Life Changes...Part Deux

[BC]

One of the difficulties with these extremely long threads is that it is simply too time consuming to go back and research what has already been said about the various aspects.

With the recent slew of posts, IIRC nothing has been said that has not been covered well before.

In addition, the age issue was previously split off (or diverted) to another thread here:  http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14067.0

For those interested, might want to look at that thread instead as it is at least a manageable size at 5 pages..

As to my final thoughts here, I can only restate my previous post http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=11638.msg289483#msg289483

[ML]

As has been stated by others:

1) It is the generally accepted policy here to wish all married persons well; even as we previously disagreed about whether they should or shouldn't.

2) It is the generally accepted policy to avoid attacking spouses who are not participating members.

And those who would actively seek to destroy a marriage . . . .

[Gator]

Perhaps it would be fitting if Billy closed it with yet another idiotic comment?

FWIW, and in the spirit of openness, I'd like to say that my wife and I have attempted to find Billy's bride on various sites, unfortunately without success as yet. But, if we ever do find her, we will, without malice or any other comment, point her to this thread. I think it is the only fair, honest and morale thing to do.

I encourage everyone else to do the same given the opportunity.

I am stunned.  Yes, you are open, yet openness does not make it right.

BillyB has made some idiotic statements, yet I am not certain he is always serious.   If he is serious, such attitudes will manifest themselves in his routine interactions with A.   They will become evident to A.  If "control" is your concern, the RW I know are not pushovers.  Plus, she has a close relationship with a mother who will intervene surely in a protective manner.

So what good would your action do?  IMO it sounds so immature and spiteful. 

[Gator]

As has been stated by others:

1) It is the generally accepted policy here to wish all married persons well; even as we previously disagreed about whether they should or shouldn't.

2) It is the generally accepted policy to avoid attacking spouses who are not participating members.

And those who would actively seek to destroy a marriage . . . .

Shocking.

[Admin]

The topic is now locked.

- Dan