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[lordtiberius]

Why didn't any of those adventures make you want to marry one of those gals?  What was different between them and the lady you married?  Something must have been drastically different to make you want to travel thousands of miles to a totally different country.

Yeah.  I changed.

[calmissile]

Now that is some upstanding christian behavior!

I chuckled at the same thought.     

[lordtiberius]

Its not that hard boys.  To unlearn, that is harder.

[AC]

You are asking the man to venture away from his comfort zone. 

I'm very comfortable with what he wrote, in fact I agree with everything he wrote.

How about you?  Are you comfortable with it?  Were you dating waitresses, or the women he wrote about?

Did you go overseas looking, or did you marry one of the women he wrote about?  That's right, you're "different".

[Anotherkiwi]

Hi AC,

Here is where they are.  Go to central office area of any large city.  Go to the most expensive office buildings.  Seek out the corporate headquarters, law offices, investment banking offices, etc.

These places are filled with beautiful, educated, slender women.  They are every bit as fantastic looking as any you will find in FSU.  But they dress professionally rather than looking like prostitutes as the FSU gals do to catch your eye, so you have to take more than just a quick glance.

You won't see them on the street anywhere.  They drive into the underground parking lots.  They don't walk in the malls because they go directly to Neiman Marcus, etc.

You've posted this (or near enough to it) on at least a couple of prior occasions during my time on the forum.  It makes excellent sense, and it's something that newbies should be aware of - just because you don't see the equivalent of the AnastasiaDate models walking around your local area, it doesn't mean that they aren't there.  You'll just have to look harder (and have an income to match  ).

[2tallbill]

+1     

It's not only better with FSU women, it's better with most all non-Western women as well.

There are excellent Western Women, who are thin, beautiful, attractive, intelligent
and, interesting. However, by the time you reach my age nearly all of them are
married and the very few that aren't, are not spread evenly across the country. You
can find them in major cities like San Francisco working in the financial district, but
you won't find them in many areas at all.

I now live in Western North Dakota. There are zero unmarried women. Even the
290lb (131KG), toothless, tattooed women with bad breath and an  ankle bracelet
that reports their location to their parole officer has a circle of men around them.
Don't get me wrong, I could have beaten the others out for the woman but it
would have been a bit rude to snatch away a woman that I didn't want. 

It takes 18 hours to drive to Portland Oregon or 23 hours to drive to San Francisco,
in either place I could find a slim, attractive, sexy, interesting woman, but no matter
what you do, you will not be finding a woman in Western Norf Dekody.

OR

I can fly to Voronezh Russia in 24 hours door to door.

For some reason in Russia once a woman reaches a certain age (approx 35) her
options become more limited. Even if she is beautiful, thin, sexy, educated and
interesting she finds it difficult to find a local man who wants to marry her and
start a family. If she has a child this limits her options even more.

Don't get me wrong there are plenty of local men who would be more than happy
to jump her bones, but not ones who want to marry her and help raise her child. 

So if you are sitting in a blizzard in Norf Dekody and making travel plans what
do you do? Get into the car and drive through the snow or go to the airport and
fly to a place where there are virtually millions of unmarried, beautiful, educated,
slim, sexy, clever and interesting women who really want marriage and a family?

The answer for me was to fly to Voronezh Russia to meet a beautiful girl who was
over 180 cm. After about three days it became obvious that things weren't going
to work out so I went to a internet cafe, opened my profile on Mamba and started
writing letters.

The first several girls I dated were not to my liking so I kept writing letters. I have
a strict policy of not recycling girls. If a girl isn't a candidate for the future Mrs 2tallbill
then there is no reason to ever date her again. Why waste her time or mine?

Eventually I saw a girl online a social media site who had the most amazing green
eyes that seemed to smile only at me. So I wrote her a letter. She wrote back and
we met. She was a potential Future Mrs 2tallbill, I really liked her and she really
liked me. I stopped looking and spent the rest of my trip with her.

This is a critical element that many men WMVM ignore.

1. ONCE YOU FIND THE FUTURE MRS YOUR NAME HERE ___________________
STOP DATING and pursue only her.
2. If you don't have mutual chemistry then never date her again.

After 4 trips to Voronezh and 2 trips to meet me in the USA we were married.

There are beautiful, intelligent, sexy, interesting women in the USA. After the
age of 37-40+ they are scattered around the USA very unevenly and they can be
found. However, there are countless numbers of this age group of women in
the FSU and they are not difficult to find for a man with at least average social
skills, who looks normal with good hygiene and with decent prospects. 

If you are socially inept then the FSU is probably not for you. Maybe you can
hire a wingman like Eduard or a guide to keep your kidneys from being sold.

Udachi!

Bill

[lordtiberius]

That's good advice.