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Offline coreqq

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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #25 on: December 06, 2009, 01:33:31 AM »
I remember Serebro. I knew her perhaps better than anyone here. You see we had once dated. During the year and half we were together I visited her twice (two weeks each) along with the phone calls 2 or 3 times each week. Oh how she loved those boxes of Oreo cookies I sometimes sent her through the mail!! Sadly however, as Dan said, she is a deeply troubled woman. I had always suspected something from her past but I was unable discover what it was. But even so, Serebro has a very warm and special side to her personality – the side that had a firm hold on me and (apparently) it appealed to other members on this list too. But as for her dark side, well....it could and would appear suddenly and inexplicably and I can only say that what happened between us was much more intense than what ever happened on this forum. Why I stayed with her for as long as I did is hard to explain except to say that I cared about her and still do.  Later on, after I was compelled to break it off with her, we became friendly again and exchanged a casual hello here and there. When Serebro wrote to tell me she got married and was happy. I congratulated her, wished her well, and I told her that I hoped she found what she was looking for. With that I invited her to write me to say “hello” now and then and maybe tell me how she is doing. Yes, of course I had some hard feelings toward her for a time but they’re long gone now due to a better understanding of her and why things were the way they were.  Now I would prefer to think of her occasionally in a wistful sort of way and hope she is finally happy.
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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #26 on: December 06, 2009, 07:12:03 AM »
I remember Serebro. I knew her perhaps better than anyone here. You see we had once dated. During the year and half we were together I visited her twice (two weeks each) along with the phone calls 2 or 3 times each week. Oh how she loved those boxes of Oreo cookies I sometimes sent her through the mail!! Sadly however, as Dan said, she is a deeply troubled woman. I had always suspected something from her past but I was unable discover what it was. But even so, Serebro has a very warm and special side to her personality – the side that had a firm hold on me and (apparently) it appealed to other members on this list too. But as for her dark side, well....it could and would appear suddenly and inexplicably and I can only say that what happened between us was much more intense than what ever happened on this forum. Why I stayed with her for as long as I did is hard to explain except to say that I cared about her and still do.  Later on, after I was compelled to break it off with her, we became friendly again and exchanged a casual hello here and there. When Serebro wrote to tell me she got married and was happy. I congratulated her, wished her well, and I told her that I hoped she found what she was looking for. With that I invited her to write me to say “hello” now and then and maybe tell me how she is doing. Yes, of course I had some hard feelings toward her for a time but they’re long gone now due to a better understanding of her and why things were the way they were.  Now I would prefer to think of her occasionally in a wistful sort of way and hope she is finally happy.

I also remember your exchanges here, you arrived complaining about how your GF (who was Serebro at the time) was screwing up your relationship despite how great a guy you were. Then Serebro saw your posts and challenged your account and you disappeared completely from RWD.

Now you come back to shovel dirt on her one last time since you know she can't respond to you. Real upstanding guy you are, coreqq.

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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #27 on: December 06, 2009, 03:14:10 PM »
Shoveling dirt? No not all, just remembering a sad troubled girl that I personally knew very well – unlike you groovlstk. and yes I remember you too groov. You had it twisted up wrong then just as you are having it all twisted up wrong now – 


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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #28 on: December 06, 2009, 11:43:55 PM »
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come back to shovel dirt on her one last time since you know she can't respond to you. Real upstanding guy you are, coreqq.

Maybe it is better to read the post before launching a attack :)

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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #29 on: December 07, 2009, 05:27:30 AM »
Shoveling dirt? No not all, just remembering a sad troubled girl that I personally knew very well – unlike you groovlstk. and yes I remember you too groov. You had it twisted up wrong then just as you are having it all twisted up wrong now – 



coreqq, if you remember me so well why didn't you try to set the record straight during the time Serebro challenged your self-serving account of what happened between you instead of returning years later when she can't respond?

You came here wringing your hands over how nice a guy you were for trying to understand your GF's difficult personality. She somehow found this site and challenged your examples as BS fabrications - and instead of defending yourself you disappeared and chose to set the record straight only after she couldn't respond to your accusations.

You might fool myopic folks like Mir but I can see the hatchet job in your "she's so sweet but so screwed up" account wherein you lay the failure of your relationship at her feet. Maybe that's where the blame belongs but to do it in such a cowardly and public manner - the same public manner which you shyed away from when she could defend herself here - says a lot more about your shortcomings than hers.

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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #30 on: December 19, 2009, 05:00:45 PM »
Hi, guys, nice to see you again! It's always pleasant to meet old friends.
Thanks for worrying about me and your kind words, I hope that you are fine, too.
HiTech, I am sorry for not answering your mail, we were on holidays and then Thanxgiving and stuff like that...I hope that you and your wife are doing fine.


I fully remember Serebro, and am not likely to forget her anytime soon.


- Dan

Hey, Dan, I hoped you had forgotten about me, how long is "soon" by the way?  :)
And of course I am impressed that you allowed this thread to be created and live, I thought you would remove it as soon as you saw it in order not to get sick looking at my name all the time.
I didn't plan to come here and especially to post here but as  I received a letter from HiTech with congratulations and I definitely hadn't told him about the wedding I just understood where the wind was blowing from...and it made me come here
coreqq and all the other names you are using here, a couple of weeks ago I received another message from you, I got tired of your letters and messages, cookies and calls, flowers, invitations to join your friends list in facebook, telling and discussing my life and stuff like that, I wrote to you that I am married , wished you good luck and I asked you to leave us alone, 3 days later you came to the forum to tell everybody about my personal life, then you send another letter from a different address telling me that I can always share my problems with you(so you would have more stuff for discussions and whining on the forums).
If you don't stop harrasing me and my family and my parents in Russia  me and my husband will call police. American one.I am writing this here because me and my husband are using the same email address now and I don't want him to read this and worry about me.
You don't understand good attitude and polite answers , you will get  bad ones.
Dan, I am really sorry for making you feeling sick again, I will not post anymore.(at least before you forget me ;)  )
Nice to see you, guys. ;D




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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #31 on: December 19, 2009, 07:23:09 PM »
Hi Serebo Congratulations on your marriage we wish you and your loved ones a nice Christmas and a wonderful New Year.


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Re: If anyone remembers Serebro
« Reply #32 on: December 20, 2009, 03:19:33 AM »
Hi Serebo

Nice to hear your good news and I wish you all the best in your married life. :)

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!  :)


PS: The best way to deal with stalkers/ex-partners looking for revenge, is to completely ignore them.

Good luck!  :)

« Last Edit: December 20, 2009, 03:25:34 AM by wiz »

 

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