Life Changes...Part Deux

[Nat]

Oh - and what's this about ball-grabbing???  Do I need to go back and read this thread again.... really?

Please tell me there are no photos!   

Are you kidding?! Pity there isn't! But you definitely should read that - Billy claims it can improve anyone's sexual life  I wouldn't try it until we make sure Billy is OK though

[Faux Pas]

I've been away (and busy) and had not caught up with the fact that Billy's girl had arrived.

No matter what anyone thinks of Billy (including me) I hope this works out for them both.  Stranger things have happened...  but I'd like to wish him (them) all the best.



Oh - and what's this about ball-grabbing???  Do I need to go back and read this thread again.... really?

Please tell me there are no photos!   

Save yourself, it really isn't worth the read. Repetitive self aggrandizing and boasting on the OP's part. But then again, there are some sex tips from the MIL and just in time for Christmas too! 

[pitbull]

Where's Billy???? It's been almost a month! Hope they are busy with wedding preparations and he will return with a bunch of wedding photos

[BillyB]

 
 She bites, she scatches, she doesn't care about me and she's totally out of control. She also farts more than 5 times a day and it stinks. Sometimes while sitting on the couch she'll just come over and bite my toes. My hands, legs and face are scratched up and I've got teeth marks on me. That kitten A and I adopted is wild. Family and people at work know A just arrived and already they think she's angry at me.  A thinks it's funny and says I'm too sensitive of a man to complain about what a kitten is doing to me. I told her I'll put up with it if she's okay with a scarred up ugly husband. I told A to clip those claws on a regular basis.

 
 A does act like the kitten and her age sometimes. She bites me when I don't expect, sit on my lap needing attention and jumps on my back for a piggy back ride around the house...even in front of my 2 boys. I tell my boys this is what to expect if they want to get involved with a girl. Girls are lazy and you'd have to carry them everywhere.

 
 A and I are officially married. We had a quicky marriage. A took into consideration I've been working six days a week lately so she agreed to it but we may have a big nice wedding ceremony in the Spring since this was her dream. I've been so busy that I've had Christmas and New Year off plus a few Sundays since I last posted.

 
 A wants to send money to her mom but she doesn't want me to send it, she wants to earn it. She wants to work but she's not legally able to now so she made a proposal to work for me for $30 a day. On the project I'm working at laborers currently are making over $30 an hour and equipment operators $50 an hour. I'm going to put her to work and in the future, I post some photos in construction attire.

 
 We do have disagreements. A told me America isn't the richest country. Qatar and Luxembourg was. I asked her if she read that on the internet because those countries don't even have enough money to afford an adequate military to defend themselves. A opened her laptop and translated the article she read. The article is decieving at first but I later read a few more paragraphs and showed her the author is basing it off per capita. She asked me about America's deficit. I told A although America has a big deficit, so does other countries. UK is number 2 and most their deficit is to America. We owe somebody and somebody owes us. America also has majortity control of the World Bank and International Monetary Fund because we have the most money to give and loan to other countries. In conclusion I told her to trust her husband more than the guys writing articles on the internet simply because she has to live with me, not them.

 
 My kids are with me this holiday and I let them stay up late and have fun. A told me I should be more strict with them. Disipline is good. I told her usually I am more strict but ease up during the holidays. I asked A if I'm strict enough or too strict with her. She says I'm just right. During her time with me so far, I haven't been a “yes” man 100% of the time and reminded her about her responsibilities around the house. A's mom done most the cleaning and cooking in the past so A has to adapt since mom isn't around anymore.
 
Some men may worry when bringing a RW to the West and eating a western diet, she may get large. A is dieting and signed up with a fitness club. She has lost weight while in America. She doesn't want to become what she is seeing in American women. Recently she tried on size 4 pants in a store and said it would fit her in the past. Now we have to shop for a belt and slimmer pants.
 
 Here are some photos.
 

 Photos 1 &2 are of us at an equipment auction a day before the auction to inspect the equipment. Keys are in every machine but A declined to test drive with me. I was looking for a 40-55 metric ton excavator but I  couldn't pass up a photo with the biggest wheel loader at the auction.

 
 Photo 3 is at Snoqualmie Falls, Washington

 
 Photo 4 is at a nice restaurant we ate at

 
 Photo 5 is at an ice skating rink

 
 Photo 6,7, and 8 is Christmas day at my parents house.
 
Happy New Year!

 

Billy, by "playful" I meant her facial expression. In her old photos from Ukraine/Lybia she looks self-confident and playful. In her new photos from USA she no longer looks this way. She looks somewhat subdued, reserved, or sad, or maybe tired.

 If you didn't notice it, it means that either you cannot read women and don't know/understand women that well as you are trying to convince everyone on this board, or that you choose to ignore obvious signs.

Obvious signs? In those last photos I submitted A has been in America less than a week, met 50+ relatives of mine and from Thanksgiving to Black Friday shopping stayed up over 36 hours straight. I thought she was looking good considering those factors. I'm not worried. A still hasn't cried for home and mom yet. A did cry once when she was talking like a teenager instead of like a mature woman while debating me and I mentioned some doubt about marrying her if she is going to talk like that. A ran to the room crying. I waited a few minutes on purpose and then went to the room to hold and comfort her while telling her I didn't mean it.
 
