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Offline rockford75

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So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« on: December 06, 2009, 07:14:40 PM »
Hi Everyone!

Anyone Know of a good dating site to meet RW Women? One that is low on scammers.

Thanks

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #1 on: December 07, 2009, 08:44:53 AM »
I can recommend:

LuckyLovers
rbrides
Ukrainedate
Allsinglerussiangirls
freepersonals.ru
singles.ru

Supposedly all sites have scammers.  However, I have not had any problem at all with scammers on the above sites.  Probably because I do not seek overly young and extremely hot looking gals. 

Don't assume that any of the pictures are up to date or even real.  Don't assume that anything that is written is true or accurate.

Just do a search and screening on your desired variables such as age range, height, weight, education, children, desires children or not, English skills, etc.  Otherwise, ignore all else that is written.

The above sites are free or have monthly fee for unlimited contact.
Like all other sites, there are many, many women there who are no longer active and will not even see your message that you send to them.

You will have to contact 100 women to get 10 first responses.
You should send a well written first contact that spells out the important facts about yourself.
And even then, the first response will often be:  Tell me more about yourself.

Typical scenario will be:

Send out 1000 first messages.  This is not an easy endeavor to get started.
Get 100 replies.
Send back 80 2nd messages.  You will have cut some out for reasons such as lack of English, etc.
Receive back 50 replies.
Send back 40 3rd message.  You will cut on some more based on things like; finally seeing some up to date pics, things they write that you know are incompatible, etc.
Receive 30 replies.
etc., etc.

Through this procedure you can likely have arranged meetings with 10-15 women.

I start this process 6 weeks before my arrival date.
Try to limit to exchanging no more than 6-8 messages with each gal.
This will be like a full time job to exchange the required number of emails, so plan accordingly.
You won't really be able to do this if you are lacking appropriate planning and coordination skills.
If you do not have good organization skills, you will be sending messages to Natasha that talk about things that Irina told you in her message.

If you meet with 12 or so women, you may find 4-5 that you would like to have second date with.

Of those 4-5, you may find 2-3 that you would like to spend 4-6 consecutive days with as an extended date on this first trip.

If you don't spend these 4-6 days together in your apartment or her apartment;  then you really won't know Jack about her still.  And don't kid yourself that even after 4-6 days together in an apartment that you still know enough to be thinking about marriage.

Then you may find one that you would like to return to spend 3-4 weeks with.
After that visit, you may be able to get an idea about marriage potential; but still no guarantees.

If you go the WOVO route, or only meet with 2-3 gals; then most likely these will be the 2-3 that you would have eliminated after the first date with 12 gals.

But if you are desperate for marriage; then many of those whom you would have eliminated from a larger pool where you can make comparisons, might seem to be acceptable to you on a WOVO visit.  That has certainly been the case for many men.

Mars man looking for Venus woman.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #2 on: December 07, 2009, 10:04:24 AM »
Hi Rockford75, Your going to gets lots of info on this process. Just relax and read, ask questions and trust your own judgement. I used lifetimepartners.com  in 2002 & 2003 so my personnel experience's are out of date, but I've kept in touch with Marc and some of the other agency employees. If you have any questions, just send me a PM. 

Best of lucky.

Dave

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #3 on: December 07, 2009, 11:43:44 AM »

Typical scenario will be:

Send out 1000 first messages.  This is not an easy endeavor to get started.
Get 100 replies.
Send back 80 2nd messages.  You will have cut some out for reasons such as lack of English, etc.
Receive back 50 replies.
Send back 40 3rd message.  You will cut on some more based on things like; finally seeing some up to date pics, things they write that you know are incompatible, etc.
Receive 30 replies.
etc., etc.


Those are realistic numbers and can vary depending on how the guy presents himself in correspondence and how he looks. There's a process of elimination when looking for a mate. You will eliminate some women and you will be eliminated. The guys who pulled off a true WOVO successfully that ended in a happy marriage don't know how lucky they are.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #4 on: December 07, 2009, 03:03:12 PM »
I used lifetimepartners.com  in 2002 & 2003 so my personnel experience's are out of date, but I've kept in touch with Marc and some of the other agency employees.

He asked about 'dating sites' which have an entirely different mode of operation than agencies.
Mars man looking for Venus woman.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #5 on: December 07, 2009, 03:24:59 PM »
Mars, Why don't we let the Rockford75 answer for himself on what information he wants.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #6 on: December 07, 2009, 04:17:21 PM »
Mars, Why don't we let the Rockford75 answer for himself on what information he wants.

Yes, that's exactly what I said.  I did follow his words as to what he wanted. 
Just look at the subject heading.
Mars man looking for Venus woman.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #7 on: December 07, 2009, 04:56:58 PM »
There a lot of dating agency and russian brides sites, it's really difficult to choose a good, but I suggest first of all check the site in scammers lists and be careful, read my anti-scam guide
Help people to find love and happy))
www.Marry-Russian-Women.com - Honest russian dating agency. No scammers!

