Guys help me on Russian women

[confused]

Hello guys ,

IM from india  26 year old (not a American indian) ..most frequently asked question

My little story in short : i like Russian girl and she like me ,we meet 2 times now she asked can marry ,im very happy to do that but !!!

why i like her ?
-NO drama like indian women ( i hate that drama)
-she dont care about my wealth
-she like family stuff

my questions is: i know its so shit to say ,but i like family and kids etc and one women relation after marriage ,can they stay with me life long ?? or generally russian women tend to change?

-do they like to stay with one guy life long ?(i dont know why ,but we are though that way make a family than 10 friends and i think its better)
 -can they adjust to indian culture(i cannot live my parents alone ,you know they worked hard for me now they are old ,i cannot leave them alone i must take care)  ,so i tend to spend time with my wife and parents (can she understand that )
-can she be good mother ,like loving children ?

I know these depend on individual personality ,im asking in general what does russian women thin of these

Note :i been searching about this on internet and i find really hard things on indians
-they fat ?
-they are ugly
-they are smelly ?
-they are submissive to white women (i think giving important to loved one , is considered as submissive here )
-they are black
-they cheat

they may be true but not in most of the cases atleast with me


Thanks again

 

[Gator]

  Confused.
 
Your concern seems to be whether RW are inclined to stay with their man for life.  This depends more upon the woman's character, values, etc. than whether she is Russian.  Even more important is YOU.  Will you love her and cherish her for all of your life?
 
 
 

IM from india  26 year old

You are young, and I assume she is younger.  Young people change.

My little story in short : i like Russian girl and she like me ,we meet 2 times now she asked can marry ,im very happy to do that but !!!

She proposed marriage to you?  Is this common in India.  A RW essentially proposed marriage to me, and UI eventually married her, and we soon divorced.
 
 

why i like her ?
-NO drama like indian women ( i hate that drama)
-she dont care about my wealth
-she like family stuff

This is your brain speaking.  What does your heart say?  What does her heart say?  How do you know "she dont care about my wealth?"

 

so i tend to spend time with my wife and parents (can she understand that )

It will be a good sign (but no guarantee) if she has the same family values:   she feels the same about her parents and her parents are still happily living together.
 

and ha-can she be good mother ,like loving children ?

RW in general have a reputation for being good mothers, maybe too good for Indian culture.  You must discuss completely her ideas on mothering.
 

they may be true but not in most of the cases atleast with me

See, everyone is different.  I suggest that you spend more time together - have more meetings.   Has she been to India to meet your family?  have you met her family?

[Kuna]

I don't know if this is a serious post or not...  but hell,  I've got a few minutes spare:

Hello guys ,

IM from india  26 year old (not a American indian) ..most frequently asked question

My little story in short : i like Russian girl and she like me ,we meet 2 times now she asked can marry ,im very happy to do that but !!!

You met twice and she asked you to marry her???  Is that what you said???  If so,  I'd be concerned - how long have you spent together???

why i like her ?
-NO drama like indian women ( i hate that drama)
-she dont care about my wealth
-she like family stuff

No drama??? Depends entirely on the girl... I've met some Aust Men with RU/UA wives and their lives seem full of drama.

At the same time I know Indian couples here and the husbands portray their wives as being perfect partners.  Of course the truth is somewhere in between, and may be totally reversed in some examples...  but you shouldn't think that RW don't create drama.

-She doesn't care about your wealth???  Do you have wealth or do you mean she doesn't care about your lack of wealth?  I can promise you something... some RW.UW can be VERY frugal when it comes to spending money, but I don't know if there is a woman on earth who doesn't care about a man's wealth in the sense of whether he has enough to support his family...  If you don't have much money then don't let yourself believe a RW will thrive on insecurity... and if you don't money don't think your RW won't come to enjoy it.

- She likes family stuff???  A RW is a fierce mother at times...  but not all RW are family oriented.  Indian culture has a unique "commitment" to their children which is not unlike how some RW treat their children but there are ost definitely cultural differences from what I have seen of both cultures.

