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How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?

How demanding are the hot ladies in terms of charm and looks e.t.c.?

Personally I am still 28 but I am wondering about the difficulties in general to successfully get a hot Eastern European wife.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #1 on: March 26, 2011, 08:04:35 AM »
How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?

How demanding are the hot ladies in terms of charm and looks e.t.c.?

Personally I am still 28
but I am wondering about the difficulties in general to successfully get a hot Eastern European wife.

Yeah, riiight  :ROFL:

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #2 on: March 26, 2011, 08:06:22 AM »
How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?
Not difficult if you are rich and/or handsome. Although if you are handsome and poor you also have to show signs of intellect. If you are rich, then no intellect needed, but rich people aren't stupid, or they wouldn't stay rich for long :P

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?
Depends what you call hot, western people have a lot lower standards than russians for beauty. But a real hot girl, no, sure he can get one, but not keep her. As soon as she is done getting what she wanted, she will be gone.

How demanding are the hot ladies in terms of charm and looks e.t.c.?
I want a Brad Pitt with a couple billion bucks, is that too much to ask?????  :) Same as any other woman, a guy who treats her well, who provides emotional spikes every so often, who makes enough money, who takes care of himself (shower, shave, smell nice, nice breath, hopefully works out), and hopefully has a pleasant face.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #3 on: March 26, 2011, 08:22:05 AM »
How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?


How much money you have?
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #4 on: March 26, 2011, 08:25:38 AM »
Yeah, riiight  :ROFL:

 :) Actually I am 28 years old, I just took 50 years old as an example to see if it is super easy.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #5 on: March 26, 2011, 08:28:31 AM »
How much money you have?

About €130 000. Not enough to be rich by western standards..

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #6 on: March 26, 2011, 08:33:44 AM »
Same as any other woman, a guy who treats her well, who provides emotional spikes every so often, who makes enough money, who takes care of himself (shower, shave, smell nice, nice breath, hopefully works out), and hopefully has a pleasant face.

Guess I fulfill most of these criteria except perhaps the stuff about emotional spikes and the pleasant face, although I have a normal face. If the demands are as high as any other woman, then what's the point in trying to get a hot eastern European woman. Then it is just as difficult as getting a good western girl.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2011, 08:35:44 AM »
...western people have a lot lower standards than russians for beauty...

Sometimes different standards, but I wouldn't say lower  :-X

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #8 on: March 26, 2011, 08:56:08 AM »
lol!
I think this website just jumped the shark.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #9 on: March 26, 2011, 09:26:38 AM »
Guess I fulfill most of these criteria except perhaps the stuff about emotional spikes and the pleasant face, although I have a normal face. If the demands are as high as any other woman, then what's the point in trying to get a hot eastern European woman. Then it is just as difficult as getting a good western girl.

Precisely.  Probably much more difficult and more expensive.  :rolleyes2:

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #10 on: March 26, 2011, 09:34:16 AM »
How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?

It appears to be VERY easy. However, personal 'light-up' moments are apparently variable. Sometimes, not required.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #11 on: March 26, 2011, 09:43:17 AM »
Guess I fulfill most of these criteria except perhaps the stuff about emotional spikes and the pleasant face, although I have a normal face. If the demands are as high as any other woman, then what's the point in trying to get a hot eastern European woman. Then it is just as difficult as getting a good western girl.
Well then you better learn to provide some. Women like being emotional every so often :P
Of course it's difficult. There is no magic candy wife store that will automatically give you out a hot perfect match upon request. You have to work hard or be very lucky to find a good match that also fulfills all your criteria, and then it may still go south, cuz we are all human.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #12 on: March 26, 2011, 09:49:40 AM »
It appears to be VERY easy. However, personal 'light-up' moments are apparently variable. Sometimes, not required.

Yes indeed.. but to keep from going insane, it's best to "light-up" often and inhale deeply and hold...  :evil:

lol!
I think this website just jumped the shark.
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and Fonzie has appeared in the flesh!  :P
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2011, 10:11:56 AM »
How difficult is it to get a hot young Eastern European woman nowadays?

Can a 50 year old average western guy get a hot woman in the mid twenties?

How demanding are the hot ladies in terms of charm and looks e.t.c.?

