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« on: February 05, 2005, 09:25:23 AM »
I've heard conflicting reports about this. I definitely read
somewhere that traditional RW consider it disgusting to
kiss someone they aren't in love with. Is that still true
with today's contemporary RW?   -doug

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« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2005, 09:36:09 AM »
I only have experience with RW/UW age 35 and up.  So I guess they would be more traditional than younger gals.  Anyway, they will mostly kiss very soon, like during or after first luncheon or dinner date.  They certainly can't be in love at that point.

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« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2005, 09:45:10 AM »
It's good to hear they aren't puritanical.

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« Reply #3 on: February 05, 2005, 10:52:31 AM »
Try RM ( russian man )... when they have a little drink, they kiss friend without problem...and on the mouth...

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« Reply #4 on: February 05, 2005, 11:16:41 AM »
Most sensible women get a lover sooner or later. The thing is they never confess, so it looks like they are puritanical. Men like to boast so it looks like women are puritanical but it's just that they don't boast.

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Try RM ( russian man )... when they have a little drink, they kiss friend without problem...and on the mouth...

Not me :D.
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« Reply #5 on: February 05, 2005, 11:33:48 AM »
Stirlitz write : " Most sensible women get a lover sooner or later. "

Usually sooner... try to find a RW older of 18 who is always a virgin !!! They begin enough early...

Stirlitz write : " The thing is they never confess, so it looks like they are puritanical."

Russian woman are enough hot but they keep it private... they don't kiss easily in public, they don't show her felling, but when you are in the bedroom... you need to be ready to some exercice...

A RW advice about sex : " А теперь немного о сексе. Поймите, что даже если вам заплатили за проезд и гостиницу, вы не обязаны за это расплачиваться натурой.
Вообще, на мой взгляд, лучше пригласить "жениха" к себе. Но уж если он сильно настаивает на встрече где-нибудь в Европе и обещает за все заплатить, то пусть купит тур, чтобы и гостиница и билеты в оба конца были оплачены. Не подвергайте себя опасности в поте лица "отрабатывать" обратный билет. Вы всегда можете сказать "нет". Даже если 100 раз уже с этим человеком занимались сексом. Поверьте мне, американцы хорошо слово "НЕТ" понимают. В этой стране даже жены могут запросто подать в суд за изнасилование.
Однако если вы друг другу понравились и поняли, что у вас серьезно, а тем более если уже договорились о браке, на мой взгляд, проверить "доблесть" жениха стоит. Вам же не нужны сюрпризы после свадьбы! Слишком много сейчас развелось импотентов. Многим моих подругам встречались несостоятельные мужчины даже в возрасте 30 лет!
Если ваш друг избегает секса после того, как у вас уже сложились серьезные отношения, - ВНИМАНИЕ! Насторожитесь! Причины им могут выдвигаться разные, скажем, религиозные. Или, например, одной из моих подруг было сказано: "Я джентльмен. Я тебя слишком уважаю. Я не могу так - в гостинице!". (Чем, интересно, плохи гостиницы?) При этом они страстно обнимались и целовались, а подруга моя, надо отдать ей должное, редкой красоты и стройности дивчина. И никакой мужской реакции на эти обстоятельства!!! "


Use your pocket translator... of use the service from Stirliz

Stirliz write : " Not me :-)"

How ? You don't drink like all russian man... maybe the problem of alcohol with russian man is again a myth !!!


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« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2005, 09:47:29 AM »
Bruno,
I can't read Russian.

I would prefer a woman who
is NOT casual about sex. I would prefer a more
traditional RW, who associates sex with affection
for a guy she loves, rather than with someone she
doesn't know very well.   -doug

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« Reply #7 on: February 06, 2005, 10:27:54 AM »
Hello Doug... me too i cannot read russian, only some words...

i use online translator for understand... are you lazy ... ok, a bad computer translate for you...

"But now a little about the sex. Understand, what even if to you they paid for the passage and the hotel, you are not obligated for this to pay with nature.
Generally, in my view, it is better to invite "fiance" to itself. But already if it strongly insists on the encounter somewhere in Europe and promises for everything to pay, that let will purchase stage, so that both the hotel and the tickets round trip would be paid. Do not subject itself to danger in the perspiration of face "to master" opposite ticket. You always can say "no". Even if 100 times with this person were already occupied by sex. Pover'te to me, Americans good word "NO" understands. In this country even wife they can without ceremony tax into the law court for the rape.
However, if you were pleased and understood to each other, which in you is serious, and those more if already they agreed about the marriage, in my view, to verify the "valor" of fiance stands. Surprises after wedding are not necessary to you! Too much now bred impotents. By many of my to friends were encountered unfounded men even at the age of 30 years! If your friend avoids sex after that, as in you serious relations has already been formed, - ATTENTION! You nastorozhites'! Reasons by it can be advanced different, let us say, religious. Or, for example, it was said to one of my friends: "4 gentlemen. 4 you I too respect. 4 I not can so - in the hotel!". (than, it is interesting, are poor hotels?) in this case they passionately were embraced and kissed, and friend is my, it is necessary to give credit to it, rare beauty and the order of divchina. And no man reaction to these circumstances!!! "

And send the following to your russian love for Valentine... she will be happy :

Я могу не спать всю ночь только ради того,
чтобы слушать твое дыхание
Наблюдать за твоей улыбкой, пока ты спишь,
Пока ты далеко-далеко видишь сны.
Я мог бы провести всю мою жизнь в этом милом окружении.
Я мог бы затеряться в этом моменте навечно.
Каждое мгновение с тобой - это мое сокровище.

