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Offline leverk5102

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Need some opinions!
« on: February 27, 2010, 01:05:44 PM »
OK, I have been writing a Russian women for about a month or so now. And so far I really have not seen a real bad sign of a scammer. But we have been talking about meeting. This is her? last letter. How does this sound to all. I heard that a Russian women can not come to the U.S. without you going there first?  So what do you all think. She still has not asked for any money.. I would like to believe but still skeptical.
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 Hello my prince Kerry! I again write you the letter. I have read your letter, it is really

beautiful. It has brought to me a lot of happiness, I am happy, that my feelings to you are

mutual and real. In this letter I wish to tell to you about that information which I have

learnt.

 I have learnt, that the visa is made out in a current of two weeks. If the person does not

have law infringements it can receive the visa and earlier. All depends on embassy employment.

But I have learnt, that to inhabitants of camp give the chance to spend some registrations

faster. It is connected with our position. I think, that you understand me! All procedures

of registration we can pass in simplified and faster form.

 I have already collected all necessary documents. I really love you, I wish to be with

you nearby. I do not know, that will be further, but I am sincere beliefs that time which

we will spend together will be the best for me! How you think? What you on it tell? During

ours with you to correspondence I have really grown fond of you. Probably you wish to tell

to me, that I did not meet you personally! But I know, that you the good man! I have

understood it from your letters to me. I know, that for development of relations few one

letters. I should meet you personally and tell to you the important words. To tell to you.

That I love you and I wish to learn about you more! I know, that we will find many themes

for our conversations. I think correctly?

 Today I am going to give all documents for visa registration. I wish to ask you once

again!!! You really wish to meet me? You are really ready for this purpose? I ask you that

you have written me the answer, the answer which I will strongly wait. I have solved all

for myself, I am assured that I wish to meet you, to embrace you and to tell to you the

main words. I long thought over it. But the life so is short also I do not wish to lose

you my prince! I know, that is possible you are not ready for this purpose, but I am ready!

Iam ready to love you and to share with you everything, that for me is available!

 I wished to write still to you much, but time has not enough, and it is a lot of information!

Today I called to the father. I have told to it, that I have grown fond of the person and

I wish to meet it. I have told to it, that he lives far, I have asked its permissions to

arrive to you my prince! He has told to me, that I already adult and in the right itself

to solve! I have asked for it money to make the visa. He has told to me, that will send me

money through the Western Union. These are instant transfers. Probably you heard about it!

Today I will wait for your letter, I trust in that, as you wish me to meet!

 My father has told to me that I have translated to you words which he has told to me!

 Its words: "Hello Kerry!. Today I was called by my daughter and has told to me,

that she wishes to arrive to you. I have told to it, that she should solve itself. You

probably already know, that I am far from my daughter. I work in Kazan. I try to make

everything that my daughter was happy. I think, that you understand me! But I wish to tell

to you, that I did not hear for a long time already laughter of my daughter. And today in

telephone conversation she laughed and was happy. It is very important for me. Olga is

everything, that at me is! I think, that she really loves you. I do not wish to stir to your

relations! I wish to tell to you only one. Protect my daughter, she deserves more than to

live in camp. Probably you reproach me that I have left the daughter in camp. But believe

to me it it is better for it! I have asked Olgu that it has translated to you my words.

I hope, that at you all will be good! Valery.

 Well here my time comes to an end. I will wait for your letter. I love you Kerry and I wish to

be with you nearby!

 One thousand kisses for you my prince!

Olga.
« Last Edit: February 27, 2010, 02:08:08 PM by leverk5102 »

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #1 on: February 27, 2010, 01:18:40 PM »
To be straight Kerry, it doesn't sound so good IMO, if you have only been writting her for one month and she is saying she loves you and you haven't already met. As you asked for opinions this is mine, but there isn't so much information to go on either.