Personally I am still 28 but I am wondering about the difficulties in general to successfully get a hot Eastern European wife.

Chances would be about the same as if you look in your own country. At the same time, one difference is that in the FSU, you will have a lot more options to chose from. For example, pardon my hypothetically  inaccurate numbers, in your country you know, say, 3 hot girls who would interest you. For these 3 hotties, there is a pool of about 20 competitors who may eventually be more attractive and better off than yourself. How do you estimate your chances in such situation?

Okay, now think of yourself in Russia. There you will notice about 15 pretty girls, 5 of which will be breathtaking, and other 10 reasonably attractive and interesting. All 15 would eventually consider you, because they know about only 10 more or less suitable males in their circles, 6 of whom will be ineligible because of being no marriage material, and 4 eligible ones will be without any profession to live from, drank or sick. Now see what your options to get a wife will be in this second case?

To sum up, your chances to get a particular woman will depend from what choices does this woman have.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #14 on: March 26, 2011, 10:18:12 AM »
There is no magic candy wife store that will automatically give you out a hot perfect match upon request.

But that's not what the agency brochure said...    :ROFL:
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #15 on: March 26, 2011, 10:25:05 AM »
....There is no magic candy wife store that will automatically give you out a hot perfect match upon request....

Absolutely agree with this, however, there are at least 3-4 kiosks in every city center and metro stations.

The other thing you can do to save some time...plaster a few new hundred dollar bills on your forehead and stand by the corner of places like the Red square, or in the center of old arbat...it won't be long until you have the pick of the litter.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #16 on: March 26, 2011, 10:21:29 PM »
Yeah.. Probably there's a higher risk that Eastern European women leaves the man when they realize that they can get something better in their new country compared to Asian women.

On the other hand I live in Sweden so I guess fewer would move here just to get a green card as they do in the US. So, if an Eastern European woman moves here it might be because she liked me.

However I get the feeling that there's a lower risk of failure with an Asian woman. Eastern Europe women probably has a higher risk of changing their mind when meeting in person as well, thus leading to a wasted trip, compared to Asian women.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #17 on: March 26, 2011, 10:51:42 PM »
Viking,

No real idea on the Asian vs FSU women,
but i'd think any woman relocating, if mainly for a better position and stabilty , would be apt to not honor the commitment of marriage , if faced with much better choices or true love struck?

It seems it would still come down to the connection you personally had with this woman , and her to you.



Asd far as Green card worries,
I live in a city with thousands of immigrants , (more correct is millions)
Many of which are from the FSU.
While it can happen , it is not nearly as common as women who marry with a real intent to stay that way.
I feel  the GC stories are simply louder ,
than the stories of normal relationships that are happy, or ones that ended for many of the same reasons any domestic relationship might.

I know many FSU women in my arera, some single, some married some divorced,
none of then married for a GC, nor would even consider it,
they simply were never that desparate in thier own home cities,
and have higher ethics than that.

 I have seen some marriages that may have leaned towards ones of convenience, but they are few and far between in my realm of experience.


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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #18 on: March 26, 2011, 11:26:41 PM »
Yeah.. Probably there's a higher risk that Eastern European women leaves the man when they realize that they can get something better in their new country compared to Asian women.

On the other hand I live in Sweden so I guess fewer would move here just to get a green card as they do in the US. So, if an Eastern European woman moves here it might be because she liked me.

However I get the feeling that there's a lower risk of failure with an Asian woman. Eastern Europe women probably has a higher risk of changing their mind when meeting in person as well, thus leading to a wasted trip, compared to Asian women.

If a woman marries you because she loves you there's never a problem. The trick is to spend enough time together to make sure that, not only does she love you and you her, but that you are compatible enough to live together. It is not complicated and the same rules apply as they do for local relationships; a good rule of thumb is to think that if the lady in question was local would you marry her in the same time frame. If you are Swedish you have the advantage that you can travel there often and, more importantly, she can come to you for up to 3 months out of every 6. There's really no excuse to risk all on a silly one week wonder type trip.

Some men seem to think they can get much hotter women in the FSU than locally; perhaps that is true, but the more mismatched you are, the more likely it is she will trade up after a while when she gets the chance... but only if she didn't marry you for love to begin with.

