Greetings everyone!

[Ed S.]

Hello everyone,

Allow me to introduce myself. I'm relatively new to this, but I've spent a lot of time preparing myself. I've been reading this forum for a while, and have done a bit of research before I joined EM. I have a friend who met a FSU in the States, and I've talked with him a bit as well. I don't have any illusions that this process will be a cakewalk, but I've felt that women from the FSU are slightly more inclined to guys who are serious about relationships than AW at this point in life.

I've only officially been at this for about a month, and I've gotten some results. Women on EM definitely are more responsive than my experiences on Match.com and the like. I even encountered a scammer, and with a little common sense and from what I've read on here, I managed to spot it immediately. EM lived up to their reputation and in the matter of hours investigated and blacklisted the account.

I'm willing to learn and would love to receive your insight!

[Larry1]

Ed S., welcome to the forum. It's a great place to learn about searching for a wife in FSU.

And you have already noticed something that all of us who were on Match.com and then FSU dating sites noticed: it's much better to search for a wife in FSU.

[AC]

Hello everyone,

Allow me to introduce myself. I'm relatively new to this, but I've spent a lot of time preparing myself. I've been reading this forum for a while, and have done a bit of research before I joined EM. I have a friend who met a FSU in the States, and I've talked with him a bit as well. I don't have any illusions that this process will be a cakewalk, but I've felt that women from the FSU are slightly more inclined to guys who are serious about relationships than AW at this point in life.

I've only officially been at this for about a month, and I've gotten some results. Women on EM definitely are more responsive than my experiences on Match.com and the like. I even encountered a scammer, and with a little common sense and from what I've read on here, I managed to spot it immediately. EM lived up to their reputation and in the matter of hours investigated and blacklisted the account.

I'm willing to learn and would love to receive your insight!

Welcome to the forum, Ed.  Once you date a really good FSU woman don't be surprised if you swear off American women forever.  Of course now the naysayers will come along, but you can make your own decisions.

Match.com is a joke.  The quality of the women available does not match what is available overseas, and the AW have a large sense of entitlement.  An AW who really is nothing but a 5 or 6 acts like she is a 10, and chances are you might not fulfill her huge bucket list so no date to begin with.

FSUW are a lot more open minded about not doing too much pre-screening, but giving a guy a chance, so you can go on some real dates and have a good time.

[Boethius]

Hi Ed,


There is an outstanding UW who is a new poster here.  Read her thread, look at her photos, and see if she is someone you'd like to get to know.

[Ed S.]

Match.com is a joke.  The quality of the women available does not match what is available overseas, and the AW have a large sense of entitlement.  An AW who really is nothing but a 5 or 6 acts like she is a 10, and chances are you might not fulfill her huge bucket list so no date to begin with.

FSUW are a lot more open minded about not doing too much pre-screening, but giving a guy a chance, so you can go on some real dates and have a good time.

Ha! I'm glad you guys agree. Every girl I actually ended up meeting in person (a small fraction of the total I contacted) was really fickle and flaky. They had really oddly specific requirements in the guy they wanted, and tended to avoid a sense of commitment. One girl in particular said she didn't really believe in the whole "boyfriend-girlfriend thing" and that marriage was obsolete. Needless to say, that went nowhere!

[AC]

Ha! I'm glad you guys agree. Every girl I actually ended up meeting in person (a small fraction of the total I contacted) was really fickle and flaky. They had really oddly specific requirements in the guy they wanted, and tended to avoid a sense of commitment. One girl in particular said she didn't really believe in the whole "boyfriend-girlfriend thing" and that marriage was obsolete. Needless to say, that went nowhere!

I agree with you, and it's very discouraging.  Marriage and commitment seem to be dirty words to many of these women. 

Now I have met and know some fantastic AW, but they are already in a committed relationship or married.  The really good ones get snapped up fast, and I notice that usually they have married their high school or college sweetheart. 

You may yet meet one who is single and fantastic, so don't ignore that possibility, but why not also expand your horizons overseas?

[AC]

Hi Ed,


There is an outstanding UW who is a new poster here.  Read her thread, look at her photos, and see if she is someone you'd like to get to know.

He looks young like her -- I agree, he should get in contact with her!

[BillyB]

I have a friend who met a FSU in the States, and I've talked with him a bit as well.

Apparently you are happy with what your friend has going for him. There is a difference between FSU women and Western women and the differences turn men on. I can spot FSU women in public easily. The key is finding a good woman and you'll be happy. You've done lots of reading here so you are better prepared than most guys in this endeavor. Make sure to call or Skype with the ladies you're writing to now. It's a wonderful thing when they are excited to hear your voice or see your face when you call.

[ML]

Come on guys . . . don't repeat those rosy scenarios back to this guy.

And besides, all the good FSUW are already taken by the married guys here.

[Ed S.]

I agree with you, and it's very discouraging.  Marriage and commitment seem to be dirty words to many of these women. 

Now I have met and know some fantastic AW, but they are already in a committed relationship or married.  The really good ones get snapped up fast, and I notice that usually they have married their high school or college sweetheart. 

You may yet meet one who is single and fantastic, so don't ignore that possibility, but why not also expand your horizons overseas?

I'm on the same wavelength as you! I'd love to meet the Girl Next Door just randomly, at the coffee shop or work conference etc. However, I don't know where she is, but it sure ain't next door!

[BillyB]

all the good FSUW are already taken by the married guys here.

When Ed goes to the FSU, I don't think he'll complain about the leftovers waiting there for him.

[AC]

I'm on the same wavelength as you! I'd love to meet the Girl Next Door just randomly, at the coffee shop or work conference etc. However, I don't know where she is, but it sure ain't next door!

Here is your Girl Next Door.  Get in touch with her!  Just read her thread and send her a PM if you like her!


http://www.hotrussianbrides.com/russian-brides/profile-542311.aspx

[Steamer]

Welcome Ed and good luck in your search!