Hi

[jools182]

Hi

I'm new here

I have been dating a Ukrainian girl for 2 years, love of my life, and sadly, from nowhere seemingly things have broken down

I'm still trying to get over things, I've never felt such magic before, but seems she thinks she can't see how the practicality of it will work

Anyway, I'm hoping that over time I'll get better, and be able to eat and sleep normally again

I now am looking for love again with a Ukrainian or Russian girl. I have never really liked girls from the UK, and they seemingly are not attracted to me. I love the way eastern European girls are feminine, take care of themselves, like you to be the man, and strange as it seems, I like the way they can be a little aloof about emotions etc

So I'm wondering the best way to find a girl from one of these countries. I'm still looking on topface, but that's a real gamble, I'm sure hundreds of guys message the girls there every day

I've heard about some people having success on VK, anyone had experience with this?

I am not a player, I just hope to find that special one. I really thought I had until a month or so ago, but I can't give up

[Wayne]

How much time did you spend with this Ukrainian girl and how often did you see her?
 
Perhaps she got tired of waiting and found another guy?
 
Were/are you willing to live in Ukraine?

[jools182]

I saw her every couple of months, we talked all day every day on a messenger app, and we skyped at least a few times a week

We usually spent a week together, a couple of occasions for 2 weeks

Every time we met was better than the time before.

I think the problem was leaving her Mum as they are very close, then I was going through a lot of stress with moving house then renovating the house I am in now, so maybe didn't pay her enough attention. The troubles in her country also worry her greatly. i would have relocated there, but I think it's already gone past that point

it was true love for us both, I have no doubt in that, but she closed up to me and pulled away. She's a thinker, I mean she thinks all the time, and has bouts of depression, so I think it was bad timing with me moving, the troubles in Ukraine etc

Anyway, I am trying my best to move forward even though she's all I think about, I need to get my life moving again, and hopefully find love

[CDW]

I think the problem was leaving her Mum

Welcome to Forum.  I am also from UK.  Portsmouth.

Anyway, that's one of the reasons I always avoid women who are too close to their families.

[GQBlues]

...I have been dating a Ukrainian girl for 2 years, love of my life, and sadly, from nowhere seemingly things have broken down.

I'm still trying to get over things, I've never felt such magic before, but seems she thinks she can't see how the practicality of it will work.

Anyway, I'm hoping that over time I'll get better, and be able to eat and sleep normally again...

    

Wifey and I will be at the Bowl tonight to finally meet Arnel and the Steve Perry-less Journey. So I'd like to dedicate this arguably greatest rock sobby-sob love song ever sang. 

 

[GQBlues]

Okay...one more:   

[BC]

Hi

I'm new here

I have been dating a Ukrainian girl for 2 years, love of my life, and sadly, from nowhere seemingly things have broken down

I'm still trying to get over things, I've never felt such magic before, but seems she thinks she can't see how the practicality of it will work

Anyway, I'm hoping that over time I'll get better, and be able to eat and sleep normally again

I now am looking for love again with a Ukrainian or Russian girl. I have never really liked girls from the UK, and they seemingly are not attracted to me. I love the way eastern European girls are feminine, take care of themselves, like you to be the man, and strange as it seems, I like the way they can be a little aloof about emotions etc

So I'm wondering the best way to find a girl from one of these countries. I'm still looking on topface, but that's a real gamble, I'm sure hundreds of guys message the girls there every day

I've heard about some people having success on VK, anyone had experience with this?

I am not a player, I just hope to find that special one. I really thought I had until a month or so ago, but I can't give up

Start just being a bit of a bad boy.

Be able to walk up to women and simply state your attraction and base intent whether at home or abroad.  You might get slapped, but even that will attract other women looking on

I get the feeling (maybe wrong) you're just being too nice.

[dogspot]

   

Wifey and I will be at the Bowl tonight to finally meet Arnel and the Steve Perry-less Journey. So I'd like to dedicate this arguably greatest rock sobby-sob love song ever sang. 

 

I don't know what's sadder....this dude losing his chick or someone paying to see Journey in 2014.

[GQBlues]

I don't know what's sadder....this dude losing his chick or someone paying to see Journey in 2014.

