OK whats up with this?

[Bill_McC]

I've been communicating with a second very lovely lady from the FSU. She's very attractive, not knee crawling gorgeous like the one before, but very pretty. We've had 5 or 6 emails and in about the 4th one she started talking about children. I immediately replied back that having more children wasn't an option for me due to a specific surgical procedure and a personal choice not to have any more children this late in life. I was very polite, but I left absolutely no doubt that I was not going to be having anymore children at this stage of my life. Her next email was as if she hadn't even read mine. It went on and on about how well she would take care of me and our children, how good a cook she is, and again stated that having children of her own was very high up on her list of priorites. Along with this email came a group of 8 or 10 very scantily clad pictures of her. Then tonight I get a very short email telling me that she is waiting for my response to the email with the pics. I haven't replied and honestly I don't think that I will because I think that this a last ditch effort on Yuri's part to keep me on the hook.

Comments - suggestions - advice please...

Bill


Edit: I also noticed that the names on the pictures in this last email don't match the name that I know her by.

[Andrew]

I think you know exactly what is going on here.
Time to move on.
NEXT...............

[GQBlues]

Edit: I also noticed that the names on the pictures in this last email don't match the name that I know her by.

Your spidey sense is right. It's great we all have instincts. Time to move on...

Bill-

What site are you using?

[Gylden]

I don't think you really need any advice on this, because it is glaringly clear, go with your gut and just move on.
 

[kievstar]

Bill,

If your going through a marriage agency or dating agency women do not write.  The agency workers write on their behalf and they get paid on number of letters returned which draws a response form foreign men.  Their very busy and will just give you enough to keep writing.  So no one is really reading all your letter. 

Also, be careful of writing to many women in the same agency city as the agency worker will consider you a player and will tell the women that.  When you come to visit they will tell you she is busy but the truth is she wants nothing to do with men who write to many.  The desperate women will see you.

[facetrock]

  Bill, where are you finding these women?

[Bill_McC]

Bill,

If your going through a marriage agency or dating agency women do not write.  The agency workers write on their behalf and they get paid on number of letters returned which draws a response form foreign men.  Their very busy and will just give you enough to keep writing.  So no one is really reading all your letter. 

Also, be careful of writing to many women in the same agency city as the agency worker will consider you a player and will tell the women that.  When you come to visit they will tell you she is busy but the truth is she wants nothing to do with men who write to many.  The desperate women will see you.

The site that I've been using is InternationalCupid. I hadn't thought that it would be a problem talking to a couple of women at a time. I couldn't keep up with anymore than that without getting myself in some kind of trouble.

Bill

[Vaughn]

having children of her own was very high up on her list of priorites.

Bill,   even IF this woman is for real, she doesn't meet your original gameplan criteria.

Don't give it another thought. Move on.

[tim 360]

The site that I've been using is InternationalCupid. I hadn't thought that it would be a problem talking to a couple of women at a time. I couldn't keep up with anymore than that without getting myself in some kind of trouble.

Bill

Move on Bill.  "International Cupid"???  Even sounds sleazy.  Bill, try Elenas Models.  There is no pay to play.  Just a membership fee and you contact the ladies directly.  Less BS.

[Bill_McC]

Move on Bill.  "International Cupid"???  Even sounds sleazy.  Bill, try Elenas Models.  There is no pay to play.  Just a membership fee and you contact the ladies directly.  Less BS.

Actually it's a pretty nice site. The major problem are the scammers just like anywhere else. There are women from all over the world there; China, Thailand, Philippines, all the FSU countries, all over Europe, you name it. As I said I'm not looking specifically in the FSU, I stumbled upon this site as I was looking into online and international dating. I just kinda stuck to the wall once I got here.

Bill

[Faux Pas]

Ditto to all the above. Bill this ole gal isn't even reading your letters and if she were she doesn't fit your criteria. No matter how pretty (or not) the picture she's failed miserably on early qualifying even if she wasn't a scam. But I'd bet my money she's a scam. Move on. There's so many real ladies waiting to hear from you to waste another email to this one

[SomeGuy]

You know the answer already, and others just confirmed it for you.

Here's some random information on the real site owners, see the response on the first one:
http://www.datecomments.com/reviews/japancupid.com/381-worst-scam-dating-service-to-date.php

And random reviews for one of their affiliated/network sites:
http://www.datecomments.com/reviews/japancupid.com/

Note their former name seems to be myforeignbride.com, some miscellaneous other links:
http://www.dating-service.com/review/Sites/internationalcupid.com/
http://www.latin-russian-asian-brides.com/mailorder/foreign_bride.htm
http://mail-order-brides-websites.no1reviews.com/MyForeignBride.html

I have no experience or association with any of the sites or links.  A quick look and first impression seems like there are normal women and profiles on there, and it's somewhat similar to Elenas and others, probably with a similar amount of less than genuine women, but seems to be genuine.  

Ignore spam and scam, and keep on looking.  Good luck.