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Is it possible to be in love even if you do not meet the person ?
« Reply #25 on: January 29, 2005, 07:13:27 AM »
Ken,
Instant love can happen, although it may be rare. Two people
have to be open to it. The mind is mysterious and I think your
initial impressions of Lena were ACCURATE, meaning your
subconscious brain detected a good match immediately.
Society says that this must just be 'lust'. I say we just don't
know how the brain works and there are intelligent processes
happening without our conscious knowledge. Intuition can
be accurate, intelligent, and wise.  -doug

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« Reply #26 on: January 29, 2005, 07:22:43 AM »
Bruno,

I'm not sure I read it properly. Are you saying she is not
beautiful on the surface, physically?

In my opinion, women should be with a guy who thinks they
are beautiful inside AND outside. I only initially choose women that
make me feel like making love to them physically. I think women
want that. When I don't know a woman, I begin with her
appearance. Do I want to kiss her? From there, I go on to
discover her other inner qualities that tell me about her
emotions, thoughts, and spirituality. None of these should
be neglected, including the physical. Obviously, in the beginning,
it's easiest to know whether or not a woman is attractive. The
other qualities require investigation. In my opinion, many women
are lovable. It's a matter of opening one's heart and using one's
head to judge compatibility.    -doug

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« Reply #27 on: January 29, 2005, 09:35:08 AM »
[user=115]Donna_Pedro[/user] wrote:
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Is it wise to be in love with the picture? Is it responsible? I would even put this question as - is it responsible to fall in love before you get to know a person properly, even if you saw him for a few days, most of which you spent in bed? Its the lives of 2-3 people, not pictures we are talking about..

 Donna,

Wow, I agree with you 100%.  (That might be a first.) :P  This issue becomes even more serious if there are children involved.  It may be OK for some to be irresponsible with their own lives , but when children are relying on a parent, then the irresponsibility behavior becomes unforgivable.

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« Reply #28 on: January 29, 2005, 02:09:02 PM »
I dunno...
I think Bruno is exploring a love option via the internet where he can fathom love, without the physical lust factor coloring his thinking.

While I fully agree with the majority of posters that it's crazy to absolutely fall in love with a photograph, I'm pretty sure two people can learn to trust and feel love/affection without ever meeting.  That is beyond a photograph, there are letters, phone calls, etc.; there are feeling involved that can not be expressed in a forum like this.  

That said, Bruno needs to get his butt on an airplane very soon and determine if everything is as he thinks.  He needs to make sure it's real from both sides, not just his.  I'd say Bruno is a classic WOVO, and there's nothing wrong with that, more power to him.

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« Reply #29 on: January 29, 2005, 03:18:26 PM »
JB, i have already meet Galina one time... and the next time is for May, ... and the marriage for December/January...

From the first meeting, all was perfect but we write always a lot now because during the meeting have appear some thema of problem that we have forget speak about it before...

And like you say, i try to forget the physical side... Why ? Because this have lead to the missluck of my first marriage... the lust have make me blind and i have not see that we was not make to life together...

Doug, i find Galina very attractive and beautiful... but what i will say is that i am not fixed on the physical side... Beauty is something relatif... and the example with the two photo show it... and when we become old, the physical beauty dissappear... i wish find my wife always beautiful, same when she will be 90 year old, and this is only possible with inner beauty, the charm ...

The problem, several man search RW because they have the reputation to be beautiful, marry them fast without take the time to know her, and show her like a trophy in US... Love is first a question of feeling... the physical is the result of the feeling... not the main goal... you don't marry only a body but a personn... with a heart, a mind and a body

 

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« Reply #30 on: January 29, 2005, 03:21:08 PM »
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Bruno needs to get his butt on an airplane very soon and determine if everything is as he thinks. He needs to make sure it's real from both sides, not just his.

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« Reply #31 on: January 29, 2005, 03:46:58 PM »
anono, can you read !!!

[glow=red]I HAVE ALREADY MEET GALINA[/glow]

I hope it is big enough... if i post about this, it is because i know it is working and from the two side...

Чтобы по-настоящему любить женщину,
Чтобы понять ее,
Ты должен глубоко узнать ее,
Слышать каждую ее мысль,
Видеть каждую мечту,
И давать ей крылья, когда она хочет летать.

To really love a woman,
To understand her,
You've got to know her deep inside
Hear every thought,
See every dream,
And give her wings when she wants to fly


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« Reply #32 on: January 31, 2005, 06:47:09 PM »
If you have never met someone it becomes the Marilyn Monroe syndrome.

You correspond with someone who is physically beautiful and tells you all you want to hear. I think you deceive yourself into thinking it is love.

I have learned the hard way love must be reciprocated or it will always fail.

One partner is usually stronger but it takes two to tango.

 

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