If you really are 28, you won't have a problem finding someone as long as you're not a total loser, have a steady job, have no seriously bad habits and are serious about finding a partner. I don't understand why you'd deliberately go out of your way to get all the international dating hassles though; Sweden is full of very attractive women... perhaps that's the problem then, they aren't interested in you? Which beggars the question, why? And that is probably a question many FSUW will ask too...

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #19 on: March 27, 2011, 12:35:42 AM »
If you really are 28, you won't have a problem finding someone as long as you're not a total loser, have a steady job, have no seriously bad habits and are serious about finding a partner. I don't understand why you'd deliberately go out of your way to get all the international dating hassles though; Sweden is full of very attractive women... perhaps that's the problem then, they aren't interested in you? Which beggars the question, why? And that is probably a question many FSUW will ask too...

Yeah those things that you mention do apply to me "not a total loser, have a steady job (or well it is time limited actually, but I am an engineer so I should be able to find another job if need be), have no seriously bad habits". Yeah Sweden is full of attractive women but they are not very attracted to me though. Probably because I don't have enough of humour, confidence, charm and adventurousness. The attractive ones can get better than me. And I live in a worthless city with 20% more men than women in my age group.
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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #20 on: March 27, 2011, 12:46:32 AM »
Yeah.. Probably there's a higher risk that Eastern European women leaves the man when they realize that they can get something better in their new country compared to Asian women.

On the other hand I live in Sweden so I guess fewer would move here just to get a green card as they do in the US. So, if an Eastern European woman moves here it might be because she liked me.

However I get the feeling that there's a lower risk of failure with an Asian woman. Eastern Europe women probably has a higher risk of changing their mind when meeting in person as well, thus leading to a wasted trip, compared to Asian women.

Viking--

And where do you get any factual information to back up these impressions?

The figures I've seen for marriages between Western men and FSU ladies seem to suggest a *lower* incidence of divorce than is the case in domestic marriages.

I practiced law for a decade in America, and for a few years I was in a military town in which there were many marriages to ladies from all over the world. The Asian ladies were every bit as inclined to divorce as their contemporaries from other areas.

There is simply no method of determining that there is a significant cultural relationship to probability of divorce.

If you are good at selecting serious and sincere ladies, you can do well. If not, it's a crap shoot.

There are far more important factors than merely the culture they come from originally. Also, of course, there is a huge difference between *getting* married and *staying* married. Once the newness wears off, the real work of building a fulfilling and enjoyable life together begins.

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #21 on: March 27, 2011, 04:04:41 AM »
Viking456, if you wanna a trustworthy advice on if it'd be easy for you to catch a hottie, you'd better give more details... Like photos, for example ;) There is a bunch of hot FSU girls on the forum - you'll get their qualified opinion straight from the horses mouth, so to say ;)

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #22 on: March 27, 2011, 05:25:43 AM »
Viking456, if you wanna a trustworthy advice on if it'd be easy for you to catch a hottie, you'd better give more details... Like photos, for example ;) There is a bunch of hot FSU girls on the forum - you'll get their qualified opinion straight from the horses mouth, so to say ;)

Yeah why not. The photos can be found on the link below. I don't want them posted directly on this site.

http://www.urlgone.com/dd2073/

So ladies, feel free to give an honest opinion.
« Last Edit: March 27, 2011, 05:43:37 AM by Viking456 »

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« Reply #23 on: March 27, 2011, 06:29:16 AM »
Yeah why not. The photos can be found on the link below. I don't want them posted directly on this site.

http://www.urlgone.com/dd2073/

So ladies, feel free to give an honest opinion.

Viking,

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Re: Difficulty to get a hot young Russian / Eastern European woman?
« Reply #24 on: March 27, 2011, 08:09:46 AM »
Yeah why not. The photos can be found on the link below. I don't want them posted directly on this site.

http://www.urlgone.com/dd2073/

So ladies, feel free to give an honest opinion.

Thanks for sharing :)
Well, my honest opinion: you're a nice looking guy, but I think you need to work out a bit, and if besides being nice looking you are able to impress a woman with your money or intellect, you'll be quite successful among Russian women :) The question is why would you want to marry precisely a Russian woman in the first place ;)

 

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