Operation White Panther

[olgac]

Agree with what You said but my point is I see it more in FSU culture now than in western culture among young women!
Don't see this at all in my daughter or her friends. When These American girls think of their financial future they mostly
thing about their own education and job not about female energy which would buy them lavish lifestyle paid by a man.

[Patagonie]

Agree with what You said but my point is I see it more in FSU culture now than in western culture among young women!
Don't see this at all in my daughter or her friends. When These American girls think of their financial future they mostly
thing about their own education and job not about female energy which would buy them lavish lifestyle paid by a man.

   
I was overgeneralizing and forgot a little bit that the subject was about these young FSU girls.
Very happy for you that your daughter and her friends don't get this spirit, how old is she?
   
Olga, between what you have know during your time in FSU and the behavior I have described of this young woman, how do you explain that things have shifted like this in 20 years in FSU? How have they got this "just pay to have me around"?   
I invite women here to express their opinion. 

[olgac]

hi! Our daughter is 21 and is a computer science university student.

I think the entitlement attitude is a result of pendulum swinging the other direction.
in 90s after the soviet union crumbled, many men lost their jobs and instead of
finding other ways to help support families, many got depressed, started drinking
and just sat at home while their wives learned to make money in the new economy
being more adaptable. At the same time women continued to do everything at home too
because it was considered a woman's job.

So many women had had enough and got tired to do everything: support a family alone
AND do all the typically female duties. They went from one extreme to another extreme
and now they want the man to provide 100% of family income : even if a woman works
her money is only hers and his is for family. At the same time they decided a woman
doesn't need to do any typical female work at home either, she is just supposed to be
someone a man adores and works for and her only responsibility is to provide so called
"female energy".  In late 90s - early 2000s many women just wanted a traditional household
and were prepared to do their part in such household but their daughters - not so much.
They only wan tto keep part of traditions convenient to them

To me this is even different that feminism in US where women want to be treated same as men,
this is wanting a woman to be treated above the man so the man has all the typical traditional
male responsibility while she is being treated as a princess and doesn't need to do what women
did historically and instead sleep in, go to spas and salons, have a maid, get expensive gifts, etc.

This is mainly true for FSU women in their 20s and 30s who have grew up seeing their mom
slave away and now want the opposite.

[Patagonie]

Very interesting Olga 
It matches with some interviews (on young women) that I have seen made on streets by a Youtuber I think in Ukraine. 
And I was surprised hearing some one them saying something my money is my money (in the household).