Interviews from 3 KhersonGirls ladies

[CDW]

I have received answers from interviews from these 3 ladies.   I will not say who they are, or photos of them.  Let's say  lady A, B ad C.

Lady A: Age 27, no children, works
Lady B:  Age 29, 1 child, works
Lady C:  Age 25, 0 children, works.

I have given them 40 questions, but I select few of the questions below, and tell me which of these ladies and most importantly, in your opinion, WHY?

Do you want to work or stay home?
A - I would like to work.
B - It depends on my future husband.
C - I think that it would be better to work


Why do you want to find a man from other country?
A - Because I haven't found man here yet.
B - I am a bit disappointed with Ukrainian men
C - Because I haven't found him here yet


How do you feel about latest technology such as: iPad, iPod, Blackberry, Samsung Galaxy Notebook, and so on?

A - I would use them with pleasure.
B - It is great that science is developing and we may use this useful things.
C - I wish I have all of them:)


What do you hope from me?
A - I hope we could be a good friends for a start.
B - I think we should meet first. I hope that you will come soon and we will like each other at the meeting.
C - I hope we will enjoy our meeting.


If I ask you what you want for a Christmas/birthday gift, what would that be?
A - A new car . I am a good driver , I like to drive and I would really like to have a car. I like nice clothes, perfumes, I like to travel. I like when men give presents not only for Birthdays and Christmas , but just without reason:))

B - I dream about fury coat

C - If you ask me (and we never met yet) , I would not ask too much:) maybe a souvenir from England or some kind of clothes as you own of one of the clothes shop and you are probably good in design. You saw my pictures and probably have an idea what can fit me.


What will you do with the money if you wins £millions if lottery?
A - I would buy a car( if no one presents:) , part spend for starting a business, part for a house, part put in the bank

B - I would start my own business, invest in property for rent, and give some for charity.

C - I would find a a way to spend them anyway Probably invest in something. Buy property,etc.


Have you been to other countries?  If so, where?
A - I haven't been abroad
B - I have been to Egypt, Russian and traveled around Ukraine.
C - Yes I have been abroad, I travelled to Poland, Netherlands, Belgium, Germany, Dominican Republic, Russia, Turkey and Cyprus


Who would you pick and who would you avoid and WHY?

[jone]

CDW -

It is too early to tell on first reading.  Remember that any initial interviews you do are only precursors to actual meeting.  If you are looking for cross outs, there aren't any. 

Lady A, in her answer about gifts is trying to find out if you are generous.  Unless you have given a lady information about the type of lifestyle she can expect as your mate, your answers will differ until that conversation is had. Lady C is giving an appropriate (but not enthusiastic) response.

Keep in mind that the lifestyle that these women have is not comparable (in Kherson) to the lifestyle you have.  I could not imagine life in Los Angeles without a car.  Yet that is common faire for a Ukranian woman.

I tell you this from experience.  You have no idea what these women are like until you meet them.  My biggest concern in meeting with FSU women was how emotionally restricted they were.  I wanted a woman who was both kind and wise.  (Notice no emphasis on beauty.)  If this is truly going to be the woman that you will spend your life with, find the one who will pass the test of time.

Good luck.

[CDW]

Lady A, in her answer about gifts is trying to find out if you are generous. 

My way to find out if she is a materialistic!    I am very generosity person but I do not want them to take advantage of me, but I am generosity only for 'small' things - not things like a car, iPad, Apple Mac, if you know my meaning

[CDW]

Jone

What do you think of a woman who have travelled to many countries?  Especially to Dominican Republic!!

C - Yes I have been abroad, I travelled to Poland, Netherlands, Belgium, Germany, Dominican Republic, Russia, Turkey and Cyprus

[ML]

Jone

What do you think of a woman who have travelled to many countries?  Especially to Dominican Republic!!

C - Yes I have been abroad, I travelled to Poland, Netherlands, Belgium, Germany, Dominican Republic, Russia, Turkey and Cyprus

High probability that to DR was with a western man.

But, is that totally bad?  The women should have options also.  And those parts do not wear out with usage.

[CDW]

I asked the same questions to 2 of my ex-girlfriends
"If I ask you what you want for a Christmas/birthday gift, what would that be?" 

Their replies were "I want YOU to come here for my birthday"

[calmissile]

I asked the same questions to 2 of my ex-girlfriends
"If I ask you what you want for a Christmas/birthday gift, what would that be?" 

Their replies were "I want YOU to come here for my birthday"

In my experience, that would be a typical FSU response.  Birthdays are more important than any other holiday.  Never forget their birthday, they will not forgive you.   LOL

[CDW]

In my experience, that would be a typical FSU response.  Birthdays are more important than any other holiday.  Never forget their birthday, they will not forgive you.   LOL

That's why I ended the relationship with a lady because she had forgotten my birthday even though we mentioned about it 9 days before.  I told her if she is genuinely interested in me, she wouldn't have forgotten my birthday.   I told her the relationship is based on two ways - not a one-way street.   Just looked at Elenas Model, she is STILL looking!