When it comes to having children and raising a family you should be certain you've had "the brutally honest" discussions about each parties values or there is certain to be conflict.

my questions is: i know its so shit to say ,but i like family and kids etc and one women relation after marriage ,can they stay with me life long ?? or generally russian women tend to change?

-do they like to stay with one guy life long ?(i dont know why ,but we are though that way make a family than 10 friends and i think its better)

Whether she is prepared to enter a life-long commitment and stick to it is entirely up to her and you as a couple...  This is not a cultural trait but a personal one.  No one can answer this for you.

-can they adjust to indian culture(i cannot live my parents alone ,you know they worked hard for me now they are old ,i cannot leave them alone i must take care)  ,so i tend to spend time with my wife and parents (can she understand that )

Can "she" adjust???  This again is an individual thing... and has a lot to you with your current living situation,  levels of comfort, income,  housing situation, the city/region you live in...  and then considering where she comes from and what her expectations are... etc. 

Some RW (my wife certainly, and at least two of her friends) just wouldn't be able to cope with the spicy food let alone a big cultural change.  My wife (and others) really struggle with "full flavoured food - i.e. use of lots of spices, etc)


Regarding RW being good mothers...  I'd say the ones I know are all very strong mothers but there are differences in the way they raise children in some aspects to how we raise children here.

Note :i been searching about this on internet and i find really hard things on Indians
-they fat ?
-they are ugly
-they are smelly ?
-they are submissive to white women (i think giving important to loved one , is considered as submissive here )
-they are black
-they cheat

they may be true but not in most of the cases at least with me

- Indians submissive to women???  Not the ones I've met!      if anything I've seen quite the opposite but again it's an individual thing.

You would be aware (or should be aware) that many people in Eastern Europe are still very racist...  you seem to have found a woman who is not but have you met her friends and her family.  What is your relationship with them like?  How does that make her feel?

has she visited your home yet???  I would think with such a dramatic change it would be essential to see you at home, your friends and family.

I'm also curious about how your family feel about you marrying a RW???  I would imagine it would have been a difficult conversation with them if your family has "traditional family values" too?

Would she be expected to convert to your religion?  Is she aware what this entails and what would be required of her?  This is also a big step for some women whereas others just wouldn't care.



You sound like you WANT something but you're scared of the potential outcomes.

Be aware that marriage to a RW is a bigger risk for you than if you married a "nice Indian girl" but if you feel like the increased risk is worth it, and you have your families support,  then it's truly up to you to make the decision.

Time and mutual understanding will help - but there are no guarantees.

Good luck!

[confused]

Spasiba guys ! both Gator and Kuna


Kuna sorry if it sounded fake ,but unfortunately its true

you guys made real points which helps ,i will spend time on what you said to solve

yes its too young relation to get married ,spent less than 3 months and in that 1 month traveling with her

ON drama
they are much much straight forward than indian girls ,indian girls are really crazy (they lie a lot)

on money
im not billionaire, nor i earned that money im spending , in general in india ,if father is rich enough then son  will be rich enough,he give all his money to son to spend ,on that basis im fairly rich

though she know i want to spend or can spend on her  ,she always refused saying unless im yours i dont want you to spend money ( i mean when she is my wife i can spend) ,i liked that attitude made me believe she is not behind me for my money ,isnt this lovely ?


ON family
ohh yes ,they will be hell lot of drama if i say it in my family ,i dint meet their family yet ,may be hard times .i think its ok with my family in india ,they never ever say to my word untill now ,i hope teh same with this

i talked all these points with Anna ,she says ok to all but i just want to ask all RW experts if im doing write on not


You sound like you WANT something but you're scared of the potential outcomes.
Exactly Kuna, i like Anna and every thing looks perfect except that fact she is not very keen to live in india with me instead she prefer USA Or UK  ,i tried explaining my parents are 60 year old now i cant leave them alone when they are getting older .we had an argument on this topic , it sounds so silly and fake for her when i talk this with Anna .

