Women with Children - more strongly worded advice

[jmana]

....life is more about where he can put his penis?

      -or-

....life is more aboutthan where he can put his penis?

Thanks for correcting me    Hope that wasn't a Freudian slip, haha!

[CanadaMan]

Free porn can have some serious disadvanatges for those who are NOT ambidextrous.

Speaking about over-developed muscles...

Does anyone here know why a woman's index finger is usually her second longest finger (as opposed to the ring finger for men)?

I have a theory.

[Larry1]

Speaking about over-developed muscles...

Does anyone here know why a woman's index finger is usually her second longest finger (as opposed to the ring finger for men)?

I have a theory.

I understand it is the result of lots of testosterone in boys. And not all males have ring fingers longer than their index fingers.

[SANDRO43]

Does anyone here know why a woman's index finger is usually her second longest finger (as opposed to the ring finger for men)?

Writing in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, developmental biologists Martin Cohn, Ph.D., and Zhengui Zheng, Ph.D., of the Howard Hughes Medical Institute and the department of molecular genetics and microbiology at the UF College of Medicine, show that male and female digit proportions are determined by the balance of sex hormones during early embryonic development.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digit_ratio

Digit ratio distribution

[Southpaw1982]

Wow, I forgot to check this website for a while, damn what happened while I was gone?    Now I just need for Alina to find this site and we can have  group therapy session   And yes, I admit it, free porn, well  not just free porn but really GOOD free porn had just become available at about the same time that my ex had begun to seem more interested in other things (other than me), so yeah I indulged a bit!  When she was up in her room doing whatever it was she was doing, I was down in my office doing what I wanted, and yeah she would look down over the balcony to catch me looking, but truth be told I wouldn't have been looking if I hadn't felt ignored.  But that's all water under the bridge at this point, just didn't want people to think I'm some kind of pervert porn addict.  It doesn't even interest me anymore, I guess because I've seen, and done, it all.  At a certain age I think a man has to grow up and realize that life is more about where he can put his penis

Please,  stop covering up your sorry behind already with your BS.  We talked about it a few days ago. You are the one who has to live with what you did.
I was interested in getting ahead in life because i was pulled out of college- to marry  . My grandma and auntie were more interested in you than I was to begin with...Just so you know. So have fun with your awesome grown up life where you are now    You are right though, It was not worth the time of the day to try to have a relationship with a premature man who was jacking off all the time... So, i ignored you and focused on the kid before I moved out. I did not know it was offensive... I admit my screw ups.

[GQBlues]

...You are right though, It was not worth the time of the day to try to have a relationship with a premature man who was jacking off all the time...

Were you not the least bit concerned he may go blind? Were there a lot of inverted socks laying around the house at the time?

[Daveman]

Obviously, there are no remnants of "less than favorable" feelings.   

What a Springeresque plot twist... 

[Slumba]

Please,  stop covering up your sorry behind already with your BS.  We talked about it a few days ago. You are the one who has to live with what you did.
I was interested in getting ahead in life because i was pulled out of college- to marry  . My grandma and auntie were more interested in you than I was to begin with...Just so you know. So have fun with your awesome grown up life where you are now    You are right though, It was not worth the time of the day to try to have a relationship with a premature man who was jacking off all the time... So, i ignored you and focused on the kid before I moved out. I did not know it was offensive... I admit my screw ups.

Most normal men would prefer to have sex with their wife... if they are married but jacking off, what other conclusion can be made but that the wife is refusing to perform one of her regular and normal functions in a marriage.  You seem to be admitting to that?

[Hammer2722]

Most normal men would prefer to have sex with their wife... if they are married but jacking off, what other conclusion can be made but that the wife is refusing to perform one of her regular and normal functions in a marriage.  You seem to be admitting to that?

And, it seems Jmana has found a similar women to marry again! Glutton for punishment?????

[ML]

You are right though, It was not worth the time of the day to try to have a relationship with a premature man who was jacking off all the time... So, i ignored you and focused on the kid before I moved out.

Ah . . . now we get to the real crux of the matter . . .  which came first:

Did the jacking off come because the wife did not attend to her man;

Or did the wife not attend to her man because he was jacking off.

I say the man will not be jacking off if the woman attends to all his needs. 

It is great when the woman fulfills all of her man's fantasies, and has many of her own to propose to her man.

[Hammer2722]

Ah . . . now we get to the real crux of the matter . . .  which came first:

Did the jacking off come because the wife did not attend to her man;

Or did the wife not attend to her man because he was jacking off.

I say the man will not be jacking off if the woman attends to all his needs. 

It is great when the woman fulfills all of her man's fantasies, and has many of her own to propose to her man.

Agreed....

[jmana]

Um, I could say a lot here, but I won't because it's just not worth it.  So anyway, an update to the whole Alina thing, it's been a rough 2 months.  I have learned that we have completely different interests, and opposite tastes in just about everything.  Not that that is a deal breaker, I don't think it's always great to be exactly the same as the person you're dating, but it is nice to at least share some things in common.  Her daughter is behaving better, and Alina's parenting skills are improving, but still have a ways to go.  She still gives her ice cream sandwiches for breakfast on occasion even though I told her that's a terrible thing to do.  Maria still has crying outbreaks for no reason, and tantrums, and Alina covers for her by saying she does it because she's in an unfamiliar place and can't speak the language. But she is learning English, and she is getting better at doing what I tell her.  I think this is the first time in her life that she has had any kind of structure in her life, even though she definitely needs more.  I know the time is running out, but I still haven't completely made up my mind what to do.  I wish I had another couple of months to see if things continue to improve.  I hate to tell her to go home now when things have been getting better and I feel like we understand each other a lot more.  It's so frustrating.  I think about it until my head hurts. 

