Want to thaks everyone on this board

[roll]

Hy new on the board :cool:

Well I'm 32 married (not for long....) and started searching for some companionship. I'm not a bad looking guy (maybe my own impression )

You guys have given me many helpfull advices, especially on scams. Hope they are not that many out there.

And guess what the gal I'm chatting with now says she is married and with a 9 year, we have been corresponding now for about 4 days, she seems sincere for now (I know 4 days is early he he)

Up to this point the situation is as follow:

1) Doesn't claim to have finacial problems she works in a University

2) She hasn't ask me for any money neither talked about it.

3) She claims that she is getting a firm translating her emails, didn't $$$ ask for help in this too.

4) Invited her to come broad for a few days, she replied that she has never left her country, and she is scared to do it. Maybe one day

5) I told her that in a few months I will be able to visit her in her town, in 3 emails she got down to the town where she lives, with out asking for it. And didn't argue about it.

6) She looks gourgeous very good loking girl in the pictures she has sent me, and nothing over normal sexy lingerie (I will define them as artistic photos, not vulgar and don't nothing that a 14year old can't see) also atache pictures from her doughter.

7) She knows I'm currently married (for now don't know for how long....)

Met her on adult friend finder (is it bad? haven't seen topics on this site yet)

Well at this point if someone can give me some advice it will be appreciated .......

Also where can I get a dettailed map and routing site to figure out where is what in Ucraina?

She states: I live  about  850  km  far  from Kiev in a small town Stanica Lahanskaya. Has anyone been there? Isn't this the area where the majority of the scams start from?

Also last question promissed you guys..... Is it worth spending a $100 to send her flowers with a picture taken? If she gives me an address with out telling her my intention of course, will this be a good proof of her identity and aspect? Has anyone used this service is it reliable?

Well sorry all the group for so many questions and maybe  also confusing, but I'm new and you guys where a big breath of fresh air after too many question I couldn't answer my self.

C:dude:

[jb]

This is a joke,,, right???

[PeeWee]

Is this the first FSU woman that you have communicated with? If so then one bit of advice...go slow. too much too quick will make you sick. By the way, $100.00 for flowers, if roses, is about right, but think about that expense this early on. Infatuation can cost you a ton of dough in a very quick hurry. Other than that, good luck.

 

PeeWee

[Michelangelo]

[PeeWee]

you don't say, Michael.

PeeWee

[PeeWee]

She didn't  ask for money in 4 days? is this a new record? All they need to do as ask once. In 3 years my lady has asked twice. 6K later and I hope that she does not ask for a third time. Like I said, they need ask just once for it to get expensive for you.

 

peeWee

[Rvrwind]

This is a joke,,, right???

Dang JB I hope so.!!!

Not even out of one marriage & already getting involved with another woman, married woman, no less, who is not out of her marriage.:?

Dang where'd I leave that clue bat???

Some people are just suckers for punishment. Its obvious whatever help he claims we gave him, he sure didn't pay attention. Go back to square one Bubba because you got a long way to go yet!!!

Is this the first FSU woman that you have communicated with? If so then one bit of advice...go slow. too much too quick will make you sick. By the way, $100.00 for flowers, if roses, is about right, but think about that expense this early on. Infatuation can cost you a ton of dough in a very quick hurry. Other than that, good luck.

PeeWee, I cannot believe you are seriously offering this advice in this stuation, get a grip. If this isn't a joke it's a disaster waiting to happen.

RVR - Canadian Cowboy

[Bruno]

Your questions are not a problem but your start too much early these quest... until your divorce, use time to read the forum fully... same the old post... so, you will be ready when the right time will be come...

Some can think : "Why the hell Bruno use his time to reply"... If this post is a joke, the reply can be used by other newbies... if it is not a joke, "roll" need to understand that he is on the wrong way... if he is victim from his own missing knowledge, it is his own problem... but when we speak about relation, it is always two people... imagine that our "roll" begin a relation with a other FSU woman and hurt her ...