FWIW   :)

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #2 on: February 27, 2010, 01:25:30 PM »
I think it is 110% scam,but that's just me. Ask to call her on her phone and lets see what happens. Have you googled her name? There is just so much wrong here that I dont know where to begin but dont worry. You've came to the right place.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #3 on: February 27, 2010, 01:26:58 PM »
Hello my prince Kerry!
Didn't read past the above. Didn't need to. This kite isn't flying..................ever.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #4 on: February 27, 2010, 01:35:44 PM »
Kerry - view your post, then at the upper right hit Modify. A window will appear with your
original text. Delete her e-mail address, then click Save below the text field...

It's not kosher to post her personal information here....

And I have to agree with the other posters - this isn't good. The money question will
hit your box sooner than later - she's already got the documents gathered to be with
the Prince she hasn't yet met.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #5 on: February 27, 2010, 01:36:16 PM »
You need opinion? Here's mine..

The letter you posted was either the works of Yuri, Sergei, or Vladimir.
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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #6 on: February 27, 2010, 01:51:43 PM »
I don't know about your prior correspondence but, everything about that letter reeks of scammer. Not even a good one at that. Many or most are much more professional.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #7 on: February 27, 2010, 01:57:52 PM »
She said "love" and you haven't met in person.  Not much need to go further. 
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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #8 on: February 27, 2010, 02:05:16 PM »
I used the e-mail you provided to contact him/her. I'll get back with you 8)
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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #9 on: February 27, 2010, 02:07:47 PM »
Hello Kerry, well, have some good news for you,.... and some bad news for you.

First, the good news, you don't have to wonder about Olga anymore.


The bad news, she is not real, you are being scammed.

Kerry with some things we debate around here their are usually always exceptions. To me, with the following, their is no exception.

No good, real, Russian/Ukraine woman will ever tell a man she has never met she loves him.


End of this chapter Kerry, move on to chapter 2.



I love you Kerry




There are several other things she has written as well that would cause me concern, but this is all I have to see
« Last Edit: February 27, 2010, 03:20:34 PM by Jack »

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #10 on: February 27, 2010, 02:22:43 PM »
Thanks for a the replies so quickly.  I have talked to her on the phone once. Also I have googled her name and came up with nothing and her address also. She even sent pictures holding a sign with my name on it.  :cluebat: 

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #11 on: February 27, 2010, 02:28:57 PM »
A lot of these on-line translators are pretty rough. It is typical agency-like format.

No, there was no request for money.
That would be not cool ..having not ever met.
If you had then sent this money, you would have fallen for a Scamola..& I would absolutely concur with Jack earlier there [whom I know and is an expert traveler to the FSU]

We don't know how old 'Olga' is as you don't mention that.
Old enough to be a mommy, I see.
Also..Are you sure you really want to acquire an instant family?
I mean slam bang..ready for this are you?
I would say after 3-4 months would be enough time to re-evaluate.

If 1000 kisses keep coming through and you yourself are more 'seasoned' here well may a trip to Russia would be in order...

Good luck in any event.......
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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #12 on: February 27, 2010, 02:30:22 PM »
Her English is good is it?
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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #13 on: February 27, 2010, 03:17:18 PM »
She is thirty two years of age. When I talked to her on the phone her english was fair. And the only family that she has is her father. No kids, or brothers or sisters.
  Also in one of her photos that you sent was a picture of  her passport.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #14 on: February 27, 2010, 03:57:07 PM »

She even sent pictures holding a sign with my name on it.  :cluebat:   


whoaaaaa, you did not say earlier she sent you her photo with your name on it!   That changes everything.
Yep, she's probably real.

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #15 on: February 27, 2010, 04:20:18 PM »
Have you tried her email headers too ? (looking for some professional mass mailer like TheBat!, location of her city? etc...)

