Life Changes...Part Deux

[BillyB]

 
Is that why you're really still single Billy,
 

Yes, I'm single by definition but I've always had a woman that enjoys her time with me. There are married men that are lonely and as I mentioned before, I don't want to live their lives. I could of gotten married 5 times last year but I'm not in a rush or desperate. I want to be thoroughly happy with my lady and WANT to spent my time with her when married. I also don't want to be a man that complains all day to the point the wife ignores me. I don't want to be the man that gets pissed at the wife and come here to RWD to force my gripes on the readership here.

how about ending a discussion about Billy's personality from this or that point of view? At the end of day, it starts to became annoying. 

Thanks Lily but I'm okay with the annoying comments. I knew my last post will bring out some emotion and childish outbursts. That is my fault because it was my intention to bring out more of certain posters behavior to the point others recognize it's not desirable behavior to attract ladies. Many women I've dated said they don't want a child. I knew when I made the alpha male comment, some would be upset. I have said repeatedly that I'm not here to impress people at the forum and get them to like me. 

Truth is, what happens in my life and what I say shouldn't hurt them. People should get themselves to a happy place and to the point they have no time to be pissed off at me. Some people men, even some married people men, have wrote 10 or more posts in this thread saying the same thing over and over that they don't approve of me. They should make better use of their time and give their wives more hugs. I wouldn't be surprised to see some of their wives come to the forum to thank me for putting a boot in their husbands azz and improving their marriage.

Nobody needs to feel sorry for me for the criticism I've received. I'm happier than almost all single men and most married men.

Since we all learned repetitious annoying comments AREN'T desirable among the ladies, and DaveMAN, I will move forward with A. It only gets better.

[LiveFromUkraine]

Thanks Lily but I'm okay with the annoying comments. I knew my last post will bring out some emotion and childish outbursts. That is my fault because it was my intention to bring out more of certain posters behavior to the point others recognize it's not desirable behavior to attract ladies.

I didn't know women love to hear comments like this:

I'm talking about the real ladies of course, not the pantie wearing men here.

Personally, I just find this all amusing.  Never change man.  I truly hope that both of you are incredibly happy.  I just hope you don't stop posting because this is the best. 

[Jack]

I'm happier than almost all single men and most married men.

Good thing you added "almost" BillyB.

[Misha]

complete this questionnaire http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp and let us know what his type is... 

Interesting. I did it and it pretty much defined me to a T: http://typelogic.com/intj.html

[mies]

Mies, first you was worried about A wanting to get a green card and now you think she's going to sit in Ukraine and collect my money. I know you care about me but you had your chance! I probably wrote to you years ago and you threw my email away in the garbage along with the other fat ugly men. Now you're jealous! Because now I'm showing myself as a caring, loving MAN of action, not words. I could've been your special guy and a wonderful aggressive lover you've been always wanting but you walked out of my life!

I know throughout this thread you have a hard time believing A is sincere. Nothing I said about her points to her being an insincere person but I understand why you think the way you do.

How good do you look? Could you send me your bikini photos so I can give you  my expert opinion free of charge? If you were 18 yo and had a hot body, you could choose most any man you want. You may choose the handsomest guy, the guy with the most muscles, the best dancer at the disco and certainly a young man close to your age. With that in mind, you find it hard to believe a beautiful young lady could sincerely give herself to a guy like me.

But there are other qualities women search for such as emotional and financial stability, an intelligent and wise man, a man that can love a woman more than his car, body and pretty face. These women want a stable man who won't bring in stupidity and drama into their lives. They want a man that will most likely stay with them and the children compared to a younger man who may stray or leave to avoid financial responsibility.

If in the same situation as A, you may believe you are smart for your choices in younger men but A will believe she is smart in her choice in me.

Billy, I would assume you have a great sense of humor, but since you are writing all this c-rap seriously, I suppose you are timid and vulnerable man who is trying to overcome his insecurities, and who thinks that he met a woman (A) who makes and will always make him feel empowered. And it is good for you, that you are able to experience this feeling of entitlement and self-confidence, even if it is quite late in your life, and I doubt it will last long with this specific woman.

I will address your remarks:
1. You never wrote to me, nor any other men wrote to me - neither bold, fat and old, nor hairy young and handsome. I never was on dating sites, I met my husband in real life.

2. No, I don't feel jealous. I feel amused that you, with your appearance and age, still think you can attract ANY woman with your "other good qualities". And I am not jealous because my husband is much better than you in every possible way. Moreover, for me my husband is ideal, a perfect match for my needs, wishes, and dreams, my soulmate (if you know the real meaning of this word). When I hug my husband I feel how our hearts unite in one. I do not care about your ability to be "decent and reliable and aggressive lover."