Us, owner of agency have responsability on the two side... Usualy, men are customer but women are our guest... it is our responsability to protect both side... from from what i read here, these guy is able to hurt several honest women because he is not free to marry...

Now, the photo... lower left corner, Luhans'k... upper right corner, Stanychno-Luhans'ke...

 

 

[Leslie]

One part of your post caught my attention -

"3) She claims that she is getting a firm translating her emails, didn't $$$ ask for help in this too."

This is a known strategy of Lugansk internet scammers.  It usually plays out like this - Couple of weeks of frquent letters to get the sucker firmly on the hook then an an "agency" sends an e-mail demanding $50 (or so) for e-mail and translation services.  Of course until you pay - No more letters from your lady.

If you give in to this first demand "Yuri's" demands will become more brazen as he  tries to con you out of as much money as possible.

This scam is usually run by MEN.  The only real person is the one you western union the money too and they are usually dupes who collect the money for a small % and of course are dumped as there names become known.

 


 

[jb]

I liked the part where after 4 days this fine upstanding lady is e-mailing pictures in her sexy underwear.

I think Bruno got the name right, (T)roll.

[Michelangelo]

you don't say, Michael.

PeeWee
[/quote]Speechless, PeeWee, Speechless!

[roll]

Well I know, actually I'm divorced, haven't seen my wife for the past year, and paperwork is on his way back to me to finalize.

I just got involved in it, believe me I'm not stupid (:shock:at least hope not to be ) matter of fact I searched and found this post.

Sorry for the many questions, and even if it seemed so I'm not jumping from a window at the 60th floor he he he

Matter of fact the 5th email came in:

Dear Mr. Troll :cool:,

this  letter  is written to let you know that Miss Olga uses
the  service  of  our  company.  The  name of our company is
"Ukrainian    Chamber    of    Translation    Service    and
Communication".  We  deal  with  translating  all  sorts  of
scientific  and technical literature, patent, technological,
export and import and legal documents from foreign languages
and    vice    versa.   Certifying   translation   adequacy.
Interpretation   during   negotiations,  assembly  work  and
adjustment  of  equipment,  as  well  as during conferences,
workshops  etc. Miss Olga is our client and we translate her
correspondence  with  you. Our job was paid by Miss Olga but
she  can't  pay us now cause of her financial circumstances.
If you are interested in continuation of your correspondence
we  may  place at your disposal our prices and conditions of
our future collaboration.

Sincerely yours,
Director of "UCTSC",
George Miloradov.


Well guess I was getting into trouble, my got to thank all of you for the help. Also she stated that she has divorced two years ago from her husband.

Any more advice?

What I'm looking for now is to see more womans and meet them first, will not spend a cent untill I will be 100% sure first. Not looking for immediate mariage of course, will like to meet talk and get along with a lady before.
As for local hunting well here in my area is not worth it believe me, when you go out is for direct mariage or her father will be at your door with a gun :?

[PeeWee]

Is this the first FSU woman that you have communicated with? If so then one bit of advice...go slow. too much too quick will make you sick. By the way, $100.00 for flowers, if roses, is about right, but think about that expense this early on. Infatuation can cost you a ton of dough in a very quick hurry. Other than that, good luck.

PeeWee, I cannot believe you are seriously offering this advice in this stuation, get a grip. If this isn't a joke it's a disaster waiting to happen.

RVR - Canadian Cowboy
[/quote]
i was being a bit sarcastic and offering general advice at the same time. I'd offer the same to my son should he meet any woman.

 

peewee

[PeeWee]

Well I know, actually I'm divorced, haven't seen my wife for the past year, and paperwork is on his way back to me to finalize.

I just got involved in it, believe me I'm not stupid (:shock:at least hope not to be ) matter of fact I searched and found this post.

