Women with Children - more strongly worded advice

[jmana]

No, you were 24 when that happened. I have the paper work. Same year i arrived in 2000 that Trailer trash incident with the gun...When you were 22 you assaulted another girl, BillyJo, i believe she filled a restraining order.... But, who cares now, right? You are a total angel... 

Oh my god, I was 24 when I married you, I guess I was really busy that year wasn't I There was no "incident with the gun"!  That is what you fabricated from reading snooping through the court files.  Yeah they removed a pellet gun from my car when they searched it and found the pot, I never threatened anyone with it!  Why would I?  You can't hurt anyone with a freaking pellet gun anyway!  At least get your facts straight.  Unless you want me to sue you for slander?!

[Daveman]

Leave the poles out of it, does not go really well. "Piss" does

Or maybe "Pistols"?   

[Southpaw1982]

Yeah if you had another child with me that you were raising, then of course it would cancel out anything you would have to pay.  But you can't just go get knocked up by some other guy and think that will half what you pay to your current son.  And why is it from day one you act like this money goes to me???  It goes to your son.  I just paid $6,000 to put braces on him for god's sake.  How much of that did you pay??  Yeah, exactly.  But continue to make me out to be the villain, using this money to buy online porn

Another child period, not another child with you - HELL NEVER!
You told me it was only $4000...make up your mind...Was that his trust money that his great grandpa left for him? I don't believe you spent your money. Dude, i don't care what you do and I don't care what you say...Go spend some time with Alina, at least make that relationship work...

[jmana]

Another child period, not another child with you - HELL NEVER!
You told me it was only $4000...make up your mind...Was that his trust money that his great grandpa left for him? I don't believe you spent your money. Dude, i don't care what you do and I don't care what you say...Go spend some time with Alina, at least make that relationship work...

$5,700 to be exact.  I can forward you the bill if you are feeling generous and would like to contribute to his smile.  Oh that's right, you told me he didn't need it, you being the dental expert and all....  But I never asked you for a dime for his braces, so don't go making it seem like I'm "profiting" by having him here, because I'm not. 

[Southpaw1982]

Oh my god, I was 24 when I married you, I guess I was really busy that year wasn't I There was no "incident with the gun"!  That is what you fabricated from reading snooping through the court files.  Yeah they removed a pellet gun from my car when they searched it and found the pot, I never threatened anyone with it!  Why would I?  You can't hurt anyone with a freaking pellet gun anyway!  At least get your facts straight.  Unless you want me to sue you for slander?!

 
I feel sorry for you...

[jone]

Geez,

I guess this just about covers every bad stereotype about guys who go looking for MOB women and the women they find. 

Can I ask you both a personal question?  Did the owner of this forum hire you to write a bunch of fiction up here to increase viewership.  If he did, it is much more effective than hiring that oversized Estonian idiot at the other forum.  No wonder RWD's membership is climbing.  Who knows where this will go?

[jmana]

Anyway, this whole thing is ridiculous, I still don't know why she is coming here to air her OLD dirty laundry.  But I'm done with it, I'll defend myself as needed, but otherwise I'm done posting.

[GQBlues]

First, not $500 a month.  Second, do you not think she should have to pay child support?  Why, because she is a woman?  Does it not matter that I've taken care of him by myself for the last 6 years?!  If the tables were turned, I'm sure you wouldn't think twice about a man paying child support.  But that just further goes to show how messed up your idea of equality is. 

And I don't know where you get kiddy porn from, never seen kiddy porn in my life.  Teen porn, yeah I'm sure I've seen 18 and 19 year olds!  I've done 18 and 19 year olds.  I also don't know where this "addict" thing came from either, if I qualify as an addict, then so does 95% of all the other men out there.  I know for a fact I never looked at more porn than a typical guy.  And yeah there were times I would rather watch porn than have sex with her, because I couldn't stand to be around her anymore, so why the hell would I want to sleep with her?  You think just because she's good looking I'd want to sleep with her?  Nah.  There's more to it than that.

I am not at all surprised you missed two points I made in my post you quoted, jmana. You just validated my sentiment you couldn't see past your nose, Pinocchio. You're a self-deluded, self-centered, selfish cheap bastid.

A 'little' bit of pot? A little bit of porn - no addiction? Not kiddy and the teens are 17 & 18? Is that the reason why you were so hot against BillyB for targeting a 16 year old? LOL.

When they caught you with that 'pot', were you doing the Clinton - I-did-not-inhale-it liberal move, too?

$5,700 to be exact.  I can forward you the bill if you are feeling generous and would like to contribute to his smile.  Oh that's right, you told me he didn't need it, you being the dental expert and all....

WTF? It's your kid, too! You have money to import a wife and a child, but you're going to bitch about dental bills for your son?

You have no qualms assuming the responsibility for a child fathered by someone else for the rest of her life, but you're bitchin' and moaning with your ex about a $6,000.00 dental bill for your own flesh and blood?

That, jmana, is what I meant you haven't the clue how to make sure your child is provided for independent of, or regardless if, anyone else's action or inaction.