3. Please, stop waving in public your di-ck, which (your penis) is as you claim "nothing to be ashamed of". The fact that you are no longer ashamed of it after you started dating "understanding and traditional russian women" does not mean that you should be offering it to every woman around. I am not interested in your penis nor your sexual abilities.
On a side note: if you knew women a little better, you probably would also knew that not all women, and not always want or like aggressive sex. But good for you that you are capable to have sex. Let's hope A will welcome your aggressive sexual advances for many years and decades to come.

4. I don't need your "expert opinion" on my bikini photos. I do not think that every insecure lonely man who watched enough of "bikini photos", probably masturbating, of 17 yo teenagers is an expert in female beauty. An expert in pedophilia maybe. When I enter the room with my husband - most men turn their heads. I am beautiful. I can choose almost any man I want. But I don't want anyone of other men, because for me the only man is my husband, my love. I will remain beautiful and attractive in any age, my beauty in no way depends on your "expert opinion". Without this board I would not even knew that you exist. But I am still beautiful. Can you say so about yourself?

"man that complains all day to the point the wife ignores me." ... "I knew when I made the alpha male comment" you are pitiful little boy, who still is afraid to be ignored by your woman. Every time you try to appear strong and solid - it looks pathetic, because there is no solid base under it, it's all thoroughly superficial. You want to do things right, but you don't know HOW to do them right. That's all. When I say "I feel sorry for you and wish you the best and success" - I do not mean that I wish you be stupid and arrogant and say stupid things about women, and do silly things. I am hopeful that one day you will grow up enough to embrace the world and come in agreement with who you really are and what you really want. A man either is an alpha male, or is not. If you aren't an alpha-male, it does not matter if you are making "alpha male comments", or try to mimic their behavior. If you are trying to be something that you are not, and apparently are lacking the qualities even to be a good actor to persuade the "public", people around you, and women around you, will always be able to detect an impostor.


My husband is much younger than you are, more handsome than you are - beyond any comparison, apparently much smarter than you are, more stable - emotionally and financially, and much more caring and humane. Unlike you - he sees the human in his partner. I will repeat my question: do you know what a "soulmate" means? Have you ever experienced this feeling? Have you ever been able to get free from your fears and insecurities enough to be able to have a soulmate? Or you always settle for less?





 

[Misha]

I knew when I made the alpha male comment, some would be upset.

My observation: the more men talk about being confident alpha males, the more wracked they are by their inner demons and trying to mask an inferiority complex.

[Gator]

Interesting. I did it and it pretty much defined me to a T: http://typelogic.com/intj.html

You are INTJ.  I was ENFJ.  So you are more of a thinker than me, but you already thought that.   What I find laughable is that the following three presidents are ENFJ:  Lincoln, Reagan and Obama.   I notice one of the INTJ presidents is Jefferson, a renaissance man.

Other than Lily and a couple of others, the posters in this thread have exercised a lot of J regarding BillyB.    I have read very little of the thread, yet it appears to reveal much about BillyB.  Nevertheless, without walking in his shoes, we have little basis to suggest that BillyB has an inferiority complex.  Yet, does it matter?   Has anyone put forth the possibility that  BillyB writes to egg on people?

[mies]

Has anyone put forth the possibility that  BillyB writes to egg on people?

I can't rule out this possibility ))) he can just have terrific sense of humor. A tiny fraction of me is still hopeful this is the case.

[BC]

Interesting. I did it and it pretty much defined me to a T: http://typelogic.com/intj.html

Similar result here..

[BC]

Other than Lily and a couple of others, the posters in this thread have exercised a lot of J regarding BillyB.    I have read very little of the thread, yet it appears to reveal much about BillyB.  Nevertheless, without walking in his shoes, we have little basis to suggest that BillyB has an inferiority complex.  Yet, does it matter?   Has anyone put forth the possibility that  BillyB writes to egg on people?

Motive has been asked before, but will remain a question.. in fact, it is "The Question" and seems to cause the most 'questioning' observed in this thread.. (if that makes sense).

IOW there are unresolved contradictions, one being if a true Alpha Male would even consider justifying his actions, much less take on a highly defensive stance.

[BillyB]

I didn't know women love to hear comments like this:

There's a big difference between my comments and the hecklers. Most women want a man that can handle other men easily. If you're walking in a park and a group of guys is bothering you and you're lady, hopefully you can handle the situation.

A woman cares about the genes she passes on to her children so she evaluates a man more than a man will evaluate her. Preferably, she doesn't want a man with weak genes.

As I mentioned before, a lot of RW told me only 10% of the men out there are marriage material and most of those guys are already married. I wish a woman would come here to prove it's all wrong but the more I read, the more I understand why men turn women off.

