Cheers for the Freudian analysis there Dave.
LoL.. yeah, and I'm sure it was somehow related to my mother..
Let my try another way... take it or leave it.. ignore it.. whatever... What I am getting at here is.... where the hell is the
passion? the raw emotion? -- The "GOD I want her/him" -- "happy" or "sad" doesn't really cut it. Maybe, just maybe, acting a little weird, jumping in the bed and pulling the covers over her head could have been a little game she was playing with you as part of the chase sequence? What we would call "drama" plays a pretty big and sometimes I'd say even critical role in the process of an RW... I often relate it to almost teenage craziness... perhaps she wanted you to jump on the bed, make animal noises, and kiss her passionately rather than cook dinner.
Um, just a thought to ponder. YOU just may have had strange and bizarre behavior in HER eyes.. "I jumped into the bed, tempted him, and this guy wants to COOK something other than me!" You control her responses more than you may think you do.
here is her friends' description from your post:
While there in Adler I found out from her friends there who I am in regular communication with that when they asked her about me she replied that I was a really good man who helped her anytime no matter what and that he was taking me to Egypt of which she was really looking forward.
Do you not think there should at least be at
little something else sprinkled in there? This "good man" thing and "helping her out" is way overrated in the big picture. Sure, being reliable is important to any woman, but is that all there is? If so, you might want to at least think about taking action which triggers a response as opposed to passively waiting on continental drift to get you there (or for her to do something with "the ball".
Plus, a "let's see what happens" attitude doesn't really wash... nothing will
ever happen unless you
make it happen.. These women are not going to chase you, or even meet you half way in the same manner a western woman might. They expect to BE chased. Be a freakin' animal, growl and snort, swing from a vine grab her around the waist and carry her off to your jungle tree house. It's a game that shows you WANT her... and she'll sure as hell respond to it...though I can't promise it will inevitably be the desired response.
This post contains actual excerpts from my book entitled "The Mating Game, a Retrospective Glimpse from the Asylum".