Just curious why does RW think im faking when i say ,im worried to leave older parents alone ? and when i say ,i still live with them and father generally spares all his money for their children .is it really that rare in russia?

im not saying im type of Sugar boy
-i drink loads of vodka too
- i do crazy things
-i had GF in past

but my argument is whatever good or bad you are ,there must be minimum commitment to relation no matter which ,it can be wife or sister or dad or mom or friend

i hope Kuna can answer this


Would she be expected to convert to your religion?  Is she aware what this entails and what would be required of her?  This is also a big step for some women whereas others just wouldn't care.
Relegion is not a big deal,im not interested to change her religion nor i can change my religion


Be aware that marriage to a RW is a bigger risk for you than if you married a "nice Indian girl" but if you feel like the increased risk is worth it, and you have your families support,  then it's truly up to you to make the decision.
Indian girl are no more Nice beware ,any help on it ask me


Thanks
Your Indian friend

[Daveman]

Spasiba guys ! both Gator and Kuna

From me as well. Superb posts.

ON drama
they are much much straight forward than indian girls ,indian girls are really crazy (they lie a lot)

Uh, you may find that RW take drama to a whole new level.  Yeah. LOTS of drama with FSUW.  I mean over the top, off the wall, God only has a clue kinds of drama.  Exaggeration? heh.. you'll decide for yourself later.. but you've been warned...


Lies are pretty common in the world and I highly doubt Indian ladies as a generalization are any better or worse. 

...

Indian girl are no more Nice beware ,any help on it ask me


Thanks
Your Indian friend

When you curtail the generalizing and begin your discovery of, and then 'focusing on', what actually appeals directly to *you*, many more doors will open anywhere in the world. 


Yes, RW completely rock.. but they're not some mystical magical manifestation making your life suddenly the epitome of perfection... 

[Donna_Pedro]

Would she be expected to convert to your religion?   This is also a big step for some women whereas others just wouldn't care.

 I brought my husband to russia and christened him in my church.

Is she aware what this entails and what would be required of her? 

Just out  of curiosity - What in particular would be required of her? Anyway, seriously, I would ask you a question - do YOU understand what would be required of YOU?. Thats far more important question. At any rate, I can assure you, she wont walk behind you.

[mendeleyev]

Would she be expected to convert to your religion?   This is also a big step for some women whereas others just wouldn't care.

Depends on several factors:

1- She could be devoutly Orthodox (or Muslim). In either case, no.

2- A common scenario: at a young age she is open on this question. That will not be a problem until she is pregnant at which point it is very likely that one morning she will sit up in bed and you'll watch life begin to change as she heads down to the nearest Orthodox church to consult with a priest and the next thing you know is you're standing (Orthodox do not sit in a church) while watching your baby be baptized after she has vowed to raise it Orthodox. We'll recognize you--you'll be the out of place guy with that "deer in headlights" look wondering what happened to her previous feelings of openness about religion.

3- At a young age she is open (or doesn't care) and will remain so forever.

Since she is young now you really can't predict how she will react in the future. In her culture, whether she is Orthodox or Muslim, it is not the most common trait for her to convert just because of marriage.

[mendeleyev]

Ditto on Gator and Kuna. ++

[sheikh_azeez]

I think this is nice post, and as I like Russian or ukrainian women as well, I am nice, kind and good looking young man, 35yrs. I am educated and IT Consultant training professional, I don't know in reality how to make out who is real beautiful girl, who will really be interested, there are also fake or love spams,  but I like Russian or Ukranian Women, They seems to be having nice voice, beautiful and family oriented. I can read and write basic knowledge in Arabic,Russian,Spanish,German,Ukranian, Belurussian, French, and fluent in English, Hindi,Urdu,Telugu,Kannada,Tamil.

[LAman]

i talked all these points with Anna ,she says ok to all but i just want to ask all RW experts if im doing write on not



 

Now that....is funny....