LiveFromUkraine, you had a choice to say something constructive, maybe mention some of your successful experiences in Ukraine yet you chose to join the background noise.

Billy, I would assume you have a great sense of humor, but since you are writing all this c-rap seriously.......blah blah blah

I do have a great sense of humor but you're not assuming because you don't believe it so you have taken what I wrote you as an insult and gone on defense about your marriage.

I've never said anything bad about A so I don't know how people could assume she's an insincere woman yet all through this thread and in PM's you are trying to warn me without giving me any valid reasons or proof. First she was going to use me for a green card and now you think she's going to stay in Ukraine and collect my money. I know you're upset because I haven't listened to you but I'm writing this thread to show guys how to find a high quality and sincere woman. Let me finish talking about her before you judge her.

At least you mentioned earlier that A has a good deal in the fact I send her money. $2000 in the past month. I was afraid some woman would accuse me of being insensitive and greedy.

My observation: the more men talk about being confident alpha males, the more wracked they are by their inner demons and trying to mask an inferiority complex.

Don't insult me too much Misha, I am exactly like you and I'm INTJ. According to the link you posted, INTJ are ideal people. I love those kind of tests where everybody is a winner! Who in their right mind answers they're stupid and indecisive? I work with a lot of people and almost all of them will tell you their manager material. Self analysis is a bad way to judge yourself. Look around and if the results you get with friends, women, family, and on the job are good, then it's safe to say you're walking in the right direction. I will say this again since some of you don't get it. I don't come to the internet to make friends.

Has anyone put forth the possibility that  BillyB writes to egg on people?

You are a smart man for understanding that and some posters have walked into the eggs but I have already gave fair warning to people they will be cross examined. After that warning, I assumed those people who wanted to insult wanted to be egged on. This thread isn't about egging people though. I have given the newbie hecklers a pass earlier in this thread, I knew the results I'd get in the end will amaze them, and I chose to egg some of the hardened veterans instead. I like challenges and I'll admit I like to grab people and shove them in the mirror to so they can have a good look at their life if they have a habit of complaining about other people's lives. That's the best way to shut them up.

I'm very aware what I write and how I write it will get certain types of responses. I've always been in control of this thread.

Next post of mine will have a little excitement. I will post a lot of photos and if you're all lucky, I'll post one of my bikini photos.

[Misha]

IOW there are unresolved contradictions, one being if a true Alpha Male would even consider justifying his actions, much less take on a highly defensive stance.

Uh-huh. I have found that the people who are truly successful and charismatic have no need to brag about their accomplishments as others around them will be doing it continuously.

[acrzybear]

I just have to ask-Billy, Are you bi-winning? 

[BillyB]

I just have to ask-Billy, Are you bi-winning? 

Based off the number of men that's hating me now, there's no way I could be "bi" even if I tried. Any of you guys wanna go out on a date wtih me?

[BC]

I will say this again since some of you don't get it. I don't come to the internet to make friends.

Billy,

That really begs for a question, one asked before but I'll restate.

What is your bottom line intent in this huge thread?

I'm a huge fan of knowledge and wisdom so please do show me what I so obviously missed along the way.

INTJ.. hmm.. mind posting your answers to the questionnaire?  Show me yours, I'll show you mine.  I emailed them to Daveman and give him permission to post it just as soon as you post yours..

[BC]

Based off the number of men that's hating me now, there's no way I could be "bi" even if I tried. Any of you guys wanna go out on a date wtih me?

Billy,

folks don't come here to post because they hate someone.  In fact just the opposite.

[SMS60]

Uh-huh. I have found that the people who are truly successful and charismatic have no need to brag about their accomplishments as others around them will be doing it continuously.

You are right about this. But with one big footnote. It happens in real life, human to human social interactions but not on internet forums. The beta males feel empowered in the internet so the alpha males must try and explain in words why wearing pink panties with pictures of baby seals wont work for attracting women.

[mies]

I do have a great sense of humor

I don't rule out such possibility, but I have not seen any proofs of it yet, unless this thread is a huge prank.

 

but you're not assuming because you don't believe it so you have taken what I wrote you as an insult and gone on defense about your marriage.

there is a difference between humor and arrogance. Even if it was a humor, you've crossed that line. It is really bad manners to offer to a married woman your "aggressive style in having sex", don't you think so? Would you be pleased if some stranger from online forum offered such thing to A after she became your wife? How would you feel about that? Can you still claim you are smart, well-mannered, and know how to treat a woman? I don't think so.

 

I've never said anything bad about A so I don't know how people could assume she's an insincere woman yet all through this thread and in PM's you are trying to warn me without giving me any valid reasons or proof.

