and his self worth.... it's sad to be honest. I don't feel any scorn for this guy if the tale is true but a true sense of pity for someone actually living his life this way, very unfortunate.

  3 -  From reading your posts, I am also left with a major headache due to horrid spelling and grammar, to which  you even incorrectly spell your own profession on numerous occassions. Since your so wealthy, may I have a few grand to spend on liqour and pills so that I can forget I ever came across this thread, afterall spending money for you is like breathing. I can only hope you don't  spell this  way when writing a FSU lady, ironically you're the one who requires a translator.

[Ade]

  3 -  From reading your posts, I am also left with a major headache due to horrid spelling and grammar, to which  you even incorrectly spell your own profession on numerous occassions occasions. Since your you're so wealthy, may I have a few grand to spend on liqour liquor and pills so that I can forget I ever came across this thread, afterall after all, spending money for you is like breathing. I can only hope you don't  spell this  way when writing a FSU lady, ironically you're the one who requires a translator.

FWIW, shouldn't be throwing black pots 'n kettles in greenhouses.

[GlobalEuphoria]

FWIW, shouldn't be throwing black pots 'n kettles in greenhouses.

  You're totally right on that one. I wrote a little too quickly as my mind was filled with too many thoughts on what to actually type out.  Although there is a stark difference between what the levels of comprehension he and I have for the language or at least in terms of respect for the readers eyes/brain.

[Gator]

Ken, I don't understand you at all.  I take the time to write this hoping you understand there is something wrong in your head.

Prodater scams usually occur as follows:

1.  It starts with a combination of loneliness and repeated failed attempts at finding a fulfilling relationship with his peers. 

2.  While surfing the Internet a man comes across some marriage agency sites and he gawks at alluring photos of pretty women. 

3.  He reads the agency hype  and begins to fantasize about young pretty women. 

4.  He takes the plunge and corresponds with some pretty women.

A lot of men have done Steps 1-4 above.  So what is different about you Ken. 

5.  One of the women you write is a prodater who deceives you with carefully crafted letters, which you do not recognize as BS because:

          a.  You lack "street smarts" and/or

          b.  You are ignorant because you have not done your research (e. g., RWD). 

A number of men stop at Step 5, yet a number still advance to the next step. 

6.  You decide to make the trip and there you meet your prodater.  Her actions quickly reveal who she is.  However, you do not have adequate dating skills, street smarts and/or backbone, and so she takes you for a ride. 

I would guess thousands of men have been fleeced by a prodater.  You returned to the US not with your tail between your legs but with questions in your mind and posed the questions in this thread.  Questions!?  Young men such as Handycam recognized the truth (he is only 36 and you can read his excellent report with analysis in the Scammers subforum).  You are in your 50s and have been successful in business.   

Everyone explains the truth to you in clear terms.  You don't believe it.  What I find inexplicable is why you would take a second trip and shower her with gifts.  This is lunacy.  You do need some therapy.   There is something seriously wrong that needs fixing in your head.     

[boaterguy]

Why not go here: http://www.floriani.it/sitirussi/doppiogioco-eng.htm

With the amount of cash you seem to have dropped you could rent one of these ladies for a year or 2 and she would probably treat you like a king in and out of the bedroom!