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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #250 on: October 15, 2012, 12:28:59 PM »
Both Google Translate and Bing have problems with this ... something about horseradish, I assume it is a euphemism for something else!  >:D

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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #251 on: November 13, 2012, 05:22:57 AM »
Here is another "timid" woman's want list. I'll let you guys translate it using your e-translators, this should be funny!




  Кого я хочу найти:
  • ТАКИЕ, как ОН, почему же так долго
    в памяти остаются?!

    РУССКОГО!


    УВЕРЕННОГО В СВОЕЙ ЭКОНОМИЧЕСКОЙ СОСТОЯТЕЛЬНОСТИ, САМОДОСТАТОЧНОГО И ПСИХОЛОГИЧЕСКИ ЗРЕЛОГО МУЖЧИНУ.

    Для ДЕБИЛОВ - в гости НЕ приеду и к себе НЕ приглашу!

    Вот раньше на Руси какие мужики были! -
    Нос с горбинкой,
    Хрен дубинкой,
    10 палок бросит
    И еще на руках носит!

    А сейчас -
    Нос картошкой,
    Хрен гармошкой,
    Пол палки бросит
    И еще на дорогу просит!... )


I'll try without a trans
it's good practice.

hmmm

She very much wan't a man from the past, classic man, or her ex maybe,  or Rasputin type man.  ( i added that last part :)

He needs to be able to take care of himself, and act mature. Oh and  Loaded with $$$ for sure.

Idiots or Morons Don't ask me to come visit you, it aint gonna happen.

Men in Russian used to have:
usual nose?
Hung like a horse.
attitude like a cat

But now
Clown nose   lol
Hung like a squirrel
attitude like a dog always playing fetch

Sounds like she was dating Rasputin and left, now wants him back.
is that about the jist of it?



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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #252 on: November 13, 2012, 06:08:47 AM »


Sounds like she was dating Rasputin and left, now wants him back.
is that about the jist of it?

Or the reincarnation of Catherine the Great.  :D

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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #253 on: November 13, 2012, 06:19:20 AM »
Вот раньше на Руси какие мужики были! -
Нос с горбинкой,
Хрен дубинкой,
10 палок бросит
И еще на руках носит!

А сейчас -
Нос картошкой,
Хрен гармошкой,
Пол палки бросит
И еще на дорогу просит!... )

Yes, Jason, it's a good practice  :) I'll try my version preserving the sense of the verse:

Men in Russia used to be! -
Eagle nose,
Hung like a horse,
F$cking like a cat,
And caring after that!

And now? -
Clown nose,
Crumpled hose,
Give  invalid f$ck,
Wanting money suck! ...

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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #254 on: November 13, 2012, 08:47:40 AM »
Jason, here is another one for you to practice :)))


Кого я хочу найти:
  • Хочу смотреть в его глаза и физически ощущать как отключается мозг :)
    Раскрою тему, а так же кого не хочу найти:
    1. Папочек и любителей секса за деньги )
    Этот сайт наполнен предложениями которые вас могут устроить (так что отстаньте от честных девушек). И дело не в том, что я деньги не люблю дело в том, что мне страшно подумать какой фарш должен быть в мужской голове, какое кол-во тараканов там должно водиться, если он искренне считает, что без предоплаты ему ни кто не даст )
    2. Малолеточки ) В эту категорию попадают все до 30 лет ) Малыши! С вами весело, но скучно. Вам еще надо выпить свой Байкал и лично убедиться, что у всех одинаково, и главное чтобы человек был хороший. И пока вы набираетесь опыта - я скромно постою в сторонке )
    3. Антиквариат. В эту категорию попадают все после 40-45, за оооочень редким исключением. Вы замечательные! Правда, правда! С вами офигительно интересно общаться, но я хочу видеть рядом с собой ровесника, простите!
    4. Предпочитаю кареглазых брюнетов ибо голубоглазые мужчины обладают удивительной способностью разбивать моё бедное сердце.
    5. Телосложение. Ни каких животов! Мужчины, товарищи, коллеги! Вам же приятно идти рядом с ухоженной женщиной, так и меня не лишайте этого удовольствия.
    6. Ребята без целей и амбиций - проходите мимо, мне уже сейчас с вами тоскливо
    7. Мистер "средний стабильный доход" - тоже мимо. И дело даже не в том, что я меркантильная сука, а том, что я хочу видеть рядом с собо победителя, а не кусок унылова гамна (
    8. Исключительно МОСКВА!
    9. Эй, чуваки без фото! Вы на что рассчитываете когда пишете мегаоригинальное: "Привет! Гы гы гы"?. В общем я удаляю вас даже не открывая письмо
    10. Свахи и семейные психологи - чтоб я вас тут не видела!
    11. Женатые - не тратьте своё время и мои нервы
    12. Исключительно славяне!
    13. Я не знаю какую мысль хотят донести мужчины фотографируясь рядом (в) автомобиле - но возникает чёткое ощущение, что ты шофер ) Крепче за баранку держись )