Technically, there was only one PM, not PM's. And that PM was not a warning, but rather a "softener", after I though I might have been a bit harsh on you, and didn't want my words to cause you bad mood. If you did not understand even that tiny bit, and took it as a warning, maybe it's your subconsciousness, not the forum members, is giving you warning signals.
 I tried to warn you only once, long time ago (more than a year). There is no warning contained in any of my recent posts in this thread. Do you see a warning in them?


 

First she was going to use me for a green card and now you think she's going to stay in Ukraine and collect my money. I know you're upset because I haven't listened to you but I'm writing this thread to show guys how to find a high quality and sincere woman. Let me finish talking about her before you judge her.

 you still have not answered my question. Does it make you feel uncomfortable? Or you do not know what to answer?

 

At least you mentioned earlier that A has a good deal in the fact I send her money. $2000 in the past month. I was afraid some woman would accuse me of being insensitive and greedy.

well done. Given the instability of financial markets, earthquakes, and wars, this is quite good investment.

[mies]

I just have to ask-Billy, Are you bi-winning? 

no, he can't take 7 grams at once. Can he?

[Daveman]

..  I emailed them to Daveman and give him permission to post it just as soon as you post yours..

Yep, he really did! 

I typed out as INFP .. didn't capture the result page but pretty sure is was 44% introvert, 75% intuitive, 25% feeling, 11% perceiving (luckily it exempted categories such as a$$holiness), and it would appear that I have no need of thinking whatsoever.. but I feel you all know that already.

at any rate, I'm officially a "Healer"... so, reach your hand toward your monitor screen (as the other clicks on paypal to send me your gift pledge of $20USD) and FEEEEEL the POWER of your miracle!

[Shostakovich]

Don't insult me too much Misha, I am exactly like you and I'm INTJ. According to the link you posted, INTJ are ideal people. I love those kind of tests where everybody is a winner! Who in their right mind answers they're stupid and indecisive? I work with a lot of people and almost all of them will tell you their manager material. Self analysis is a bad way to judge yourself. Look around and if the results you get with friends, women, family, and on the job are good, then it's safe to say you're walking in the right direction. I will say this again since some of you don't get it. I don't come to the internet to make friends.

Holy-Moly!  Stop the presses!  INTJ - welcome to the club!  That figures there would be a few on here -- big brain, pencil-heads and losers in love who try to noodle it out about women, showing how stupid they really are.  That's right, the stupidest people I've ever met have been INTJ because, while it's true their brain goes all a-whir 24/7, yet they can't see that their brain waves orbit around emotional complexes they have not visibility to.  For your entertainment - if you want to see how stupid smart people can be just go on over to the INTJ forum; www.INTJforum.com and have a few laughs.

[Shostakovich]

Yep, he really did! 

I typed out as INFP .. didn't capture the result page but pretty sure is was 44% introvert, 75% intuitive, 25% feeling, 11% perceiving (luckily it exempted categories such as a$$holiness), and it would appear that I have no need of thinking whatsoever.. but I feel you all know that already.

at any rate, I'm officially a "Healer"... so, reach your hand toward your monitor screen (as the other clicks on paypal to send me your gift pledge of $20USD) and FEEEEEL the POWER of your miracle!

Woa Nelly a male INFP.  That's a rare bird.

[LiveFromUkraine]

LiveFromUkraine, you had a choice to say something constructive, maybe mention some of your successful experiences in Ukraine yet you chose to join the background noise.

Sorry, I couldn't hear anything over the chest thumping going on in this thread.  I am still waiting for the constructive parts.  Please continue...  

Based off the number of men that's hating me now

You really think you are important enough for anyone to hate?  I love it.  I doubt anyone cares enough to hate you, Billy.  It is just normal for people to stop for accidents.

[HiTech]

The Careers nailed me.

http://www.humanmetrics.com/vocation/JCI.asp?EI=-11&SN=-25&TF=38&JP=56

HiTech

[Misha]

Holy-Moly!  Stop the presses!  INTJ - welcome to the club!  That figures there would be a few on here -- big brain, pencil-heads and losers in love who try to noodle it out about women, showing how stupid they really are.  That's right, the stupidest people I've ever met have been INTJ because, while it's true their brain goes all a-whir 24/7, yet they can't see that their brain waves orbit around emotional complexes they have not visibility to.  For your entertainment - if you want to see how stupid smart people can be just go on over to the INTJ forum; www.INTJforum.com and have a few laughs.

That is quite the anger issues you have there  But, pray tell, if the declared INTJ's such as myself and BC are such "losers" who "try to noodle it out about women" (whatever that means), why are we married