Blondie thoughts about everything....

[Faux Pas]

I dont know
life so strange and not nice with me last years and I not assured about I will do all the right?

Don't sweat it (pun intended  ) Seems you are worrying too much. Has he ever been to Russia? After meeting you in Cancun and now he's going to Russia for a second meeting, it's obviously not Russia he's going to see. Relax and be yourself. I would suggest just showing him the sights around Tomsk. Treat him to a full Russian experience. Meet your family and friends with tables of food and and endless shots of vodka. Show him who you are.


It's springtime, take a visit to the garden or the dacha. If the theatre is open, take him. To me, for the full banya experience, snow needs to be on the ground but it is almost as enjoyable anytime. Pick up a variety of those cured sausages, cheeses, salads along with some wine and pivas. Relax and enjoy his company, let him enjoy yours. Keep the schedule light and don't worry about keeping him entertained every minute.


Simple things as just walking to the market is actually quite a learning experience for a first timer. Sia, for most Americans there is a veil and a shroud of mystery about Russia. It is all wrong and it's no more evident until one experiences it first hand and quite surprising when one discovers that Russian people and Russian society/culture isn't what they thought it was.

[Gator]

Actually I know him for a long long time.

Because you already know him, I place banya at the top of the list, a private banya.  I recall dating one RW in St. Piter and thinking she was not interested in me.  She suggested a private banya session.  That 90 minutes broke the ice.  She was indeed interested in me, very interested.
 
Later I suggest a picnic in nature (BBQ with friends?).
 
Most important is to have time with each other to talk, talk, talk.  Do this while walking around as a tourist, having coffee/tea and cake, dining at a restaurant, and ....... Learn as much as you can about each other.  As Daveman says, be yourself.  He needs to see the real Sia and be comfortable with who you are (and vice versa).
 
Have fun!!!!!

[Sia]

Guys, thank you  for help.
I actually confused.In the head porridge of thoughts.I afraid to do something wrong or say some noncense.I quite forgotten how to flirt and be just a woman.To be just a  friend is always welcome, and now be a simple weak woman who needs a caring and kind words-alas ... completely forgot! I simply had to be one last time than to be with someone in free connection.I accustomed to be who I am now and protect my world and its adjusted to the disgrace of sterile life and now I'm scared to make mistake.This is trouble all good perfectionist girls who are still sometimes live in complexes at the past.The head also understand that losing my mind from scratch, that all is well that we should relax and enjoy it, I should not stress, but still not completely let go of the reins ..
Scold me:)
 

[Muzh]

Guys, thank you  for help.
I actually confused.In the head porridge of thoughts.I afraid to do something wrong or say some noncense.I quite forgotten how to flirt and be just a woman.To be just a  friend is always welcome, and now be a simple weak woman who needs a caring and kind words-alas ... completely forgot! I simply had to be one last time than to be with someone in free connection.I accustomed to be who I am now and protect my world and its adjusted to the disgrace of sterile life and now I'm scared to make mistake.This is trouble all good perfectionist girls who are still sometimes live in complexes at the past.The head also understand that losing my mind from scratch, that all is well that we should relax and enjoy it, I should not stress, but still not completely let go of the reins ..
Scold me:)
 

Well hello there Miss Sunshine. Long time no see.
 
Why not be yourself and show him Russia? Your traditions, food, customs? This can tell much about your man. What if he doesn't like any of that? Is this something that you can live with if you marry him? I hope the guy is open-minded and a nice person and enjoy what you have to offer. Remember that everything is new for him and he will be dependent on you. Don't be overbearing. Treat it like a vacation.
 
High heels and shortskirts. Actually, short everything. This is a must. 
 
Good luck. I'll have my fingers crossed.

[Jumper]

oh yeah
I impressed...well...if the South Gentleman said that-I will pick up him with me in real Russian Banya.My grandfather made it mor then 18 y ago.We will go to my native place for exotic things-Taiga,Banya,Russian Vodka and Russian Borsh and Pirogki

Sia, that's perfect!

Most men would appreciate you showing  them this part of your life.. and
something your grandfather made , or meeting friends.

Many might  prefer shaslik or a BBQ, with your friends or family,
 instead of going to  a cafe as example.
 
Just keep it simple, light , and have fun.
If he wants the romantic dinner evening, I'm sure that will come as well... 