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #8 on: December 07, 2009, 05:36:10 PM »
Every site has scammers, you can't avoid them.  Stay away from women from Russia and the Ukraine.  You will increase your odds of finding a serious woman in Belarus, Moldova, Uzbekistan, or aother country of the former soviet union (FSU).

Best of luck!
Just stating my opinion!  You don't have to agree with it.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #9 on: December 07, 2009, 05:39:26 PM »
racoon boy is on some kind of anti russia/ukraine mission today.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #10 on: December 07, 2009, 06:20:06 PM »
Thanks very much for all the info so far!! Iam a complete rookie so what the difference between using a dating site and a agencey? What are pros and cons?

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #11 on: December 07, 2009, 06:40:25 PM »
racoon boy is on some kind of anti russia/ukraine mission today.
So it upsets you that I have an opinon?  Who are you, the RWD Nazi police?  You don't have opinions?  Does everyone agree with your opinions if you have one?
Just stating my opinion!  You don't have to agree with it.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #12 on: December 07, 2009, 06:49:21 PM »
I can recommend:

singles.ru

Supposedly all sites have scammers.  However, I have not had any problem at all with scammers on the above sites. 

I can also recommend singles.ru as that is where I met my wife. I also did not encounter any scammers when using the site. Chatted and met lots of wonderful women from Russia.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #13 on: December 07, 2009, 07:09:09 PM »
So it upsets you that I have an opinon?  Who are you, the RWD Nazi police?  You don't have opinions?  Does everyone agree with your opinions if you have one?

1.  your opinion is off topic.

2.  you already stated your opinion in another thread where you opinion has been completely refuted.

3.  your avatar is ugly.

4.   :tongueout:

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #14 on: December 07, 2009, 07:33:25 PM »

1. Your comment was off topic.

2.  My opinion was not refuted, opinions can not be refuted because they are beliefs.

3. The looks of my avatar is your opinion and that's okay.  In my opinion I think you've been smoking too much of your avatar.
Just stating my opinion!  You don't have to agree with it.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #15 on: December 07, 2009, 07:51:03 PM »
2.  My opinion was not refuted, opinions can not be refuted because they are beliefs.
Well, I opine that this opinion of yours is refuted by the dictionary ;):

Opinion:
- A belief or judgment that rests on grounds insufficient to produce complete certainty.
- A personal view, attitude, or appraisal.
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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #16 on: December 07, 2009, 07:54:54 PM »
1. Your comment was off topic.

2.  My opinion was not refuted, opinions can not be refuted because they are beliefs.

3. The looks of my avatar is your opinion and that's okay.  In my opinion I think you've been smoking too much of your avatar.

my comment is only off topic in the sense of pointing out your double posting and attempt to hijack the thread...

your opinions and defense of them demonstrate a lack of clarity, a distorted view of the world around you and some other strangeness that I can not define, yet.  Also, it has been made quite clear that the opinion you are pimping is silly at best, misguided for sure, and most likely rather stupid.

You don't know what, when, how much of anything I smoke.  However, what is certainly clear is racoons are sneaky and filthy nocturnal animals that often carry diseases.. basically giant rats.  So, what should we surmise about you?

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #17 on: December 08, 2009, 12:03:05 PM »
Rockford75 , Whats the difference between a site and agencies, its cost and services! On some of the sites you have a low cost, but you are required to do most of the work of this process. The honset agencies and yes there are some have cost associated with higher customer services. It all depends on what you want!

Dave

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #18 on: December 08, 2009, 03:37:22 PM »
Maybe we can start a poll on which of the two of you has the aviatar we like the most or dislike the least.   My vote would be for Enot's.   

Everyone has an opinion.  If all we ever had to work with was facts all the fun would go out of RWD.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #19 on: December 08, 2009, 03:41:08 PM »
Darn, I think this thread has me thinking about changing my profile pic for a while. 

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #20 on: December 08, 2009, 03:42:02 PM »
Thank you Turbo, yes everyone has an opinion but they should be attacked if someone disagrees with it.
Just stating my opinion!  You don't have to agree with it.

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #21 on: December 09, 2009, 04:53:29 AM »
BillyB recommended Bride.ru to me, and so far I am very pleased with the results!

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #22 on: June 23, 2010, 10:59:17 AM »
Not bad sites:
meetic.com
russianeuro.com
http://www.privetzapad.com.
http://www.email2men.com
http://freepersonals.ru
cherryblossoms.com
eastcupid.com
mate1.com

Why many man here recommend EM? Cant find answer  ;D There are so many other sites. And much better sites, id say....

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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #23 on: June 23, 2010, 11:07:09 AM »

I had no idea there were actually sites for this!   ;D  Now it makes perfect sense why guys fall in lov.. er.. limerence with their imaginary friends.


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Re: So Whats A Good Dating Site For Metting RW.
« Reply #24 on: June 23, 2010, 12:00:16 PM »
If your into dating listen to BillyB.  If your plan is to get married listen to someone married in past 2 years.  match.com is very good for dating women in USA unless you want a RW.

Provide details in what type of women you want and want type of man you are (income, looks, interests, age, children, etc.)  Than we can recommend an agency for you.

 

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