OlgaH, Avis, etc Why do we hate Ed

[OlgaH]

Olga, I'd like to get to know you a little better. You know a lot about me, yet I don't know anything about you. In order to make this conversation a bit more informative and pleasant why not share with me:
where do you live (country and city is fine, I'm not asking for your home address) ?
married/divorced/looking?
To/for a RM or WM and why?
Who's the guy in the hat next to you?

I know about you only what you write about yourself  

About me... Does it really matter? 

[GQBlues]

Maybe I'll try a different angle....

Eduard, I believe you do give and try to give a great service to your clients. However, based on the premise of your dba 'GetRussianWife', it'll be a load of help to your cause if you actually replace those videos with couples, you helped along the way, with their wedding videos - or at least photos. I'm certain that based on the longetivity that you've been on this biz there will be at least more than a few of these weddings, no?

Do you not agree that would be a much better platform to advertise your services?

I'm sure you care about these women as you do your clients and would likely avoid any misconception that you're promoting anything BUT happy marriages.

Yes?

[Eduard]

It didn't really answer my question though, Ed. What happened between them after that day you shot the video is contrary to the captioned message that advertises your service called 'GetRussianWife'....not only did not they get married, according to you they didn't even really dated after that video was shot....

So I simply asked, what was the point of keeping the video online? If there was no romantic connection, like the other video about the other woman who went wayside, what's the purpose of the videos?

dear GQ,
that video is only the one part of the 6 part video. It's a reality video of what happened on our trip when John met with the girls he had been talking with on line, now in real life. He did connect with one of the girls and was dating her for several months and was in the process of filing for a K-1 visa for her. This video is pretty unique because it is not easy to find a guy who would allow me to videotape him like that (as a matter of fact, to date he is the only one who let me do this). maybe you are more accustomed to the "truth of advertising" in MOB agency  style videos on youtube with half naked girls posing provocatively with narration telling you how lonely she is? Sorry that's not my style. I tell it/show it like it is. It is apparent to me that you are just looking for something that's "wrong" here. How about you try to look for what's right? I've helped quite a few people on these forums who have nothing but good to say about me and what I do. Would you be willing to learn more about that, or are you the type of person who just likes to join a lynch mob and kick people when they are down?

I'm not saying that I'm down, but I was attacked and you seem to be just joining in for the fun of it.

[LEGAL]

I would like for you to not criticise a man that you have never met and don't really know, behind his back. He is not here to respond to you so why in the world would you even talk about him? I'm sure that you would be able to find an individual worse by far than John in loooks and manners right where you live within a 100 meter perimeter. Why not just stop him when he is passing by and tell him all that you think of him in his face? At least you'd get a reaction! Gossiping about somebody you don't know, behind his back on the forum is low class IMHO. You accuse him of bad manners so why don't you exhibit some good manners for a change, Olga?  

Hi Ed When You put a video on you tube/adverti$ng you are subjecting it to criticism and it most certainly is not gossiping its responding to what they saw. I am curious did both parties sign a release for the video  to be used as advertising on you tube.  Ed we live in a viral world and just Maybe the criticism would help you fine tune your product .  As far as the Low class/manners statement that was not called for if you really are a gentleman you won't do that again. You received responses from several RW not just Olga and they were not pleased with what they saw and responded. I am sure you are a nice guy and learning from these RW would greatly help your business. NONE of the above was meant to inflame you in anyway.

[Eduard]

Maybe I'll try a different angle....

Eduard, I believe you do give and try to give a great service to your clients. However, based on the premise of your dba 'GetRussianWife', it'll be a load of help to your cause if you actually replace those videos with couples, you helped along the way, with their wedding videos - or at least photos. I'm certain that based on the longetivity that you've been on this biz there will be at least more than a few of these weddings, no?

Do you not agree that would be a much better platform to advertise your services?

I'm sure you care about these women as you do your clients and would likely avoid any misconception that you're promoting anything BUT happy marriages.