[jone]

Dominican Republic is a common destination for Ukranians.  Cheap, cheap, cheap.  And the flights between countries are cheap.  I know a gal who has been there twice, with her boyfriend.

Now if she said Miami or Vegas or Hawaii, it would give me pause.  I had a gal who was trying to get me to take her on a cruise to the Caribbean.  Needless to say, she did not last.  (ML, I don't think she drank Foldgers.)

We all have histories.  It is impossible not to.  Again, I agree with ML.  She went to DR with a man, but not necessarily a Western Man.

The true decision as to whether she is the one is upon meeting.  I still say no cross outs.  If she were really smart she would tell you, as ML says, that she wants you for her birthday.  But that was what a pretty pro-dater told me.  And I was dumb enough to believe her.

Jon

[CDW]

Dominican Republic is a common destination for Ukranians.  Cheap, cheap, cheap.

The flight is not that cheap.  From Kiev to Santo Domingo is just at least $1,000

[CDW]

If she were really smart she would tell you, as ML says, that she wants you for her birthday.  But that was what a pretty pro-dater told me.
Jon

My ex-girlfriends weren't pro-daters.   One of them were very genuine woman, but the other woman earned money from her ex-husband to support her children lol

[jone]

I texted my friend Olya.  She lives in Donetsk.  She told me that the price she paid for the round trip was 3200 Gryvnia each.  (She was kind enough to tell me.)  She went on a tour and they booked the whole plane.  It is not unusual to hear stuff like this.

My comment on the pro-dater was that she knew just what to say to tug my heartstrings.   

Still say try them all out.  You may be surprised at the one you pick.  I sure was when it was my turn.  It was the one that I didn't even think that I would like, much less love.

-j

[CDW]

I texted my friend Olya.  She lives in Donetsk.  She told me that the price she paid for the round trip was 3200 Gryvnia each.  (She was kind enough to tell me.)  She went on a tour and they booked the whole plane.  It is not unusual to hear stuff like this.

My comment on the pro-dater was that she knew just what to say to tug my heartstrings.   

Still say try them all out.  You may be surprised at the one you pick.  I sure was when it was my turn.  It was the one that I didn't even think that I would like, much less love.

-j

The lady C is very beautiful woman, and I almost see her advertising on their website, and been there for a year at least.......  the secretary had advised me to pick her along with 5 others when I had list of 20 favourite ladies.

[CDW]

Jone

The question is will 3 ladies be enough for 5-7 days trip in January?

What will I do in the daytime as I am sure that they are working in the day time?   What would you all do in the daytime if you do not have any meetings?????

[Patagonie]

CDW
I would probably put an orange flag on A.
But really, you would know more about her in three meetings maximum.
If you are ready to pay, as in poker, pay to see, you will know.
The problem of women who are beautiful and who had had many opportunities is that they had been spoiled by WM. Some ladies are materialistic by nature but i suppose that many have high expectations because they had been spoiled.
BBy spoiling them WM are finally rotting them. If they are genuine you must do all your possible to not enter in this stupid game.
But i don't think we are this type of men CDW. Unfortunately, when we arrive and meet some ladies who have one or two years of international meetings we can suffer from this type of behavior.
CDW enlarge your pool (hoping all these ladies are from the same city) and go. You cannot  hire them by  asking jury questions like Harvard exam.

[Chelseaboy]

Girl A sounds like a high-maintenance girl.
 
Girl C sounds "iffy" to me.....Has she got a very good-earning job that pays for all these trips abroad.?
Without trying to cast dispersions on a girl i've never met or know anything about,you do realise a lot of FSU "working girls " travel to Dominican Republic to ply their trade ?
There are sex resorts there specifically for FSU girls to earn their money there.
 
As jone said,there is no crime in a previous boyfriend paying for her vacations,but of course it could be a number of previous "boyfriends"/sponsors financing her,especially as you say she's very beautiful.
 
Regarding birthdays,i met a girl in Kiev last year from 17th to 19th November,who told me how wonderful i was,and she subsequently forgot my birthday on 4th December.
She proved to be a prodater/scammer,so your intuition about girls forgetting our birthday is spot-on.
 
 
 
 
 
 

[jone]

Pat is right.

Go with more girls than just three.  You have minimum standards for appearance.  Meet those in the women you meet and then go from there.

Look, you can't go wrong.  If they are not the one, thank them for their time and bounce to the next one.  In your timeframe, I suggest you look for five women.  Keep in mind, one or another might be a no-show.  If out of three that happens, where are you then?

