Meeting ladies during Christmas / New Year Vacation

[CDW]

Has anyone ever go to Ukraine via agency to meet ladies during Christmas / New Year vacation?  For example, Kherson Girls Agency.    (I do not mean to go there to meet your already girlfriend or wife, I mean 1st time)

Is it good idea to go there during the vacation?

[ML]

Mixed advice will be given to you by others.

In the past, many have been advised to go because many (most) of the gals (along with guys) take a lot of time off around New Years and Orthodox Christmas; and there is a lot of partying going on.

However, I have  found that during holidays in FSU, most of the gals will be heavily involved with their families and already existing friends; and will not be willing to spend much time with a 'new guy.'  Sure, they will probably encourage you to come and pay for their nights out at the expensive clubs, but then leave you by yourself most of the time while they are with their 'close ones.'

[jone]

Am there right now.  Can already tell you that things are beginning to slow down for the holidays.  Gal says that the amount of time people take off for holidays is nothing compared to what we do in US.   We will be lucky to get three days together with all of her other commitments.  And, yes, it is family time. 

Oh, boy, how many times can I watch "The Irony of Fate - Or What I Did in the Bathhouse"?  Maybe I'll wind up in a flat in 12 Builder's Street!

And I am screwed because Wisconsin is playing in the Rose Bowl this year and I won't even get to see it.  If I were home in LA, I'd be at the game.

[CDW]

Thank you, ML and Jone

I was afraid of their heavy commitment with their families and "existing" friends.   If I want to spend time alone, it will not be in Ukraine especially with the weather at the time of the year!!

[Shadow]

There is a positive and negative side to anything.
If they leave you alone, you know where you stand in their perspective.

[TheTraveler]

If they leave you alone, you know where you stand in their perspective.

so true.

[Eduard]

If you are trying to line up some dates, this time of the year is generally the hardest time to do that for a foreign guy. Most single women are looking for local men to spend the New Year's eve with and hope for a relationship to develop out of that. Most of the time off course the guy quickly moves on and the woman is back on the market. However if a woman is genuinely interested in you she will write back and will be glad if you visit her and spend the New Year's eve together with her. This time could be a good time to deal with agency girls because it is easy to figure out what their intentions are. If a woman is "busy" for new year's eve she probably has a boyfriend already and agency dating is her way of making money. However if she tells you that she'd like to spend this holiday with you most likely she is single and looking.

[CDW]

If a woman is "busy" for new year's eve she probably has a boyfriend already and agency dating is her way of making money. However if she tells you that she'd like to spend this holiday with you most likely she is single and looking.

My thoughts exactly.

Even if she hasn't got a boyfriend, she might not want to spend her vacation just to go for an "interview".   It is like going for a job interview during Christmas vacation, hoping to get a job!

I might as well as going to Marbella for a short vacation !!!

[Eduard]

My thoughts exactly.

Even if she hasn't got a boyfriend, she might not want to spend her vacation just to go for an "interview".   It is like going for a job interview during Christmas vacation, hoping to get a job!

I might as well as going to Marbella for a short vacation !!!

you may even meet some single Russian women vacationing there ;-)

[Shadow]

My thoughts exactly.

Even if she hasn't got a boyfriend, she might not want to spend her vacation just to go for an "interview".   It is like going for a job interview during Christmas vacation, hoping to get a job!

I might as well as going to Marbella for a short vacation !!!

If that is your idea of meeting a woman then you are on the wrong path already.
For a woman meeting a man from a foreign country is not anything like a job interview, which often leads to disappointment as the men seem to lack this understanding.

[CDW]

you may even meet some single Russian women vacationing there ;-)

I saw quite few Russian ladies (from Elenas Models) living in Marbella/Malaga !!  I had a contact with one of these ladies, but it turned out that she is very materialistic.  Not surprise by looking at backgrounds of her photos. 

[CDW]

If that is your idea of meeting a woman then you are on the wrong path already.
For a woman meeting a man from a foreign country is not anything like a job interview, which often leads to disappointment as the men seem to lack this understanding.

Actually it is a job interview for these ladies, but not for the man.   1 man visited to Ukraine / Russia - and he will meet.... how many ladies?  5, 6, 7,.. 10?  If a man wants to meet 10 ladies for an appointment, then it is like a job interview for them.  Nice way spending Christmas/New Year vacation for them (except for the 'winner' lady) !!!

[Shadow]

Actually it is a job interview for these ladies, but not for the man.   1 man visited to Ukraine / Russia - and he will meet.... how many ladies?  5, 6, 7,.. 10?  If a man wants to meet 10 ladies for an appointment, then it is like a job interview for them.  Nice way spending Christmas/New Year vacation for them (except for the 'winner' lady) !!!

As said, the men are incosiderate of the ladies idea of meeting a foreign man. Because honestly, the men that telll the ladies they are in town for 'job interviews' will indeed be moved to a more convenient time.
So only the men that choose not to tell or the ones who are genuinely interested in getting to know a person will get a chance.

[CDW]

As said, the men are incosiderate of the ladies idea of meeting a foreign man. Because honestly, the men that telll the ladies they are in town for 'job interviews' will indeed be moved to a more convenient time.
So only the men that choose not to tell or the ones who are genuinely interested in getting to know a person will get a chance.

If it were the other way round, I wouldn't want to go for an "interview" during Christmas/New Year vacations, unless, of course I am the only person she wants to have an "interview"