 

Pay? LOL. You still pay for these?

Coldplay too at Royce on Monday. Gotta know peeps.

Besides, Journey's all-timer to me!

[Gator]

it was true love for us both, I have no doubt in that, but she closed up to me and pulled away. She's a thinker, I mean she thinks all the time, and has bouts of depression, so I think it was bad timing with me moving, the troubles in Ukraine etc

You felt deep, true love.  Did she?  I am sure she really liked you, yet if she had feelings of true love she would:   leave her mum, speak openly with you, etc.   The depression could also be a factor.  I gather she is really young, and that is another factor.

In other words it is too complicated.   Best not to dwell on it but find someone else.    When you do, you will forget about your -ex. 

Meanwhile, when communicating with new FSUW, DO NOT MENTION your ex-girlfriend.  Not once unless they ask, and then have a one sentence response ready.  Why?  You want to learn about the new women, not dwell on a woman from the past.  Besides, FSUW want a "strong man."  Pitiful is not strong. 

[Maxx2]

Meanwhile, when communicating with new FSUW, DO NOT MENTION your ex-girlfriend.  Not once unless they ask, and then have a one sentence response ready.  Why?  You want to learn about the new women, not dwell on a woman from the past.  Besides, FSUW want a "strong man."  Pitiful is not strong.

That is good advice although it gets a little more complicated if you had a failed marriage to one as I did. The natural Russian woman skepticism makes for a more difficult explanation. In your case jools though there is no need to mention anything about your ex-girlfriend. Of course mentioning her could show his seriousness in finding a wife but it would have to be carefully stated as Gator said. Less said is better.

[GQBlues]

...Best not to dwell on it but find someone else.    When you do, you will forget about your -ex....

 


Exacta-mundo!

Invest in yourself. Eat and sleep normally again, and soon.

Life's too short to be feeling sorry for yourself especially when there's way too many wonderful women to meet and too little time. There's more women today than there were even 10 years ago. And-man-oh-man, they seem to get better and better looking everyday!!!

She ain't *special* if she left you so seemingly EASY. The *special* one is out there waiting for you and you ain't finding her if you keep feeling sorry for yourself and dreaming of things that are untrue. There's a darn good chance her *special* one came walking by and all of the sudden, nothing matters more in her life and you're at home singing Air Supply songs with ML.

Don't get caught up in the silly 'she's testing your love' silliness either. LOL. Ditch her booty and find yourself another gal who isn't into game playing. You'd be better off for it.

[Maxx2]

 
There's more women today than there were even 10 years ago. And-man-oh-man, they seem to get better and better looking everyday!!!

And you know why that is GQ? John Cougar Mellencamp has the answer







Remember the Shaw quote? "Youth is wasted on the young"

[Gator]

I don't know what's sadder....this dude losing his chick or someone paying to see Journey in 2014.

 

Maybe I did worse on your scale of musical tatses.  Wifey and I went to a Gipsy Kings concert in a small theater, paid $50 per seat, and enjoyed ourselves immensely (even though my limited Espanol failed me). 

She liked it better than the show "We Will Rock You."   Russian tastes in music favor what many Americans would find esoteric if Queen is considered mainstream.

[GQBlues]

maxx-

I'm serious about the women both in quantity and quality. I know it isn't just true in LA alone. It's gotta to be true everywhere. There just are more women everywhere and at anytime....

I hate all things 'Kardashian', but not too long ago we saw Kendall Jenner in person and dang! the gal is growing up to be one helluva bomb! She's one of the prototype of women littering everywhere these days, maxx.

We were on State Street, Sta Barbara a couple of Sundays or so ago...and man...I'm sure Coachella and Indio last month must've been hot.

So for the OP, dude, forget the silly heartache for now. Hide the Air Supply Kareoke machine for now. You just ain't got time for that. If you don't get out there soon, someone else is definitely going to get more than their fair share - including yours...

[Maxx2]

maxx-

I'm serious about the women both in quantity and quality. I know it isn't just true in LA alone. It's gotta to be true everywhere. There just are more women everywhere and at anytime….


Blah, blah, blah

Nah, the older you get the less fussier you become hence more hot women [size=78%] [/size]

[Jumper]

 


Exacta-mundo!