Just thinkin.  My first trip to Kharkiv I had three set up over a 10 day trip.  By the time I left I had met two more.  One of the first three turned out to be a pro-dater.  One was a head turner, but not my type, etc.  If I had not looked farther than my original spread, I never would have met my gal.  And even on this trip, I was not a novice, having been to Kyiv the summer before. And Russia many times before that, although then I was not looking.

-j

[CDW]

Patagonie & Chelseaboy

I thought the same thing about Lady A.  Chelseaboy, and also Lady C.

Lady B seems to be the best as she also wrote me a short letter to wish me a Merry Xmas.  When asking about whether they wanted a big house or a cosy small house or an apartment.    Lady A & C want a big house while Lady B says it doesn't matter.
 
Perhaps I need 2 more interviews - Lady D & E !!

[CDW]

ok Jone..... 2 more interviews

[jone]

I just received a letter from a woman that I had originally considered in Moscow.  She was an absolute beauty.  But talk about high maintenance.  She has learned every trick in the book to get her way paid.  She said all of the right words and would have married me in an instant.

But I saw her five to ten years down the road complaining that life wasn't serving her chocolate strawberries and that she had to be with the children (if she wasn't so into her self that I could convince her to have some).  I saw her as an alcoholic couch potato and will have none of that.  Big head thinking.  I am very happy with who I wound up with.

If a woman has been conditioned to expect certain things in life, there is nothing you can do to undo that.  But if your woman just has desires and goals, maybe you can convince her to help you acheive them together and that is the best of all worlds.

I was showing my gal some of your posts this evening.  She said that every woman wants a big house.  But a big house to a Ukranian woman is alot smaller than a big house in the US or England.  Meet the women.  If you feel that they cannot be happy with a good man, throw 'em by the side of the road.

-j

[CDW]

I just received a letter from a woman that I had originally considered in Moscow.  She was an absolute beauty.  But talk about high maintenance.  She has learned every trick in the book to get her way paid.  She said all of the right words and would have married me in an instant.

But I saw her five to ten years down the road complaining that life wasn't serving her chocolate strawberries and that she had to be with the children (if she wasn't so into her self that I could convince her to have some).  I saw her as an alcoholic couch potato and will have none of that.  Big head thinking.  I am very happy with who I wound up with.

If a woman has been conditioned to expect certain things in life, there is nothing you can do to undo that.  But if your woman just has desires and goals, maybe you can convince her to help you acheive them together and that is the best of all worlds.

I was showing my gal some of your posts this evening.  She said that every woman wants a big house.  But a big house to a Ukranian woman is a lot smaller than a big house in the US or England. Meet the women.  If you feel that they cannot be happy with a good man, throw 'em by the side of the road.

-j

+1

[Eduard]

  You may be surprised at the one you pick.  I sure was when it was my turn.  It was the one that I didn't even think that I would like, much less love.

-j

This happens all the time with my guys. The one they think is going to be "the one" turns out to be different in person or some issues come up when we meet. But one of the "back up plan" girls turns out to be awesome... you just never know until you spend some time together.

[pitbull]

I have received answers from interviews from these 3 ladies.   I will not say who they are, or photos of them.  Let's say  lady A, B ad C.

Who would you pick and who would you avoid and WHY?

It's a no-brainer - the one with the biggest boobs of course!

[ML]

It's a no-brainer - the one with the biggest boobs of course!

No, the one with the longest legs and slender thighs.
Implants can be inserted.  Legs cannot be fixed.

And besides, the larger the boobs, the more the sag as time marches on.

[ML]

Jone

The question is will 3 ladies be enough for 5-7 days trip in January?

What will I do in the daytime as I am sure that they are working in the day time?   What would you all do in the daytime if you do not have any meetings?????

I told in another thread that I tell the gals that our first meeting MUST start around 1-2 PM and last the rest of the work day.

If they cannot commit to this after your trip halfway around the world . . . then drop them.

For me, your 5-7 days is a waste of time unless you are going WOVO.

3 women are not  enough  because you could bomb out with all three and have several days to watch TV in your room.

But 7 or so are too many,  because meeting one a day gives you no chance to follow up with one that turns out to be seemingly perfect.

I meet only one woman (out of 12 or so) each of first 12 days (on my 30 day trips).  These meetings mostly last from 1-2 PM to 10 - 12 PM.  Meeting several women for an hour or two is a waste of time in my view because you really can't get to know much about a woman in 2 hours, except in the cases where you know in 5-10 minutes that there is zero match.  I have had that happen a few times, but always with gals on days 7-12,  by which time I have had good vibes from some earlier gals which allows me to call them for a 'last minute' date when first date of the day bombs out.