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #16 on: February 27, 2010, 05:01:02 PM »
 leverk5102, her letter doesn't sound too good- too much "love" and too much about visa (what is "visa registration"?)
As for if it is scam or not- wait till she asks for the money to travel. Scam is mostly about money.
So, for me it sounds like she is about to ask you to pay for the ticket. That will be it.
I maybe wrong but not more than 1%

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #17 on: February 27, 2010, 05:06:41 PM »
Her English is good is it?
not really- it is the online translator :D

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #18 on: February 27, 2010, 07:53:44 PM »
You need opinion? Here's mine..

The letter you posted was either the works of Yuri, Sergei, or Vladimir.

and don't forget Boris.



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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #19 on: February 27, 2010, 08:06:50 PM »
Kerry..... English, English and more English.
Forget the translators and interpreters. Narrow down your search to a Woman who speaks and writes English.
It's a great start to avoiding Scammers and avoiding a possible failed relationship, because she has no way of expressing her fears and doubts to you.



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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #20 on: February 27, 2010, 11:46:22 PM »
She still has not asked for any money..

... yet.

I would like to believe but still skeptical.

Good Man. A healthy level of skepticism will serve you well.
« Last Edit: February 27, 2010, 11:53:28 PM by greg2654 »

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #21 on: February 28, 2010, 03:54:10 AM »
There is something about that photo of her holding your name that just does not look right. The lighting on her does not quite match the background.

Me thinks the work of photoshop have been at play here, her image placed on top of another, and of the cynic in me tells me your name is probably photoshop too.
Its an opinion, don't get too crazy if you disagree :)

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #22 on: February 28, 2010, 04:14:54 AM »
There is something about that photo of her holding your name that just does not look right. The lighting on her does not quite match the background.

Me thinks the work of photoshop have been at play here, her image placed on top of another, and of the cynic in me tells me your name is probably photoshop too.

I won't say you can't be right Handy but I spend a lot of time working with photo shop in my business and a lot of that is putting things where they never were.   To me the photo does not look photoshopped.  If you look at the wallpaper to the right and behind her you can see her shaddow very faintly.  Someone was sitting in that chair in about that position.  The blurr on her hands and both the paper and printing are identical.  It would take longer to photo shop that than it would be to have her sit there with a stack of cards saying "Hello Kerry" "Hello Sam"  "Hello Jim"  and rotating them for a series of photos.  I think the photo is real.

As far as is the girl real? That is harder to say.  I see a lot of the elements of a scam, falling in love, planning to visit, getting a visa, not asking for money early etc.  On the other hand I have had a lot of letters from scammers and have never talked to one on the phone and never had one send a photo.  I would guess she is probably not real but if the OP wants to let it play out there is little to lose as long as he never sends money.


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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #23 on: February 28, 2010, 04:39:33 AM »
I won't say you can't be right Handy but I spend a lot of time working with photo shop in my business and a lot of that is putting things where they never were.   To me the photo does not look photoshopped.  If you look at the wallpaper to the right and behind her you can see her shaddow very faintly.  Someone was sitting in that chair in about that position.  The blurr on her hands and both the paper and printing are identical.  It would take longer to photo shop that than it would be to have her sit there with a stack of cards saying "Hello Kerry" "Hello Sam"  "Hello Jim"  and rotating them for a series of photos.  I think the photo is real.


TG I was in a 50/50 kind of thinking, it was the lighting that made me think, but then I don't do very much photoshopping. I am sure the more experienced (like yourself) in this kind of work would spot the more top notch photoshopped photo, and as you say about the time it would take to do the photoshopping it would be quicker to have her hold a stack of cards. So why waste time playing around with the photoshop.


leverk5102

FWIW I would just play it out with the emails, and see what happens. The odds are in favor of her asking for money, known as the Travel/Visa scam. By playing it out, it will give an insight into how the scams can unfold, so you will know wat to look out for in future. Of course be sure DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY.
Its an opinion, don't get too crazy if you disagree :)

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Re: Need some opinions!
« Reply #24 on: February 28, 2010, 06:02:55 AM »
1/2 dozen more posts and they'll be advising him to send money for a ticket. Buddy, you're looking for a pony in a cupboard full of horse sch!t.

 

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