Invest in yourself. Eat and sleep normally again, and soon.

Life's too short to be feeling sorry for yourself especially when there's way too many wonderful women to meet and too little time. There's more women today than there were even 10 years ago. And-man-oh-man, they seem to get better and better looking everyday!!!

She ain't *special* if she left you so seemingly EASY. The *special* one is out there waiting for you and you ain't finding her if you keep feeling sorry for yourself and dreaming of things that are untrue. There's a darn good chance her *special* one came walking by and all of the sudden, nothing matters more in her life and you're at home singing Air Supply songs with ML.

Don't get caught up in the silly 'she's testing your love' silliness either. LOL. Ditch her booty and find yourself another gal who isn't into game playing. You'd be better off for it.

Exactly,
forget her, the relationship, and get back out there.
if she was truly in love with you, no matter how sour it might taste to admit, she would have moved heaven and earth for you
(as you would have for her right?see the difference?)

so forget it,, and ditch any Journey or Air Supply songs and thoughts.


Lots of fish in the sea,
Good luck!

[BillyB]

I have been dating a Ukrainian girl for 2 years, love of my life, and sadly, from nowhere seemingly things have broken down

it was true love for us both, I have no doubt in that, but she closed up to me and pulled away.

You've dated your true love for two years and you didn't take it to the next level? The girl talked to you all day everyday and I think she finally got tired of waiting. If you don't learn to lock up quality women faster, another guy will.

[fathertime]

I saw her every couple of months, we talked all day every day on a messenger app, and we skyped at least a few times a week

We usually spent a week together, a couple of occasions for 2 weeks

Every time we met was better than the time before.

I think the problem was leaving her Mum as they are very close, then I was going through a lot of stress with moving house then renovating the house I am in now, so maybe didn't pay her enough attention. The troubles in her country also worry her greatly. i would have relocated there, but I think it's already gone past that point

it was true love for us both, I have no doubt in that, but she closed up to me and pulled away. She's a thinker, I mean she thinks all the time, and has bouts of depression, so I think it was bad timing with me moving, the troubles in Ukraine etc

Anyway, I am trying my best to move forward even though she's all I think about, I need to get my life moving again, and hopefully find love

howdy sir....you are catching a little crap with the 'air supply' references...BUT i'd say it is good to have that old fashioned romantic thing still alive in you (how old are you?)...for others *myself included* that romantic innocent form of love died long long ago....all that said...you gotta temper yourself and toughen up some...that is  usually reality.


good luck,


Fathertime!   

[jools182]

Thanks for all the advice guys

I am looking, but I was looking for advice on where to look

Anyone had success on vk?

[BillyB]

I was looking for advice on where to look

Anyone had success on vk?

Some people have had success with vk but most of the ladies on vk, based in the FSU, aren't interested in relocating to another country. In the link below, there are a number of sites recommended you can use.


http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14615.0

[CDW]

Thanks for all the advice guys

I am looking, but I was looking for advice on where to look

Anyone had success on vk?

Apparently I found a lady who is interested in me from a dating site.  Wrote me many letters, but when I found her in vk, she stopped writing to me and denied ever writing to me from the dating site.     In the end, it was HER that wrote to me from dating site.  lol

So, she must be a pro-dater then!!

[GQBlues]

Nah, the older you get the less fussier you become hence more hot women

I won't be surprised that is so true for many....

...
I am looking, but I was looking for advice on where to look...

Have you tried gumtree.com? If RWs are your persuasion, aren't there a whole bunch of them right there in your backyard?


Journey concert review: AWESOME. Great comp tix! Concert Review here...

It's always good to hear the sounds of the Bay Area bands. Wifey recognized Steve Miller's 'Abracadabra, Fly like an Eagle, and danced with air Jetliner'. I liked hearing 'The Joker; live. As for Neil's band...music I grew up with along with Aerosmith's were just phenomenal! I'd post pics of wifey with the whole band, but she'll kill me if I did...

[steveboy]

Blatant advertising is not permitted on the forum. 

[steveboy]

I understand that:) I did not think it was advertising? I am actually GIVING EVERYONE in the forum something totally free, no costs, fees, and no catches.
And it is something most people visiting the forum want but no worries:)