    И напоследок. .. Мальчики! Посмотрите внимательно на мои фото. .. ну конечно я избалована мужским вниманием, мужским обожанием, и я совершенно не хочу чтобы сидя напротив меня вы ерзали на стуле мучаясь комплексами неполноценности.
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #255 on: November 13, 2012, 09:32:20 AM »
Eduard, from what I am able to decipher - she better be very very good looking!
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #256 on: November 13, 2012, 10:29:08 AM »
Eduard, from what I am able to decipher - she better be very very good looking!
She is! And there lies the problem. I'm working with a guy now who is very tall and good looking, women are attracted to him, but he only wants to find a 9 or a 10, only without a child, age 24 to 34 and only from Moscow and St. Pete. I'm finding that it's next to impossible unless he'd be right there in Moscow ready to go out with them right away. These women get lots of attention, they can have pretty much any one or anything they want and keeping their attention is very hard for more than a few days. I have advised him to look in different areas (like Belarus or smaller Russian cities) where women are a bit more down to earth but he wants to do what he wants to do. We do have a few prospects for him to meet but I'm not very optimistic of the outcome.
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #257 on: November 13, 2012, 11:44:05 AM »

Eduard,

I have a very beautiful friend in Moscow (she would be a 9 or 10) but she, as well, expects only the best.  I met her in person and she wore Jimmy Choos, had a Chanel purse, etc.  Somehow, I felt that if I became involved with her, she would be expect much and give little.  Not my idea of happiness.  But. . .  if someone wants to put in the time (and the money) she's available.

(Incidentally, I told her before we met that if she decided she wanted to marry me that she should figure that I would want children within the first two years.  That sure set her off.  hehehehe.)

Ten years from now, I will be that neither your woman in your listing, nor mine described above, find any happiness in their lives.   

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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #258 on: November 13, 2012, 12:15:58 PM »
Eduard,

I have a very beautiful friend in Moscow (she would be a 9 or 10) but she, as well, expects only the best.  I met her in person and she wore Jimmy Choos, had a Chanel purse, etc.  Somehow, I felt that if I became involved with her, she would be expect much and give little.  Not my idea of happiness.  But. . .  if someone wants to put in the time (and the money) she's available.

(Incidentally, I told her before we met that if she decided she wanted to marry me that she should figure that I would want children within the first two years.  That sure set her off.  hehehehe.)

Ten years from now, I will be that neither your woman in your listing, nor mine described above, find any happiness in their lives.   

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You are probably right, Jon. These women are usually incredibly spoiled, have a huge entitlement attitude and they are takers, not givers. They always receive "offers" from men and are always reviewing them looking for better deals. They use men and rich men use them for their beautiful bodies. Their morals are usually highly questionable IMO.
I found a girl for my guy who is from a small town in Belarus, very beautiful but without glam make up and hair. She looks very natural, but still very beautiful, probably a 9 but with the right make up, hair and sexy clothes would be a 10. She is down to earth, has an interesting job that she likes - she is an expert forensic pathologist. Seems like a gem... But he told me to put her on hold and keep searching for a beauty from Moscow and St. Pete... I guess some might say that I'm failing my client, but I don't know what else I can do if he just won't listen to me...
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #259 on: November 13, 2012, 12:43:40 PM »
You are probably right, Jon. These women are usually incredibly spoiled, have a huge entitlement attitude and they are takers, not givers. They always receive "offers" from men and are always reviewing them looking for better deals. They use men and rich men use them for their beautiful bodies. Their morals are usually highly questionable IMO.
I found a girl for my guy who is from a small town in Belarus, very beautiful but without glam make up and hair. She looks very natural, but still very beautiful, probably a 9 but with the right make up, hair and sexy clothes would be a 10. She is down to earth, has an interesting job that she likes - she is an expert forensic pathologist. Seems like a gem... But he told me to put her on hold and keep searching for a beauty from Moscow and St. Pete... I guess some might say that I'm failing my client, but I don't know what else I can do if he just won't listen to me...

Eduard why does your Client want a girl only from  Moscow and St Pete? Whats is blocking him to be open to other cities?