Last 2 photos was taken a few days after the previous photos I submitted. A look more fresh and stands on one leg for me at a park. How many women pose on one leg for their man? She's got to be happy.

[Ranetka]

 


 

 
 A did cry once when she was talking like a teenager instead of like a mature woman while debating me

Have you forgotten she IS a teenager? lol
 

[SteveOR]

 
Billy-
 
Congratulations to you and Mrs. B!  You're a lucky man with a beautiful wife.
 
I want to wish you both a very Happy New Year and best wishes for a long and happy marriage!
 
-Steve
 

 

[JR]

Have you forgotten she IS a teenager? lol

Now there you go, like stating the obvious and all.......))))

[Ranetka]

Now there you go, like stating the obvious and all.......))))

I was not sure if BillyB was joking. Decided he probably was not.

[JR]

I was not sure if BillyB was joking. Decided he probably was not.

I am sure he was not and your post was spot on

[SANDRO43]

She bites, she scatches, she doesn't care about me and she's totally out of control. She also farts more than 5 times a day and it stinks. Sometimes while sitting on the couch she'll just come over and bite my toes. My hands, legs and face are scratched up and I've got teeth marks on me. That kitten A and I adopted is wild.

BillyB, you should have put the last sentence at the beginning - when I started reading, I first thought you were listing A's most endearing qualities . 

Congratulations, anyway.

[Lily]

That's great news! 

Congratulations on your marriage and Happy New Year to A and yourself! 

How long did it take from your initial marriage application to the actual marriage?

[Jumper]

Hi lily, not to answer for billyb..
 
but as example:
Each US state and even county can be quite different.
 
In my state and county ,it is valid the  same day.
no medical exam , no blood tests.
Just need a photo ID's, and  proof of one individuals residency in the county.
You can choose to marry that day, or later. 
 
However the next county south it is  3 days,
one county north 31 days,and requires  a medical exam and blood tests.
So for me it's a matter of a mile or so, in significant differences in the requirements
( I live a mile from the county line)
 
 
 
 

[Gator]

BillyB, Congratulations!
And please convey my  Best Wishes to A.

[ML]

That's great news! 

Congratulations on your marriage and Happy New Year to A and yourself! 

Ditto from me.

[GQBlues]

Holy smokes! That's one fine looking 900! A 12-yard bucket?...   
 
Congrats Mr. 'A'!
 

[mies]

Congratulations on your wedding, Billy!

[JR]

Congratulations on the wedding Billy. I hope you and A have many, MANY happy years together, I mean that!

[mies]

She bites, she scatches, she doesn't care about me and she's totally out of control. Sometimes while sitting on the couch she'll just come over and bite my toes. My hands, legs and face are scratched up and I've got teeth marks on me.

veterinarians say that fixing usually helps in such circumstances.

[Kuna]

Congratulations Billy.... I genuinely hope it works out for you.

Please do post pics of the "big" wedding when you have it.  I know how important a church wedding was to A.  Have you discussed whether it will be an Orthodox wedding or not???  If it is I'd suggest you wear comfortable shoes.   

[Turboguy]

veterinarians say that fixing usually helps in such circumstances.

Getting the cat fixed or getting Billy fixed?

[mies]

Getting the cat fixed or getting Billy fixed?

[BillyB]

 
 
Thanks SteveOR, Sandro, Lily, Gator, ML, GQBlues, mies, JR, and Kuna for your thoughts!
 

How long did it take from your initial marriage application to the actual marriage?

Where I live, it's a 3 day wait to marry after filing for a marriage license but like Jumper said, it can vary from counties and states.
 

veterinarians say that fixing usually helps in such circumstances.

All animals are fixed before being put up for adoption by animal shelters. I can only imagine how wild the kitten would be if she was not fixed.
 

  I know how important a church wedding was to A.  Have you discussed whether it will be an Orthodox wedding or not???  If it is I'd suggest you wear comfortable shoes.   

A is Catholic but she'd be okay with a normal church wedding.
 

Please do post pics of the "big" wedding when you have it.

I'll post something better since everyone is so nice. Pics of the honeymoon in Las Vegas but not past the bedroom door since everybody knows nothing important happens in the bedroom.
 
While I get my honeymoon photos sorted out, I'll show pics of the real reason I married A. Not for love but for cheap affordable labor. It's so hard to find good help even in a bad economy. First two photos is A at work salvaging valuable metals. She's looking for copper, stainless steel and aluminum. Third photo is taken from my excavator of a pool I'm demolishing.
 
Last two photos is of A having fun in the snow.

[Simoni]

Congratulations Billy!  I'm very happy for you!


~Simoni

[Hammer2722]

Billy! Didn't anyone ever warn you that CRACK KILLS???? Your first photo is dangerous......

[Turboguy]

 
 
Great photos Billy but I thought you were not going to post any explicit ones.   We all wish you both a lifetime of happiness.  I think you have a great wife and I think she will be happy here and happy with you.