Sorry for the many questions, and even if it seemed so I'm not jumping from a window at the 60th floor he he he

Matter of fact the 5th email came in:

Dear Mr. Troll :cool:,

this letter is written to let you know that Miss Olga uses
the service of our company. The name of our company is
"Ukrainian Chamber of Translation Service and
Communication". We deal with translating all sorts of
scientific and technical literature, patent, technological,
export and import and legal documents from foreign languages
and vice versa. Certifying translation adequacy.
Interpretation during negotiations, assembly work and
adjustment of equipment, as well as during conferences,
workshops etc. Miss Olga is our client and we translate her
correspondence with you. Our job was paid by Miss Olga but
she can't pay us now cause of her financial circumstances.
If you are interested in continuation of your correspondence
we may place at your disposal our prices and conditions of
our future collaboration.

Sincerely yours,
Director of "UCTSC",
George Miloradov.


Well guess I was getting into trouble, my got to thank all of you for the help. Also she stated that she has divorced two years ago from her husband.

Any more advice?

What I'm looking for now is to see more womans and meet them first, will not spend a cent untill I will be 100% sure first. Not looking for immediate mariage of course, will like to meet talk and get along with a lady before.
As for local hunting well here in my area is not worth it believe me, when you go out is for direct mariage or her father will be at your door with a gun :?

My idea has always been to communicate with women who speak English. I tried, once, using a translator to speak to a dear woman who lives in Perm. Once. Two hundred dollars later I decided that the relationship was going to be way too expensive for my cheap blood and I went back to talking to English speaking women. Why would you not focus your attention on those women who speak English fluently? The savings in time, money, and communications problem is significant.

 

PeeWee

[Albert]

Hey there roll.  Whether you are a troll or for real, it would be good if you got your story together.

In your first posting you said:
And guess what the gal I'm chatting with now says she is married and with a 9 year,

She knows I'm currently married (for now don't know for how long....)


- - - - - -

In your second posting you said:

Well I know, actually I'm divorced,

Also she stated that she has divorced two years ago from her husband.

- - - - -

So I say it would be nice if you actually knew your current status.  Then it might be good to find a woman who actually knew her status.

Actually it isn't really strange at all to be dating FSU women who are currently married.  Because of the housing situation, often times the husband and wife agree between the two of them that the marriage is over.  But, they don't go into divorce proceedings until such time as they can both find alternative housing or until one is ready to marry someone else.  During the interium, they live in different rooms of the apartment (or maybe not) and share kitchen and bath . . . and each date other people.  I have come across these situations numerous times.  Strange for USA, but not strange for FSU at all.

But still, it would be good to know if the woman is divorced or just in one of these 'pending divorce' situations.

[roll]

Hey there roll.  Whether you are a troll or for real, it would be good if you got your story together.

In your first posting you said:
And guess what the gal I'm chatting with now says she is married and with a 9 year,

She knows I'm currently married (for now don't know for how long....)


- - - - - -

In your second posting you said:

Well I know, actually I'm divorced,

Also she stated that she has divorced two years ago from her husband.

- - - - -

So I say it would be nice if you actually knew your current status.  Then it might be good to find a woman who actually knew her status.

Actually it isn't really strange at all to be dating FSU women who are currently married.  Because of the housing situation, often times the husband and wife agree between the two of them that the marriage is over.  But, they don't go into divorce proceedings until such time as they can both find alternative housing or until one is ready to marry someone else.  During the interium, they live in different rooms of the apartment (or maybe not) and share kitchen and bath . . . and each date other people.  I have come across these situations numerous times.  Strange for USA, but not strange for FSU at all.

But still, it would be good to know if the woman is divorced or just in one of these 'pending divorce' situations.

Ok sorry the first letter was sent in a rush and didn't go back to check it, plus english is not my first language.

The status, I have been separated for 2 years now, we live in different houses, just waiting the divorce practices to get fullfilled and finalized (not more then 6 months from now according to my lawyer)

She is 29, divorced two years ago from her husband (alchoholic and criminal) and she has a 9 year old doughter.

Sorry for all the confusion I made. But got new wvwnts coming up and will like to ask a question to you guys, will start another topic since this is now confusing and full of trash :?

For now thanks to all of you.

[Leslie]

Well Roll,

You owe me a nickel!  I was spot on in my analysis of your situation,

Hope you realize you are not writing to a real women.