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Offline Anotherkiwi

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #25 on: December 26, 2014, 12:11:16 AM »

She is a very beautiful girl indeed. Unfortunately, her life -style prevents her from meeting men, in my opinion. She works a lot and she spends the little free time she has with relatives. For example, her last vacation she spent going to a lake with my brother's kids.


I helped her to publish her profile on EM, but I was shocked with how little interest she got. I guess it is difficult to compete with real pics against the photo-shopped ones,... or maybe fewer men are interested in going to Russia now. I do not know


Nobody sent me a PM from this forum either.

Three things here:

Firstly, as others have posted (and you confirmed), you've specified the USA, preferably somewhere near you for convenience.  I have no problem with that but, as I don't live in the USA, I would count myself out.

Secondly, she's years younger than I'm looking for.

Thirdly, I'm above what she's looking for in age, so that's three strikes!  :cluebat:

I do wish her the best of luck in finding someone wonderful.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #26 on: December 26, 2014, 12:26:27 AM »
Its far!


http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnaul

How would you get there?

For crying out loud.  Barnaul is a major city, with direct air links to Moscow.

And the declining state of our bilateral relations?

That's a separate matter.  If you don't like Russia because of what's happening in Ukraine, you're not going to go anywhere in the country.

I knew a girl from Omsk, Nizhny and Tartastan.

What?  You knew one girl who lived in all those places?  At the same time?

But I think VW's cousin is even farther.

True, if you're on the east coast of the USA, but it depends which way you're travelling.  Barnaul is a lot closer to New Zealand than Moscow is.

I knew a girl from khabarovsk siberia but I think she was closer.

Only true if you're travelling westbound - Khabarovsk is 3,600 kilometres east of Barnaul!  :devil:


I am sure she is a gem.

I'm sure that she is, too.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #27 on: December 26, 2014, 12:51:17 AM »
Good luck in your search.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #28 on: December 26, 2014, 06:35:04 AM »
As far as POF is concerned well I think that is a dead lick. You have to find someone that is looking to get on a plane and probably one that already has. I do know one ole boy from North Georgia, good guy, nice guy, been a few times. Obviously he has a few criteria no smoking, no tattoos, etc etc but a nice guy all the same.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #29 on: December 26, 2014, 08:11:44 AM »
Its far!


http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnaul

How would you get there?  And the declining state of our bilateral relations?

I knew a girl from Omsk, Nizhny and Tartastan.  But I think VW's cousin is even farther.  I knew a girl from khabarovsk siberia but I think she was closer.

I am sure she is a gem.


As Anotherkiwi mentioned, there are direct flights from Moscow to Barnaul. And Olga lives in 20 minutes of a car ride from the airport.
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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #30 on: December 26, 2014, 08:12:09 AM »
What part of the US do you live in?


I live in PA.
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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #31 on: December 26, 2014, 08:13:24 AM »

I do wish her the best of luck in finding someone wonderful.


Thank you :)
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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #32 on: December 26, 2014, 09:41:56 AM »
It seems to be a common thing for FSUW to have that hairstyle where the front fringe is horizontally cut straight across.
Personally I'm not a fan of that style of haircut, and you don't see this style much with WW.

This seems like a silly complaint.  I suspect she is being in style where she's at (Russia) and would likely change her style to whatever is in style in the West.  Her manner of dressing seems more relevant to me and she dresses very nicely and when the occasion calls for it elegantly.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #33 on: December 26, 2014, 09:49:45 AM »
I helped her to publish her profile on EM, but I was shocked with how little interest she got. I guess it is difficult to compete with real pics against the photo-shopped ones,... or maybe fewer men are interested in going to Russia now. I do not know

I think that there has always been some reluctance to go to Russia when Ukraine does not require a visa.  Seems silly but there is also the fact perception that travel costs less there because of shorter distances and just in general.  Perhaps silly reasons for favoring one place over the other yet it might have something to do with it.  Now with deteriorating relations between Russia and the West that might be an even greater challenge.

Is her profile still listed on Elena's Models?  Sometimes it takes time.  There is no set deadline for finding ones other half, IMO.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #34 on: December 28, 2014, 09:27:58 AM »
She is a very beautiful girl indeed. Unfortunately, her life -style prevents her from meeting men, in my opinion.
Just curious if she has really done much work to try to find a local man in Russia?  I stumbled across this Ekatinburg dating web site and took a quick look.  Was surprised about how many men were on the site.  Decent, normal looking men.
http://love.e1.ru/

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #35 on: December 29, 2014, 12:50:57 PM »
If you want an honest opinion vwvw, not to sound demeaning but if I saw your cousin on a website I probably would skim past her. There are many many attractive girls( as your cousin) of many many dating/marriage sites.
To each their own....maybe it will take time to find a man that would be instantly be attracted by your cousins pics, it ALL starts with the pics.....
RPD ( formerly know as RWD) has much older guys 40++ ( ;) ) than any women in late 20's would be looking for.

BTW- I save the word 'beautiful' till I fill the inner 'beauty' of a women!!!
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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #36 on: December 29, 2014, 04:18:59 PM »
VWRW-
Thanks for posting, tell her to not be discouraged and keep at it.

 I wish you and her good luck in the search!!
:)


  Men reading here should be interested, after all it's likely a very good way to meet someone genuine.
A long standing member giving a good review and ability to contact directly.Avoiding all the oft complained about agency issues,and nothing to lose just to try.