Я не хочу закрывать глаза,
Не хочу засыпать
Потому что я буду скучать по тебе
И я не хочу упустить ни единой детали
Потому что даже когда я вижу сны о тебе,
самый сладкий сон не заменит реальности
Я буду все равно скучать по тебе,
И я не хочу упустить ни единой детали

Я лежу рядом с тобой
и чувствую биение твоего сердца.
И мне интересно, о чем твои сны,
меня ли ты в них видишь.
Я целую твои глаза, и, слава Богу, - мы вместе.
Я просто хочу застыть в этом моменте с тобой навечно -
Навечно и навсегда!

Я не хочу упустить ни одной улыбки,
Ни одного поцелуя,
Я просто хочу быть с тобой прямо здесь вот так.
Я просто хочу прижать тебя к себе,
Почувствовать твое сердце так близко к моему,
и просто остаться в этом моменте до конца своей жизни.

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« Reply #8 on: February 06, 2005, 10:36:08 AM »
Doug, i am sure that you can say i love you in russian language :

Ya tebya liubliu

but for your woman from kiev, use ukrainian language :

Ya tebe kahayu

And for these who make trip around the world... i love you in 100 languages at http://www.links2love.com/i_love_you_languages.htm 

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« Reply #9 on: February 06, 2005, 11:05:23 AM »
Bruno,
Sure, I must be lazy.

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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #10 on: July 06, 2006, 08:48:20 AM »
Stirliz write : " Not me :-)"

How ? You don't drink like all russian man... maybe the problem of alcohol with russian man is again a myth !!!



I am not a typical Russian man. Well, I am not indifferent to vodka also. But it does mean I love it. I hate it!!
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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #11 on: July 06, 2006, 11:45:14 AM »
I definitely read somewhere that traditional RW consider it disgusting to kiss someone they aren't in love with. Is that still true with today's contemporary RW?

It depends on a person, not nationality. I know girls who can kiss a stranger in no time just for the heck of it and I know 'traditional' ones who lost their virginity on the first wedding night with the guy who was the first and the last to kiss their lips.

In general, I`d say nowadays to kiss a guy a girl isn`t in love with is a pretty common thing, like everywhere. I can`t speak of older women however, may be it`s different for them.
Kiss.. Common, now I see many people tend to have sex first and then get to know each other. ::)
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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #12 on: July 06, 2006, 03:48:00 PM »
Kiss.. Common, now I see many people tend to have sex first and then get to know each other. ::)

Do you have some e-mail addresses or phone numbers for them?  ;D

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« Reply #13 on: July 06, 2006, 05:16:24 PM »
Do you have some e-mail addresses or phone numbers for them?  ;D
Shame on you :D, I thought you were looking for a wife.
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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #14 on: July 06, 2006, 09:19:31 PM »
Shame on you :D, I thought you were looking for a wife.

No, he's not looking for a wife.  Well, maybe he is if she's under 25.

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« Reply #15 on: July 07, 2006, 04:41:21 AM »
Shame on you :D, I thought you were looking for a wife.
What makes you think he is not?

That is exactly what my future wife and I did when we met. It was our second date though, not the first (which was in a car and while it is OK for sex, not exactly for sex on the first date).
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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #16 on: July 07, 2006, 05:41:52 AM »
If all I were really looking for was sex this would be the least productive and most expensive way to go about it.

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« Reply #17 on: July 07, 2006, 05:58:22 AM »
If all I were really looking for was sex this would be the least productive and most expensive way to go about it.

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« Reply #18 on: July 07, 2006, 07:05:47 AM »
 :burnedup:

LOL

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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #19 on: July 07, 2006, 09:07:21 AM »
Ok, I gues I am qualified to say something about this topic.... Since I have had sex with a RW.

I actually found both of the women that I dated to Not be very affectionate in Public.  It also took a few days for them to even get to the kissing stage.  I didn't even get to hold hands with Luda for the first few days.  But once she started kissing....... you had better be prepared to start something else.  She was very aggressive about sex.  Alla was a little more prudish about it.

I really don't thing that RW are that much different than anyother women.  I do like the cute little Russian words they use during though.
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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #20 on: July 10, 2006, 08:29:52 AM »
 I think it depends on the art of suduction... I feel if i can kiss um their all mine  :-*

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Re: RW Attitudes About Sex?
« Reply #21 on: July 12, 2006, 02:51:28 AM »
It is hard to generalise about a whole culture that is spread across several countries (not to mention time zones)

But if forced to generalise I would say that RW are not as demonstrative in public as UK/US women, but I find that they will more than makeup for that in private.  ;)

As regards kissing & general sexual behaviour, expect little difference from your home girls in that regard as long as you treat her with respect.

One little hint, if she suggests that you may want to take a shower, then you are going to get lucky!  ;D

 

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