[possum]

Scold me:)
 

OK, but first tell me what is going on, in 20 words or less. You know I don't have time to read the entire thing..

[Sia]

Possy, Im in shock,,,really,U know me a little bit and now U can see me-in the BIG TROUBLE:)


aaa  у меня голова идет кругом и ваще я ничего не понимаю и не знаю что делать и если честно мне хочется спрятать голову в песок чтобы только задница торчала и никто меня не трогал
прости за набор букафф

[Rubicon]

     Re: Music I loveHi Sia, here is one of the requested links.  go to Odds and Ends, than go to Music I Love.  At the end of them (page 33) you will see all of the classical music I posted.

[Sia]

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[OlgaH]

...если честно мне хочется спрятать голову в песок чтобы только задница торчала и никто меня не трогал

Sia,
Я бы не рекомендовала, так как пряча голову в песок,  Вы оставляете задницу беззащитной 

[Sia]

Do not worry, in any case, "She" is gorgeous even in the divine design.
And here I would advise not to pay attention to women's ass, you never know what someone thinks about your orientation, my dear. 

[OlgaH]

Do not worry, in any case, "She" is gorgeous even in the divine design.
And here I would advise not to pay attention to women's ass, you never know what someone thinks about your orientation, my dear. 

Sia, I'm sorry you took the aphorism I posted in some kind of negative way and personally  There was not anything mentioned about paying attention to women's ass and more over to your ass, and more over about a sexual orientation.

To clarify for English speaking members I think we need to translate.
You wrote 

aaa  у меня голова идет кругом и ваще я ничего не понимаю и не знаю что делать и если честно мне хочется спрятать голову в песок чтобы только задница торчала и никто меня не трогал

"my head is going round and I don't understand anything and I don't know what to do, and honestly I want to hide my head in the sand so only my ass would stick out and nobody would touch me"

I posted the aphorism

Sia,
Я бы не рекомендовала, так как пряча голову в песок,  Вы оставляете задницу беззащитной 

"Sia, I would not recommend, because hiding your head in the sand your leave your ass unprotected"

I again apologize if the aphorism somehow insulted you. It was not my intend.
Personally, I prefer to watch my ass to avoid undesirable kicks from the life 

[Sia]

Well,okey,I guess little misunderstanding is gone 


it was my fault.Message was for Possy and for his Russian eyes.Should be better emailing it in the private box not here for publicity

[OlgaH]

Well,okey,I guess little misunderstanding is gone 


it was my fault.Message was for Possy and for his Russian eyes.Should be better emailing it in the private box not here for publicity

Sia, please don't worry, misunderstandings happen. I'm glad we have resolved it. I'm sorry I could not guess that your message to Possy on public forum was a privet message, and your response in English to me confused me too 

Sometime it is better to  send privet message in privet, even in Russian. Members with inquiring mind will try to translate it anyway and it is absolutely normal especially for men here as they would like to know what Russian woman thinks  But an online translation can give unpredictably surprising result totally distorting the original meaning. 

[Misha]

Members with inquiring mind will try to translate it anyway

Some don't even have to translate 

[Rubicon]

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this is for u[/youtube]

right back at ya!!
Only Time...

[SANDRO43]

fvwrel

That is wrong, as well :

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wfYIMyS_dI[/youtube]

[Rubicon]

Sandro, it was not wrong.  If you look at what you posted, embedding is disabled.

Mine does work, but I like yours better because it skips the commercial. 

[SANDRO43]

Sandro, it was not wrong.  If you look at what you posted, embedding is disabled.

I know that, but at least it shows up . I got an  error the 1st time I tried yours, I thought due to &feature=fvwrel which usually is &feature=related to show related pieces, but apparently that parameter is correct, too .

[Sia]

Well I'm here again. The meeting took place is absolutely as expected. Local color and exotic Siberian has not made a lasting impression. Local beer was greeted by loud cheers, but the church and the old stone streets with my surprises have sunk into oblivion ... so sorry

[Sia]

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today I feel melanholy.
and want to share some pics of my home place for everybody






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Our Chekchov

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[Faux Pas]

Thanks Sia! Your pictures brings back memories. I have been to almost all of those places. Including the museum with the old fort. Quite a hike up that hill for an old fat guy