Hi everyone,
I fly back to be Russia on Friday to be with the girls again. I'll return back home on the 25th unless they kick me out before then.
I'll try to post while we're in Moscow and their city but if I don't I'll give a trip report when I return.
I'm returning with a positive attitude based on my first visit and all of our correspondence since my first trip.
There's a possibility that we could get engaged but it won't be until towards the end of my visit. I'm also carrying the K-1 documents to save some time if we do decide we want to do this and it'll have to be a 100% decision between the three of us.I'll not file for the K-1 immediately when I return home but give it some more time and another trip back in October. The engagement will be a commitment between the three of us to more or less keep everything on a serious note between us and to engage in serious discussions concerning our future together as a family and their relocation to another country.
Our plans are pretty simple, spend quality time together learning more between the three of us, spending quality time with my girl to discuss the important things that's happen in our past and what we would look for in a future together.
One of the most important issues for us here is the little one and how her reactions would be to leave her country and accept a new dad in her life. It's important that I can relay to her heart that I will accept her as my own daughter, love and care for her, and her two new grown sisters will accept her as their little sister and love her as well.
She has no contact with her dad and never mentioned his name to me. Her mom told me their history and you all know that history I'm sure. I was adopted so I know how it feels to be left without and then to be chosen into a real love and not a tough love situation.
This relationship feels totally different from the failed one I was in last year. It seems I feel no stress or misconceptions this time and the compatibility seemed to be there for the three of us during the first trip.
None of you know me very well since I'm new here to the forum and it seems like a great place to hangout and learn from and make friends in...and get beat-up as well :-)
I'm not a member of any other forums so this has to be my home for advice, help and support.
This is a serious meeting for us and I ask you to keep us in your thoughts.
You may also want to check my Status thingy to see if it changes while I'm gone
Be as good as you can while I'm gone :-)