 For those who might be finding any reason not to, it may very well be why you're still looking. :popcorn:

 I did not take the post as she was only looking for a given country,
and even if she was, what harm would there be in contacting her to see if she was open to corresponding with you?

If a western man posted an attractive 29 yo open to a relationship here, and none of you in that general age range contacted him about her, I think i see what might be wrong with a lot of peoples searches.
  :cluebat:

Now ,if i spark some controversy that's quite  ok too,
the thread will get a few more reads and hopefully increase her odds.
Seems like the kind of woman,men should be looking for after all.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #37 on: December 29, 2014, 06:56:56 PM »
Jumper is right. If I were single, well I am single but if I were single and looking at maybe jumping back into an international love affair also known as a grease fire to most well then I would be asking for contact into. Your cousin is pretty and I'm sure she is smart and I'm sure she would be quite the catch. She would have you to support her here. That's a kind of a big deal me thinks. Of course it would be nice for guys to know her expectations. If you don't work, she might not feel she should. If you own a Lexus, she might want one. If you vacation in NYC, Gatlinburg might not be her ideal venue to spend her time. At the end of the day someone here or anywhere is going to have to get on a plane and hopefully more than once and even then the wheels come off from time to time but good luck to her and you.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #38 on: December 29, 2014, 07:24:01 PM »
I see quite a bit of downside here...

Since the lady in question does not know much English, it is going to take the prospective foreign suitor quite a while to discover her 'inner beauty'.

As we know it can all blow up in the first 10 minutes of the first actual meeting, it just makes no sense for a WM to do this as a WOVO trip considering the lady's home city of Barnaul is in the middle of Siberia. Therefore will vwrw be happy knowing the prospective foreign suitor already has plan B, C, D & E mapped out for alternative ladies to meet in Barnaul, even before arriving there to meet her cousin for the first time?

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #39 on: December 29, 2014, 08:51:43 PM »
And excuses like these is why some guys will be still looking for years to come.     :D

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #40 on: December 29, 2014, 08:57:36 PM »
how bad /good is her english ?

might it be  a good idea to have her join the forum ?

let her personality shine for herself ? it can only help her english
she is clearly a well  educated & nice looking lady , who does dress well

where she is should not be an issue really as any guy will need to travel to somewhere if he wishes to meet a lady
while she might ideally wish to meet a guy from the USA , it would not stop me from contacting her if i was single and lived elswhere
i wish her success in her adventure

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #41 on: December 29, 2014, 09:11:13 PM »

where she is should not be an issue really as any guy will need to travel to somewhere if he wishes to meet a lady


There is a big difference between travelling to Siberia compared to more convenient places like Moscow or St Pete's, both in terms of logistics and the ease of implementing backup plans should the meeting with the original lady results in nothingness.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #42 on: December 29, 2014, 11:46:15 PM »
There is a big difference between travelling to Siberia compared to more convenient places like Moscow or St Pete's, both in terms of logistics and the ease of implementing backup plans should the meeting with the original lady results in nothingness.

yes  travelling out to say novosibersk is more of an effort, than st petes .. but if you connect with the right lady it isnt that big a deal imho
if you want success , make the commitment ,

, ''people will find lots of reasons to not do something , rather than just do it ,  if you really want something you will find a way , how bad do you want it ?

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #43 on: December 30, 2014, 08:42:13 AM »
Why any of you single and looking guys would not contact vwvw for this lady's contact info is beyond me. What's wrong with you, are you stupid? She has vouched that the lady is sincere, seeking a man and open to international relationship. What more do you want?   :rolleyes:

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #44 on: December 30, 2014, 08:53:36 AM »
 . . . someone to hand feed me lobster.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #45 on: December 30, 2014, 10:06:00 AM »
. . . someone to hand feed me lobster.

You're looking for a sister wife for your #1?

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #46 on: December 30, 2014, 10:31:47 AM »
Yes, a fifteen minute marriage.  Mullah say sheep are for eating.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #47 on: December 30, 2014, 01:08:18 PM »
Yes, a fifteen minute marriage.  Mullah say sheep are for eating.

Well then, Allah be praised

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #48 on: December 30, 2014, 04:37:38 PM »
Her cousin is smoking hot though, if I wasn't a boy hugging animal lover, he would go up to that girl and wuss out.

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Re: Attention men who are looking.
« Reply #49 on: April 11, 2015, 09:03:13 PM »
Gentlemen, I would like to help my relative, Olga, to find a nice man. She 29 y.o., has a bachelor degree in engineering in chemistry, no children, and never married before. She is kind and always in good mood. Everybody likes her in the family. This summer when I was in Russia, we spent much time together. She is one of three nicest people I know. She lives in Barnaul. The only shortcoming she has is lack of proficiency in English, but she is determined to learn the language.  She is open to the possibility to meet a man from the US, who is 30-45 y.o. If you are interested, please contact me via private messages.


She is very pretty and obviously smart.  Added to your already knowing her, I would say she is a gem waiting for a very lucky man.  Hopefully someone in the age bracket will have the wisdom to take the trip.  Most of the lookers on here, I am a married sixty year old lurker, claim they are afraid of scams.  This takes the scam right out of the equation.  I wish her the best and commend you for trying to help two people with no motive other than kindness.
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