pro daters

[connected1999]

I have found several videos on UTUBE alleging some women from Ukraine "pro date"

Here are two of the same woman




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What are the views on people here of such women and their behaviour. I saw some posts and letters where they themselves justify their behaviour. But why do they feign interest in a relationship if they claim they are just going to be a "tour guide" and provide "company"

My view is that it makes western men more suspicious whilst doing a major disservice to the many decent women who are serious about finding a genuine guy

[Shadow]

First of all it requires a number of reports to ensure that it is the women who are at fault.
There have been many proven cases where men who were dumped decided the only reason why any woman would dump Gods gift to womenkind is that they are pro-daters.

As far as the real pro-daters, they are on the same line as male sex tourists.

[kievstar]

My view on this is too many men date out of their league and a lot of girls get called a pro dater.  A smart man will never have any of these issues and will date women in his league.  A girl who really has no intentions to date but just want gifts is easy to spot.

[neo]

there really isnt such a thing as a pro-dater, there is only a high maintenance very choosy girl.

I have been engaged to 1 "pro dater" and married to 1 "pro dater". the first spent about 2 years collected gifts, flowers, dinner dates off every guy who went. She was good for the agency since she brought a lot of business in, after she rejected the men they invariably found another more suitable match. I was only in my 20's when i met her so she was really only looking for the sort of guy she could already get at home, but in the west rather than someone senior or less attractive or whatever. Same story with the girl i married. she would show up to meetings. spend 5 minutes being disinterested in the man and then leave. it shocked the hell out of the agency owner when she met with me every single day and spent from 10 in the morning to past midnight with me. Again, i fit the profile of what she was looking for whereas most the guys she dismissed as being too old, too unattractive or too dull.

Its really not the fault of a lot of the girls, the agencys need the male clients to pay the bills, as a result they fix the girls up on dates with lots of guys who are not at all what the girl told them they were looking for, but the agency owners insist they go on such "dates" in order to stay on the agency books and meet mr right, usually saying "you only have to go to dinner a couple of times, you;'ll get some flowers and maybe gifts thats all". the girls do it because its expected.

Its easy to cast judgement on girls from another country based on hearsay from a dissapointed male client, but the reality is you need to be out of the "scene" and talk to these girls and their friends to understand the truth of what really goes on behind the BS and smoke and mirrors act of the agencies.

Men have there own agenda, unfortunatly rejection is not something that comes easily to some people so they look for any reason for why it was not something negative about them. Too many guys think that any RW will gladly leap on their offer and be eternally grateful - but in reality girls want what every girls want, a decent partner they are attracted to - physically, mentally, culturally or spiritually and a chance of a better life, they are not going to just make themselves unpaid prostitutes to the first offer simply to move the west.

There is a saying that goes something like "a woman would choose a man who would choose her".