[Slumba]

.  I have learned that we have completely different interests, and opposite tastes in just about everything.  Not that that is a deal breaker, I don't think it's always great to be exactly the same as the person you're dating, but it is nice to at least share some things in common. 

From experience, I would say, "yeah, it is a deal breaker".

You're not happy now, during the "honeymoon" period ... why do you think it will get better later?

[Hammer2722]

From experience, I would say, "yeah, it is a deal breaker".

You're not happy now, during the "honeymoon" period ... why do you think it will get better later?

It's because he's deluding himself. He thinks it will get better with time because he does not want to admit he made the same mistake in finding a woman who has no interest in him at all. He has not learned from his previous marriage.


The truth hurts doesn't it Jmana. Its just easier to believe it will be better this time. You are not doing your son any favors.....

[Gator]

I have learned that we have completely different interests, and opposite tastes in just about everything. 

To me it sounds like square peg and round hole.

How close did you feel with Southpaw before you married her?  We know how that ended. 

Unless you feel Alina is much closer to you than Southpaw was at the same pre-marriage stage, I suggest you  send Alina back to Russia. 

Southpaw was very young and has shown much drive and determination.  Alina had shown none in what you were writing weeks ago.   Maybe that is what you want - a totally dependent spouse.

It's your life and you know what is best. 

[dogspot]

Does she look you in the eyes, smile at you and tell you how much she loves you?

[jmana]

How close did you feel with Southpaw before you married her?  We know how that ended. 
 

I felt close to her, but it was all lies.  Her aunt was the one writing to me.  You'd think she could have told me that when I went to visit her....  Plus she was all lovey dovey the first few years we were married, but apparently that was all an act.  It wasn't until we moved that she changed.  Probably because other men gave her attention and were promising her things, or maybe it was because she finally had her citizenship.  Who knows, I don't care anymore.  I don't have any ill feelings towards her, or her lying aunt or grandmother. Yeah they milked some money out of me, but it would have been spent on something else I'm sure, so I'm not bitter.   It is what it is.   I wish everyone the best.   

[GQBlues]

Um, I could say a lot here, but I won't because it's just not worth it.  So anyway, an update to the whole Alina thing, it's been a rough 2 months.  I have learned that we have completely different interests, and opposite tastes in just about everything.  Not that that is a deal breaker, I don't think it's always great to be exactly the same as the person you're dating, but it is nice to at least share some things in common.  Her daughter is behaving better, and Alina's parenting skills are improving, but still have a ways to go.  She still gives her ice cream sandwiches for breakfast on occasion even though I told her that's a terrible thing to do.  Maria still has crying outbreaks for no reason, and tantrums, and Alina covers for her by saying she does it because she's in an unfamiliar place and can't speak the language. But she is learning English, and she is getting better at doing what I tell her.  I think this is the first time in her life that she has had any kind of structure in her life, even though she definitely needs more.  I know the time is running out, but I still haven't completely made up my mind what to do.  I wish I had another couple of months to see if things continue to improve.  I hate to tell her to go home now when things have been getting better and I feel like we understand each other a lot more.  It's so frustrating.  I think about it until my head hurts.

It's cheaper to get as much sex now and just let her go just before the 90-days expiration date. Then after that, back to the free porn world, man.

It's the MOB and yah just gotta luv it! It's a huge sack full of warm nutz!

[Hammer2722]

It's cheaper to get as much sex now and just let her go just before the 90-days expiration date. Then after that, back to the free porn world, man.

It's the MOB and yah just gotta luv it! It's a huge sack full of warm nutz!

Didn't you hear? He aint gettin any from Alina either....

[GQBlues]

What time is it?

Ah well...it's inverted sock-y time!

 

[die_cast]

Does she look you in the eyes, smile at you and tell you how much she loves you?

Why would she do that? 

[Gator]

Why would she do that? 

What dogspot described are the sincere, intense and profound feelings one has if in a loving relationship.  Absent those feelings, why get married?

Your comment confuses me because I can read it two different ways:

1.  Your believe such feelings between a man and woman are fatuous because there are more important factors to consider when deciding whether to marry.

   -or-

2.   The time Alina and Jmana have spent together is too short for true love to happen; they are still strangers in key ways.

I don't know you, so I can only guess what you mean.  Please clarify.

[Muzh]

What dogspot described are the sincere, intense and profound feelings one has if in a loving relationship.  Absent those feelings, why get married?

Your comment confuses me because I can read it two different ways:

1.  Your believe such feelings between a man and woman are fatuous because there are more important factors to consider when deciding whether to marry.

   -or-

2.   The time Alina and Jmana have spent together is too short for true love to happen; they are still strangers in key ways.

I don't know you, so I can only guess what you mean.  Please clarify.

I think you missed her question completely.
 
Again, why would she do that? A woman just told you that. Think, man.

[dogspot]

Why would she do that? 

Because she said "Yes", moved half way around the world, leaving behind her family and friends, with the intention of spending the rest of her life with the man she adores and raising their children together. Unless, of course, these arrangements are only temporary.

[Gator]

I think you missed her question completely.
 
Again, why would she do that? A woman just told you that. Think, man.

Still don't get it as I consider the question rhetorical and thus more of a comment.   Second, I consider the rhetorical question ambiguous.   

Muzh, you are able to read die_cast's mind; do I need estrogen shots to attain your level of understanding?