[jmana]

Geez,

I guess this just about covers every bad stereotype about guys who go looking for MOB women and the women they find. 

Can I ask you both a personal question?  Did the owner of this forum hire you to write a bunch of fiction up here to increase viewership.  If he did, it is much more effective than hiring that oversized Estonian idiot at the other forum.  No wonder RWD's membership is climbing.  Who knows where this will go?

I wish I was at least getting paid to be attacked like this by her! Geesh.  But like I said, I'm done with it.  There's no arguing with a narcissist. 

[Southpaw1982]

$5,700 to be exact.  I can forward you the bill if you are feeling generous and would like to contribute to his smile.  Oh that's right, you told me he didn't need it, you being the dental expert and all....  But I never asked you for a dime for his braces, so don't go making it seem like I'm "profiting" by having him here, because I'm not.

Me being dental expert at all?? You have never shown me his ex-rays or shared any of the medical records I am in title to see them as well.. Because in your head, you have a sole custody somehow. Well, at least you got that taken care of.. Thank you for putting porn aside and taking care of your son's dental work...   You should have as a parent and i am generous enough.

[jmana]

WTF? It's your kid, too! You have money to import a wife and a child, but you're going to bitch about dental bills for your son?

You have no qualms assuming the responsibility for a child fathered by someone else for the rest of her life, but you're bitchin' and moaning with your ex about a $6,000.00 dental bill for your own flesh and blood?

That, jmana, is what I meant you haven't the clue how to make sure your child is provided for independent of, or regardless if, anyone else's action or inaction.

Dude, I never once asked her for a dime regarding his dental bills.  But when she comes on here and makes it seem like I'm profiting off her "child support", you're damn right I'm going to point out that I'm paying out the nose for him and none of that money is going to me!

[jmana]

Me being dental expert at all?? You have never shown me his ex-rays or shared any of the medical records I am in title to see them as well.. Because in your head, you have a sole custody somehow. Well, at least you got that taken care of.. Thank you for putting porn aside and taking care of your son's dental work...   You should have as a parent and i am generous enough.

You can read X-rays now too? I took him to 5 orthodontists, so when all 5 said he needed braces, I tended to believe them and didn't really need your opinion on it. 

[GQBlues]

Dude, I never once asked her for a dime regarding his dental bills.  But when she comes on here and makes it seem like I'm profiting off her "child support", you're damn right I'm going to point out that I'm paying out the nose for him and none of that money is going to me!

According to the two of you, these matters are handled accordingly. Then you have a resource to air out your dissatisfaction with the arrangement whenever you see fit. As far as I'm concerned, you're happy with her CS payments and she IS making her CS payment. Quit bitchin...

In the midst of all of these, you just imported a woman you hardly know, with a child fathered by someone else, yet you have this silly misguided anger at your ex for not doing you think is 'right'.

Dude, you have far more deeper problems than you care to admit.

[jmana]

When they caught you with that 'pot', were you doing the Clinton - I-did-not-inhale-it liberal move, too?

No, I inhaled, inhaled a lot in fact.  Not the night I got arrested though.  But over the course of about a year I used it quite often.  Never really liked it actually.  Everyone says how great pot is, but I really don't see the allure of it at all.

[jmana]

According to the two of you, these matters are handled accordingly. Then you have a resource to air out your dissatisfaction with the arrangement whenever you see fit. As far as I'm concerned, you're happy with her CS payments and she IS making her CS payment. Quit bitchin...

I'm not "bitchin"!!!  She is the one who constantly brings up that I'm somehow using child support to benefit myself, I don't know how many other ways I can write this to get this through your head.  I was pointing out the fact that that money does not go to me at all, it is all spent on him, and I spend a lot of my own money on him in addition to that.  I wouldn't have even brought up the dental bill except for her continually making it seem like I'm profiting off her, which is ridiculous! 

[BillyB]

I'm done posting.

Good idea. lately you two been acting like you're married all over again. Spend some time with your current spouses instead.

Is that the reason why you were so hot against BillyB for targeting a 16 year old? LOL.

Jmana was never hot about me targeting a 16 year old because I never actually did except when I was in high school. GQBlues, you've said that a few times around the forum and I didn't say anything to correct you. Next time you feel truth is important, direct posters to my thread "Life Changes".  The story always seems to change for the worse when you tell it. Same goes for the criminal story on the k-1 documents.

[Southpaw1982]

According to the two of you, these matters are handled accordingly. Then you have a resource to air out your dissatisfaction with the arrangement whenever you see fit. As far as I'm concerned, you're happy with her CS payments and she IS making her CS payment. Quit bitchin...

In the midst of all of these, you just imported a woman you hardly know, with a child fathered by someone else, yet you have this silly misguided anger at your ex for not doing you think is 'right'.

Dude, you have far more deeper problems than you care to admit.

Thank you GoBlues!
He tried to weed out $650 a month from me, but that did not work he he he ... The state guidelines...
He assumed i will live outside and slave for his comfort too.