Yes?

where can the photos of you and your wife be viewd on line? Has it ever accured to you that most people want their privacy and would not want their photos displayed for the purpose of advertising a service? Why do you even give a shite?

[Eduard]

Hi Ed When You put a video on you tube/adverti$ng you are subjecting it to criticism and it most certainly is not gossiping its responding to what they saw. I am curious did both parties sign a release for the video  to be used as advertising on you tube.  Ed we live in a viral world and just Maybe the criticism would help you fine tune your product .  As far as the Low class/manners statement that was not called for if you really are a gentleman you won't do that again. You received responses from several RW not just Olga and they were not pleased with what they saw and responded. I am sure you are a nice guy and learning from these RW would greatly help your business. NONE of the above was meant to inflame you in anyway.

legal, thanks for all your advice, but OlgaH did insinuate that I cheat on my wife, and that IMO (among other things) was low class and bad manners in my book. You and Olga have your opinions and I have mine. And by the way, I started this thread to let Olga and Avis air out their "grievances" with me and as you put it, me "learn from RW" (which by the way I've been doing since age 0) so I'm not clear why GQ and yourself feel the need to contribute here, in this thread. Surely there are other, much more interesting threads where your opinion/advice would be appreciated?

[OlgaH]

legal, thanks for all your advice, but OlgaH did insinuate that I cheat on my wife, and that IMO (among other things) was low class and bad manners in my book.

Ed, Please show the evidence where I did insinuate that you cheat on your wife?  


"grievances"? you must be kidding, Ed? Honestly, I see only you "lamenting"  

[OlgaH]

I'm not clear why GQ and yourself feel the need to contribute here, in this thread. Surely there are other, much more interesting threads where your opinion/advice would be appreciated?

Ed, if you would not want anybody else contributing in this thread you would not publish it    but would use personal message function instead 

[OlgaH]

Ed, actually I enjoy chatting with you and sorry, teas you too... you are such a dushka  

[LEGAL]

legal, thanks for all your advice, but OlgaH did insinuate that I cheat on my wife, and that IMO (among other things) was low class and bad manners in my book. You and Olga have your opinions and I have mine. And by the way, I started this thread to let Olga and Avis air out their "grievances" with me and as you put it, me "learn from RW" (which by the way I've been doing since age 0) so I'm not clear why GQ and yourself feel the need to contribute here, in this thread. Surely there are other, much more interesting threads where your opinion/advice would be appreciated?

Ed its a forum!  Olga's background is in the theater business and she runs a film studio making Documentaries, commercials, resort videos Etc. Maybe she could actually help you, Just some food for thought. I was in the chat room and The other women had a lot to say and you singled out Olga only.  Again this is not to inflame you in anyway.

[Eduard]

Olga, now that you saw my photo with the dog it sounds like you are flirting with me??? I have to warn you, that photo was taken 2 years ago and now I'm bold and toothless 

[OlgaH]

Olga, now that you saw my photo with the dog it sounds like you are flirting with me??? I have to warn you, that photo was taken 2 years ago and now I'm bold and toothless 

Ed, I don't care if you bold and toothless as I already found my love    Cute dog, is the dog also bold and toothless    Just kidding, don't take it as a flirt, please 

[veritas]

Strange name for a topic "OlgaH, Avis, etc Why do we hate Ed from getrussianwife.com.".   

Why did you decide that we hate you? Of course you have your own perception, our Russian kid in a candy store   

Or. better yet, why did you feel the need to put "getrussianwife.com" in the name of the topic?

Don't you already get enough free advertising from the signature line in your posts?

Kevin

[Lily]

Okay folks, would you please stop this ?

Where does the conversation from page 1 come from, was it a personal RWD chat? Why you Ed want to discuss it here now??

How would the RWD members benefit from discussing who and why sad anything less than flattering about Ed?