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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #260 on: November 13, 2012, 12:53:36 PM »
Eduard why does your Client want a girl only from  Moscow and St Pete? Whats is blocking him to be open to other cities?
limited time and convinience of travelling to these 2 cities (St. Pete) is only a few hours away by fast train).
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #261 on: November 13, 2012, 01:37:27 PM »
Ed, it seems to me your client just wants a high maintenance trophy wife. If he won't listen to you, then just give him what he wants. Remember the first rule in business?
The client is always right (even if he isn't). Or, you can just drop him due to stupidity. :wallbash:
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #262 on: November 13, 2012, 02:04:12 PM »
Ed, it seems to me your client just wants a high maintenance trophy wife. If he won't listen to you, then just give him what he wants. Remember the first rule in business?
The client is always right (even if he isn't). Or, you can just drop him due to stupidity. :wallbash:
He is actually a very smart, well educated guy, a good guy too with a heart. He believes that we can find what he is looking for in Moscow or St. Pete. His mind is made up and I can't convince him otherwise. If he would be more open to a 9 or 10 with a child, that would change the odds significantly. But a 9 or 10 from these cities without a child, free as a bird with so many different options is going to be very hard to find. And once he finds her there's no telling how things will work out...
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #263 on: November 13, 2012, 02:31:31 PM »
See, the thing is that most beautiful women who are family oriented and nice are married with children since they are pretty young. By the time they are around 30, if they happen to be single again they would usually have a child. And we are looking at the ones who are beautiful, still single with no kids... almost guaranteed that there will be issues.
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« Reply #264 on: November 13, 2012, 02:51:54 PM »
Most definitely agree. The key is how to get your hard headed client to understand this. LOL :cluebat:
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #265 on: November 13, 2012, 03:18:20 PM »
Isn't getting into Belarus still a little difficult for US citizens?
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« Reply #266 on: November 13, 2012, 04:14:49 PM »
Shouldn't we all be clear here? In the face of honesty, isn't the truth really is that you can aquire a trophy wife in the US or abroad. The difference is most WM seek abroad because the women are thin, beautiful and need a better life than exchanging vegetables with each other?

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« Reply #267 on: November 13, 2012, 04:22:27 PM »
I will go as far to say that having known AM looking abroad is simply trophy. The WM looking don't have yacht money. That means, they have an ok income in the states, but they can't harness true trophy. Balding, fat, income failure, but of you go to poor countries to retrieve poor helpless women, well now you are the white horse aren't you?

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« Reply #268 on: November 13, 2012, 04:52:37 PM »
I will go as far to say that having known AM looking abroad is simply trophy. The WM looking don't have yacht money. That means, they have an ok income in the states, but they can't harness true trophy. Balding, fat, income failure, but of you go to poor countries to retrieve poor helpless women, well now you are the white horse aren't you?

Miri, what is your experience with Western or Russian men or women?  Sorry, it is not clear if you are male or female.
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« Reply #269 on: November 13, 2012, 05:11:33 PM »
My experience deals with first hand knowledge of WM seeking abroad. I will leave it at that.

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« Reply #270 on: November 13, 2012, 05:14:52 PM »
...she wore Jimmy Choos...


well, at least they weren't PayLess Choos!
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« Reply #271 on: November 13, 2012, 05:21:39 PM »
My experience deals with first hand knowledge of WM seeking abroad. I will leave it at that.

I am not here to attack you.  But please understand, any person in the world who has Internet access can join this discussion forum and say whatever they want.  So, why should I listen to you?
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #272 on: November 13, 2012, 05:37:07 PM »
Truly Miri, you jest. 

Finding and keeping an FSU woman is probably more difficult than keeping an AW.  It is true that the FSU woman who is looking abroad is probably hoping to up her status, but let's keep it real. 

I have had and sold a yacht.  It was a ChrisCraft 38 aft cabin with room to sleep six and we went to Catalina in it often.  And, yes, I am looking for a FSU woman, not because I can't get a woman here in the US, but because I love Eastern Europe and know that very few AW would choose to indulge that love.  I am tall, not fat, and above average in appearance.  You can judge by my picture.  It is real and recent.

While many will crash on the shoals of looking for a woman abroad, those who succeed are rewarded by a loving, devoted wife - who has made a significant choice to travel for her love, across the ocean and to a different culture.  It is a choice made easier (probably) by the idea of a higher standard of living, but, also of stepping out into the world.

Most of the FSU women that I have met here in the states have been exceptional women because they were willing to meet a life challenge and succeed.  Trophy wife?  I could have a trophy wife here in the US.  I have oft stated that a woman that I choose to be my wife will be someone that I choose out of her desire to love, not by her Barbiesque figure.  (I always try to envision my prospective wife as she will look twenty years from now - not the way she looks now. That way I will always love the person she is as she ages alongside me.)

Did you not read the posts above on this tread?  Those women who we would classify as 'trophy wives' are quickly discarded.  The people who use this forum are thoughtful people who know value and use each other to hone their knowledge and wisdom.

Miri, go find some chatsite where the man are sex fiends or dotards and the women are vacuous, but leave this site to us.
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Re: After a little experience, but still a long way from "MARRIAGE"
« Reply #273 on: November 13, 2012, 05:40:30 PM »

well, at least they weren't PayLess Choos!

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« Reply #274 on: November 13, 2012, 06:54:30 PM »
Isn't getting into Belarus still a little difficult for US citizens?
I had an American client earlier this year who went to Belarus to meet with his woman. He had no problem getting a visa. However if you do anticipate visa problems you can always meet women from Belarus in Kiev. We have done this before with clients and it always worked out really well. They get on the train in the evening in Belarus and we pick them up at a train station in Kiev in the morning.
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