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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #50 on: April 18, 2012, 10:01:57 AM »
Shadow, I am a native English speaker.  Much of the television programming I grew up with came from the U.S. (US stations broadcasting in Canada), and there are parts of the US that, if I visit, no one will know I am a foreigner.  In Florida, they assumed I was a Yankee. 
 
As a Canadian, I also grew up on a lot of British programmes.  The best were stolen and reformatted by Americans, usually in an inferior manner (Robin's nest vs Three's Company).  My favourites were later, though - Drop the Dead Donkey, Absolutely Fabulous, and The Life and Loves of a She Devil.  I also use British spellings, as Canadians always have (Empire and Commonwealth, etc.).
 
An American visiting the UK will have no problem being understood in everyday speech, and vice versa.
However between America and England there is no problem of not being willing to understand each other.
With the small Belgian community there are many language problems, and not only between the French and the English. The West and East parts accuse each other of not being able to speak proper Dutch ( :rolleyes: ) and at times feign not to understand each others language.
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #51 on: April 18, 2012, 10:09:22 AM »
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If you want to keep your expressions convergent, never allow them a single degree of freedom.

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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #52 on: April 18, 2012, 11:23:01 AM »
Yes, we assign each man his own translator/assistant for his entire stay.  Her job is to be his advocate - and you heard it from some of our guys that this is a big difference-maker.  She will give you her read on the ladies your dating as well as cut off any signs of scams (although we do that for the guys ahead of time).
I would never ask for, or care to listen to, the translators opinions.   When comparing a lady who speaks English and does not need translator service to a lady who speaks no English and needs mucho $$$ of translation service,  who do you think the translator will favor?

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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #53 on: April 18, 2012, 06:40:31 PM »
GOMG,

Post 51 brought a big smile to my face ~ thank you!

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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #54 on: April 20, 2012, 05:13:51 PM »
I would never ask for, or care to listen to, the translators opinions.   When comparing a lady who speaks English and does not need translator service to a lady who speaks no English and needs mucho $$$ of translation service,  who do you think the translator will favor?
you can ask any of my clients, any time we encounter a woman who speaks English they start chatting directly on Skype, so your suggestion that a woman's ability to speak English would somehow influence my behavior is incorrect. I can't speak for other translators off course.
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #55 on: April 20, 2012, 06:48:12 PM »
I would never ask for, or care to listen to, the translators opinions.   When comparing a lady who speaks English and does not need translator service to a lady who speaks no English and needs mucho $$$ of translation service,  who do you think the translator will favor?


You bring up one valid point - who is paying the translator?  One of the biggest scams over there is the girl who wants her girlfriend to translate for her - only followed by the letter-writing agency who provides the translator.  We hire ours for an entire week - not by the hour - the fee is pre-negotiated.  Furthermore, they are trained by us on how to be the advocate for the guy and how to give him good reads on what's happening.


Under most circumstances, you would be correct.  That's why we're doing something different, the same way Ed is describing.
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #56 on: April 20, 2012, 06:51:44 PM »
Furthermore, they are trained by us on how to be the advocate for the guy and how to give him good reads on what's happening.

An that is perhaps the most important difference.


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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #57 on: April 20, 2012, 07:15:35 PM »
Hi Mark, it was nice chatting with you on Skype the other day  :)
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #58 on: April 20, 2012, 09:59:24 PM »
Hi Mark, it was nice chatting with you on Skype the other day  :)




Hey, Eduard, connecting with you on Skype was a true delight.  You are the real deal and I support you and your system for helping men find the woman of their heart's desire.  My very best to you and your family and hopes for your continued success.


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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #59 on: April 21, 2012, 01:16:34 AM »
Furthermore, they are trained by us on how to be the advocate for the guy and how to give him good reads on what's happening.

An that is perhaps the most important difference.
I would still prefer a neutral party.
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #60 on: April 26, 2012, 05:58:19 PM »
I do not know if the video is good or not, but it doesn't have subtitles (as I am a deaf person), but I do not believe in having translators. 

You cannot keep rely on translators when you make conversation with your lady, otherwise you might need him/her for your bedroom scene!!   :D

When I was in Cali, Colombia for my very first tour visit, I had 2 dates on the same day, and I did not want to use the translator but they advised me to use it. 

1st lady with translator
2nd lady without translator because the translator wasn't available.

1st lady spent too much time looking at the translator and learnt absolutely nothing, and relied on her in whole 1 hour.

2nd lady.  We went to the zoo and had a great time with her.  We managed to make the conversation together and worked out what we were talking about, and it was the most educational date.  She was willingly to learn about what we was talking about, unlike the 1st lady.

What would happen if the translator isn't around?  What will the 1st lady do?? !!!

You should really learn yourselves without using translator.  You can only use translators if they are urgent, document papers etc.

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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #61 on: April 27, 2012, 12:35:13 AM »
Furthermore, they are trained by us on how to be the advocate for the guy and how to give him good reads on what's happening.

An that is perhaps the most important difference.

I agree. Having someone working for YOU, that understands the situation you are facing is far more valuable than some supposedly neutral third-party translator type. Their lack of being tuned in and reporting not only the words but the interpretations of the gal's behavior, tone and misrepresentations is worth a considerable amount. If nothing else, your peace of mind should be valued.
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7 most common mistakes in dating FSUW
« Reply #62 on: August 31, 2024, 04:01:56 PM »
All good points


7 most common mistakes in dating FSUW

(1) Overselling yourself
(2) Overreacting
(3) Acting superior
(4) Ghosthunting for scammers
(5) Being a cheapskate
(6) Qualifying too early
(7) Being in your head and not in your heart


FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
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There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
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Re: 7 most common mistakes in dating Ukrainian women
« Reply #63 on: August 31, 2024, 04:19:46 PM »
An American visiting the UK will have no problem being understood in everyday speech, and vice versa.

As long as you stay out of pubs in Scotland. It's only a rumor that Scots can speak English
after drinking a few.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

 

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