If not this thread I personally would never know who and why hates Ed. Moreover, not sure that I want to know it.

I consider deleting this thread.

Any reasons why the thread should stay here please?

[OlgaH]

Lily, please don't spoil our fun    Plus there is also some information that can be helpful.

But you can rename the thread into "OlgaH, Avis, etc Why we don't hate Ed from getrussianwife.com"   moving it to "anything goes" is up to you

[Faux Pas]

Okay folks, would you please stop this ?

Where does the conversation from page 1 come from, was it a personal RWD chat? Why you Ed want to discuss it here now??

How would the RWD members benefit from discussing who and why sad anything less than flattering about Ed?

If not this thread I personally would never know who and why hates Ed. Moreover, not sure that I want to know it.

I consider deleting this thread.

Any reasons why the thread should stay here please?

IMHO, I see no redeeming qualities or benefits in this thread. Deleting seems a bit over the top but locking it might help

[LEGAL]

Lily the thread should stay for a many reasons and I did not see anywhere that Olga hates ED.

[OlgaH]

Kevin, come on, there is no such thing as "enough advertising" especially when it is free!  Am I right, Ed?     

[Lily]

Lily, please don't spoil our fun    Plus there is also some information that can be helpful.

But you can rename the thread into "OlgaH, Avis, etc Why we don't hate Ed from getrussianwife.com"  

Dears, this is not fun. This is something which decent people would not tolerate on a forum. This is nothing but washing someone else's dirty underwear, as we say it in Russia.

What information would be helpful in this awkward four-pages mess? Please tell me, I'll sort the posts out and we will have a normal thread to a point.

[LEGAL]

Dears, this is not fun. This is something which decent people would not tolerate on a forum.

What information would be helpful in this awkward four-pages mess? Please tell me, I'll sort the posts out and we will have a normal thread to a point.

Are you saying that we are not decent people. This is very mild compared to other threads. i don't see Ed or anyone getting out of line and this I believe will help not only Ed but other guys.

[Lily]

Dears, this is not fun. This is something which decent people would not tolerate on a forum. This is nothing but washing someone else's dirty underwear, as we say it in Russia.

What information would be helpful in this awkward four-pages mess? Please tell me, I'll sort the posts out and we will have a normal thread to a point.

Lily the thread should stay for a many reasons and I did not see anywhere that Olga hates ED.

please name the reasons?

[OlgaH]

Dears, this is not fun. This is something which decent people would not tolerate on a forum. This is nothing but washing someone else's dirty underwear, as we say it in Russia.

What information would be helpful in this awkward four-pages mess? Please tell me, I'll sort the posts out and we will have a normal thread to a point.

Lily, there is not any washing someone else's dirty underwear. Don't know where do you see it.    Discussion and disagreements in opinions on video, body language, presentation of business and client so on,  just take a look through the posts.  

[Lily]

Are you saying that we are not decent people. This is very mild compared to other threads.

No I am not saying that you are not decent people; this came from you.

Sometimes people indeed make silly things, but an internet forum is the thing where we can improve ourselves, and to let some less than good posts disappear.

[OlgaH]

Dears, this is not fun. This is something which decent people would not tolerate on a forum. This is nothing but washing someone else's dirty underwear, as we say it in Russia.

Yes, Lily, there are decent people have disagreements and different views and btw without washing someone else's dirty underwear. I don't think there is such need as to exaggerate the situation 

[Lily]

Lily, there is not any washing someone else's dirty underwear. Don't know where do you see it.    Discussion and disagreements in opinions on video, body language, presentation of business and client so on,  just take a look through the posts.  

Then at the very least the thread has to be renamed, and discussions just about the videos should be left.

Especially this quoting of chat conversation does not look good to stay here. Someone said something about another, and they bring this private talk onto the common forum. A chat looks like a real time conversation, and chatters apparently don't expect that their words will be quoted on the public forum for everyone to see.