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Offline Bruno

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« on: September 15, 2005, 10:37:44 AM »
Ok, it is now almost three month that i have start a relation with a Belarus woman... daily phone, one or two hours of chat, e-mail... all was enough right until today...

Last e-mail :
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Good evening Bruno!

I have very bad condition and too much problems, plenty of. And now I understand that have no some possibility to do the visit in Belgium. Now I can not leave my house and so must think about your visit in Minsk.

I  think too much about begin to build the new apartment. I want to have a private property - one of the problems in my lifes. I shall have a tranquillity only when I shall live in private property.

Today I will go in ICQ!

 

And when we have chat, she have explain that she will be in love from the man who offert her the security of own home... i have agree and say that with time, we can see for buy a home in Belgium... but it was not what she wish, she will that i pay her a new appartment in Minsk BEFORE we marry...

So, she don't know it already but now, i have serious doubt about her and i choice to stop the starting relation. I don't know if she is crazy or if she have try the more big scam ever see but i am not a idiot...

So, again alone... now, i give a stop until new-year... for these winter, i go try some local women :cool:


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« Reply #1 on: September 15, 2005, 11:09:25 AM »
Gee, Bruno...I know this feeling, too.  I am so sorry you got this change of direction from this woman today.  But be glad you learned this about her now, rather than later...

Good luck,
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The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.  michelangelo

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« Reply #2 on: September 15, 2005, 12:14:35 PM »
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Gee, Bruno...I know this feeling, too. I am so sorry you got this change of direction from this woman today. But be glad you learned this about her now, rather than later...

What feeling :shock: ... We was not in love, only in the first phase, these where you learn from each other... not yet meet...

Since my bad previous experience, i don't wish meet before have know 3 month of intensive dialogue... in so periode, soon of late, the woman with hidden agenda reveal it...

And now, i go try localy, we have receive new personal at my work ( women )... we are only 3 men for around 80 women... :cool: and i don't like the weather in FSU in winter, too much cold :(... of course, if a interesting lady register to my site, i go write her the first ;)

 

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« Reply #3 on: September 15, 2005, 06:23:49 PM »
AAhhh!! The real reason why Bruno has a website-so he can get first pick!! Ingenious my friend:P:D
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« Reply #4 on: September 15, 2005, 09:25:20 PM »
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AAhhh!! The real reason why Bruno has a website-so he can get first pick!! Ingenious my friend:P:D

Not really the real reason... the real reason is money... when i have start the first time in 1998, it was a bunch of agency with address at 10$ and not a lot of free site... internet was not common like now in FSU and woman use agency... buying several e-mail ( or post address ) was a expensive part of the dating budget... so, for spare money, i have start my first site...

Now, i am not really needed, it is more for fun... you have already several place on the Internet with free site... freepersonal.ru is one very big... but since more and more woman have internet or use internet club, you have other way like "meetic" with ICQ...

A other change between 1998 and now, it is the number of scammer... since internet is become cheaper, more scammer use it... but the site is very cheaper for me too...

In any case, you have right, i use my own site...

 

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« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2005, 08:11:24 AM »
Well Bruno mon vieux,you don't seem to suffer to much from the loose of your Minsk beauty.;)

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« Reply #6 on: September 17, 2005, 09:21:59 AM »
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Well Bruno mon vieux,you don't seem to suffer to much from the loose of your Minsk beauty.;)

Why suffer !!! Cry lead to nothing... but the story is not finish... it seem that it was a misunderstanding...

Tomorow, sunday, the belgium husband from a friend of Larisa visit me for give me gift she send to me :shock:... He is just return from Belarus... so, i will know a little more...

Maybe my serial mistake make me parano too... more info monday...

 

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« Reply #7 on: October 02, 2005, 06:52:21 AM »
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... but the story is not finish...  

Now, the story is finish... begin of the week, i have send her the information over my visit in Minsk... from this day, big silence... and today, a short e-mail who ask to send back her photo's :shock:

Seem that it was a "keyboard juliet"... a lot of time for chat but when begin more serious thing like a meeting, she dissappear...

Now, i start my winter sleep like all teddy bear... the international hunting will start again with the good wheater...

Maybe i go use the service of our canadian cowboy... since he control personaly the motivation of women... maybe i will be more lucky... and i have never visit Tver... and in case of misluck, i can always drink some "piva" with a canadian cowboy :D:D:D

 

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« Reply #8 on: October 02, 2005, 07:11:21 AM »
Take some belgian beer with you,it is better then the russian.;)

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« Reply #9 on: October 02, 2005, 08:56:10 AM »
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Take some belgian beer with you,it is better then the russian.;)

Why take beer with me :shock:

When i was in Nikolaev, i can find "stella Artois" without problem in Ukrainian cafe... and several year ago, i can find "kriek" in Russia...

Interbrw is one of the biggest beer group in the world, so i have no problem to find belgium beer in other country :P

 

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« Reply #10 on: October 03, 2005, 10:27:25 AM »
Bruno, I am back

Sorry to here about this. I tell you what I have something for you. I will be in Tver for 30 days if you want you come by free of charge use my service to meet any girls you want. I will be there from Oct 15th to Nov 15th best week end would be Nov 11th to the 13th.

I will also make this offer to any RWD members on the 11th to the 13th as I am doing some winter clothing for the kids home. We need hevey coats shoes socks underwere for boys and girls of all ages.I will make all details know soon.

 

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« Reply #11 on: October 03, 2005, 11:08:52 AM »
[user=170]Marc Dayton[/user] wrote:
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Bruno, I am back

Sorry to here about this. I tell you what I have something for you. I will be in Tver for 30 days if you want you come by free of charge use my service to meet any girls you want. I will be there from Oct 15th to Nov 15th best week end would be Nov 11th to the 13th.

Hello Marc... very friendly but my budget for the trip is already spend... tomorrow, i receive new material for my computer... all the inside is changed...

I go try the new pentium dual core, 2 Gb DDR2 Kinston, new mother board from Asus, 2 Maxtor 300 Gb in raid system, and a pciX nvidia 7800GTX... around 1800 euro... for the rest of year, i spend my money for myself... it will be my own pleasure... will see next year...

But i am sure that some other member from RWD will enjoy your offert....

 

 

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