[Southpaw1982]

Good idea. lately you two been acting like you're married all over again. Spend some time with your current spouses instead.
.

Eww... If not for my son, I would not even acknowledge his pathetic existence. I just have to watch out sometimes, because of porn thing...

[mies]

I had to look up the meaning of copro... and uro...   

For the sake of your son, I hope jmana is normal now.   Alina is into anime cartoons.  Such seem very far away from extreme porn.

 I don't know who Alina is, but some of the most extreme porn is both shown in and inspired by the "peculiar" anime cartoons.
"Gore" is one of the names for it.

and there you go:

  And if I watched something online, like a beheading, it doesn't mean I'm "into" it for god's sake.  People watch all kinds of things because they are bored, and I most certainly was very bored with you!

This is actually how many people get into extreme stuff. They feel that normal sex is not sufficiently stimulating for them.

And here is jmana admitting having this issue:

And yeah there were times I would rather watch porn than have sex with her, because I couldn't stand to be around her anymore, so why the hell would I want to sleep with her?  You think just because she's good looking I'd want to sleep with her?  Nah.  There's more to it than that.

[Southpaw1982]

I don't know who Alina is, but some of the most extreme porn is both shown in and inspired by the "peculiar" anime cartoons.
"Gore" is one of the names for it.

OK, now I am really worried...

[mies]

OK, now I am really worried...

I wish you strength and luck. and to have all the horror of the past relationship behind you.

[Southpaw1982]

I wish you strength and luck. and to have all the horror of the past relationship behind you.

Thank you! It is all behind... Just wish my kiddo  would to make it out alright...

[mies]

What? LOL It is all BS and you don't know shit. Cover your ass all you what it does not change who you are, a bitter miserable man with all sorts of problems and you are twisting everything to cover you.  I feel sorry you, God forgives you. Like i said, you are now Alina's problem, not mine.
Good Lord, and this "person"  is raising my kid...  I don't have a greed problem like you do, you are the one who forced me to go back there every weekend, because you could not afford a food order for your pathetic little taco shop  ( i got that in writing as well, with your signature on it, remember that note? Yeah, that one you were mad about.). NC Judge was not comical, she said she does not cover the custody issues, it was totally irrelevant to child support calculations, so stop making shit up, your talk is cheap and you are beneath me at this point. My man pays for my birth control and i can pay my bills just fine. Looks like you don't.
I don't think I want any more kids, because it will take me a life time to fix my damaged child I already have with you! That poor baby... But that apparently made you jump, because you don't want to get less... huh.... lol  Gotcha! lol (that was a test). People like you suck out of the system, an unproductive human waste, who is going to support you when our kid grows up and my obligation expires? Alina is the next victim? You will snap her kid out and kick her out like you pushed and hurt me? Believe or not it is actually cheaper to pay support, kid eats as much as an adult male
  As far as dancing, I was not going an extra mile for anyone who attends these kinds places, i was making  200- 400 bucks a night on a weekend, it is not really a big money. It was enough to get us by. At least i did not have a drug problem like your sister did, she worked at that club for a while, she went home with these guys, i went home with you to our son. Why doesn't anybody taking her kids away from her? If working as a dancer is so horrible, it needs to be illegal then. Besides, i was helping my mom, I was helping your ass, I was helping with the bills and everybody I could, despite all sorts of limitations and suppression...And after all I am being crapped on, for my honesty... FYI,  I am not afraid what these losers behind the screens think of me  (if they don't see the value of what i am saying)  ...Whatever! ha ha  Public or not, i don't have to cover my ass here, it is what it is. I will say it as it is, whether you like it or not, you are the least of my concerns. You have been to jail, you had police reports filed against you, you had to take anger management class, you were on probation for drug possession etc...Phhhhleeeease, I never called you a monster! I gave you all i had, including a life of a our child and that is how you re-pay me... wow! And you continue trying to screw me over to this day. Go ahead, show them what you have got, hero. I hope this makes you feel better.

I will not make any excuses for myself. I am a fearless mother that wants to help her kid by preventing him from being a loser and a porn addict. That is all. As far as my personal life, I am very happy that I found love. So, it makes it all worth it.

P.S. I was also a ballet dancer for almost 10 years prior coming to US, I have had a very hard time trying to learn to shake ass...My head shakes instead, because the turn out and the hips are formed differently in ballerina's bodies, so shaking ass is very-very difficult and uncomfortable. Just so everyone knows.

This story makes me cry.

I think it should be used as a case study on "what type of guys NOT to marry" in the book of "finding a spouse" advices.

[Southpaw1982]

This story makes me cry.

I think it should be used as a case study on "what type of guys NOT to marry" in the book of "finding a spouse" advices.

True. I am happy to help to prevent these incidents.

[mies]

Thank you! It is all behind... Just wish my kiddo  would to make it out alright...

What I mean is: have your child grow up and stop talking to his dad/seeing his dad once he realizes what a "person" his dad is, and you stop paying jmana money and thinking about him at all.